Have I been gifted another chance???

BSA and looking4girth you’ve got the nail on the head 100%! A good friend has told me about these tactics and said it’s a hard skill to learn them but once you gets that mindset it’s easy!
 
...yep, it becomes a part of your everyday behavior. practice on girls you have zero feeling for and see for yourself
 
I’d like to see this girl one more time before she goes back to uni Ngl,but she said she doesn’t want either of us to get attached so i guess that’s why she messages like once a day when she feels like it. I’m chatting to some other girls and I’m trying the whole response game and it seems to be working coz they seem really keen to meet!
 
Stripeee;749430 said:
I’d like to see this girl one more time before she goes back to uni Ngl,but she said she doesn’t want either of us to get attached so i guess that’s why she messages like once a day when she feels like it. I’m chatting to some other girls and I’m trying the whole response game and it seems to be working coz they seem really keen to meet!
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Try this Strip if you are not already doing it. If she is messaging you once a day, don't be quick to respond. Take several hours or even wait until the next day to respond to her message. If she asks what took you so long to respond, tell her you were deep in something that you did not want to get out of, lol. One suggestion i could make is to not see her before she leaves. You already know the connection is not going to happen so just go ahead and make that break. Once she realizes that you are not her door mat anymore, you may notice a change in her
 
daily text messages from women = a leash

she just wants to be sure you will always be at her beck-and-call...DO NOT RESPOND immediately no matter how tough
 
Big Schwanz Acht;749443 said:
daily text messages from women = a leash

she just wants to be sure you will always be at her beck-and-call...DO NOT RESPOND immediately no matter how tough
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Its a game and you need to play the better role. Absence makes the heart from founder!
 
Big Schwanz Acht;749457 said:
Abstinence makes the dick grow harder :)
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I can attest to this! :)
 
My dick is getting harder atm Ngl! Hahaha, yeah if she messages later I will try leaving it around 24 hours then reply. I am tempted to just open the message then not respond for a while I.e a few weeks. I know I’ll get abuse but I was gonna message her before she leaves n just say like “all the best at uni, would be great to see you again in the near future”

Please don’t crucify me!!!!
 
Stripeee;749604 said:
My dick is getting harder atm Ngl! Hahaha, yeah if she messages later I will try leaving it around 24 hours then reply. I am tempted to just open the message then not respond for a while I.e a few weeks. I know I’ll get abuse but I was gonna message her before she leaves n just say like “all the best at uni, would be great to see you again in the near future”

Please don’t crucify me!!!!
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Don't do it
 
Thought it wouldn’t go down well...I still feel I need to tell her eventually how I see her n feel about her. Just feels better if I do for closure
 
Big Schwanz Acht;749597 said:
we gotta get you laid, lol
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So strange BSA but I no longer crave this. I simply do not think on sex too much any longer. Kind of a freedom for me.
 
Stripeee;749626 said:
Thought it wouldn’t go down well...I still feel I need to tell her eventually how I see her n feel about her. Just feels better if I do for closure
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I would not do that if I were you. I would simply tell her good luck in her future endeavors and see what kind of response you get
 
'for closure'?? Are we on 'Oprah'??!! fuck closure, that's just fem-speak and it makes you look like an absolute eunuch (look it up). If you were a girl, would you want to spend any time with someone looking for 'closure'?
 
Big Schwanz Acht;749674 said:
'for closure'?? Are we on 'Oprah'??!! fuck closure, that's just fem-speak and it makes you look like an absolute eunuch (look it up). If you were a girl, would you want to spend any time with someone looking for 'closure'?
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LMAO....Love this rant!
 
Well the last message I sent was basically “it was great seeing you, I hope you liked seeing me”....no response. It breaks my heart coz she clearly wants nothing to do with me ever again and I have feelings for her deep down that she’ll never know.
 
Stripeee;749765 said:
Well the last message I sent was basically “it was great seeing you, I hope you liked seeing me”....no response. It breaks my heart coz she clearly wants nothing to do with me ever again and I have feelings for her deep down that she’ll never know.
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You have feelings for the 'idea' of her, not the 'actual' her. I'll quote a bit of Red Pill Logic that made sense to me when I read it a few years ago:

Men love idealistically, meaning that we believe a woman truly loves us for who we are and not what we are (read that so it sinks in)

Women love opportunistically, meaning that they love what we are and not who we are. It's in their 'firmware' due to needing men for protection and provisions.

If you're having a conversation with a friend about a new girl you're seeing, does your friend ever ask 'what does she do?' Two women talking about a new guy, within the 1st 30 seconds they'l inquire, 'what does he do?'.

Once you begin to understand that women and men come-at love from two completely different spaces, you can then have a fighting chance...right now you may be a 'cute puppy', but eventually you'll end-up in the pound
 
Stripeee;749765 said:
Well the last message I sent was basically “it was great seeing you, I hope you liked seeing me”....no response. It breaks my heart coz she clearly wants nothing to do with me ever again and I have feelings for her deep down that she’ll never know.
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Take a minute and read your post and tell us what you did wrong in that exchange. Not coming down on you but in order to learn you must first be able to recognize your mistakes and then correct them
 
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