My ED was really acting up one day, so I brought out my pump and showed her how nicely it pumped up my dick. She didnt' seem overly impressed; however, she cautioned me not to hurt myself. I haven't brought it out again, but she knows where I keep it in the bathroom along with my
extender, which she is not aware of though I am sure she is aware that I do more than pumping. I guess you can say my secret is in the details.