Have I been gifted another chance???

Deep down in my heart of hearts I this is doomed to fail and won’t go anywhere, Ngl of me did think about messaging again but 99% thought very much against so I didn’t. When she comes back at Christmas time I may just say “hi” if the occasion arises but I deffo need to try n get back out there and meet new females, I mean my confidence and skill with females is absolute 0 right now so surely the only way is up from here.

Tbh I laughed at Lookn4girths’s idea of her finding out I have a much bigger dick! Just hoping these results will start to show soon and be plentiful!
 
Stripeee;741520 said:
Deep down in my heart of hearts I this is doomed to fail and won’t go anywhere, Ngl of me did think about messaging again but 99% thought very much against so I didn’t. When she comes back at Christmas time I may just say “hi” if the occasion arises but I deffo need to try n get back out there and meet new females, I mean my confidence and skill with females is absolute 0 right now so surely the only way is up from here.

Tbh I laughed at Lookn4girths’s idea of her finding out I have a much bigger dick! Just hoping these results will start to show soon and be plentiful!
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Thanks strip, that is what it is all about. Don't weigh yourself down with regret, let her be the one to carry that around. In the meantime, keep working on your routine and wait for the next one to come along to share your treat with:cool:
 
Screw the past, it does not exist. All you have ion the moment and in this moment you are OK. So you need to brush up on some dating skills, that sounds like fun and if I were not celibate I would really like to practice this. I can't really remember how to pick up a girl but I do know there are many men here who can help you, especially Dashdeming and Threak, both have very good dating skills.
 
My information on dating is over 30 years old so I would not be a good choice for dating adviceLMAO
 
do want a girlfriend or several? I'd suggest getting as many women as you can so your value in the dating sphere is as high as possible. Women Do NOT think the same way we do and they always question themselves, so if other women have an interest in you so will their girlfriends

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hpYQsckWno
 
Big Schwanz Acht;741646 said:
do want a girlfriend or several? I'd suggest getting as many women as you can so your value in the dating sphere is as high as possible. Women Do NOT think the same way we do and they always question themselves, so if other women have an interest in you so will their girlfriends

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hpYQsckWno
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Especially if word gets around in that circle that you are king ding-a-ling
 
I am quite excited about getting back out there but it’s just a case of getting the ball rolling so to speak. I just don’t know how to get started and approach females tbh.
 
Stripeee;741656 said:
I am quite excited about getting back out there but it’s just a case of getting the ball rolling so to speak. I just don’t know how to get started and approach females tbh.
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Casual conversation is a good place to start. Surely you are interacting with females on a daily basis. It can be a good idea to sit in a coffee shop or restaurant and listen to women talk sometimes. You can overhear some crazy shit sometimes. You just have to talk to them, there is only one of two answers you will get, I am fine how are you or get the hell away from me. Have some confidence and go for it
 
Not really I’m afraid. I go to a gym but 2 new gyms have opened in my area which are modern trendy fitness centres and that’s where most people go seeing as there’s the novelty of joining somewhere knew. I work in a retail environment but there’s never anyone there that I could approach in that way tbh.
 
Stripeee;741768 said:
Not really I’m afraid. I go to a gym but 2 new gyms have opened in my area which are modern trendy fitness centres and that’s where most people go seeing as there’s the novelty of joining somewhere knew. I work in a retail environment but there’s never anyone there that I could approach in that way tbh.
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Put the vibe out there and see what you catch. If you work in retail the potential candidates have to be numerous, just don't get fired for being a perv. I remember my retail days many years ago, I scored the 2nd hottest woman (hottest one being my wife of course) in my lifetime as a manager of a retail store. She came in as a customer with her friend and all I did was help them with what they needed and they were waiting for me at my car when I got off
 
There are a couple of girls I’ve seen that I’d like to talk to but I just don’t know how to really. Thing is I just don’t give off a confident attractive vibe that girls will be attracted to and want to talk to again, I guess I’m just very ordinary in that sense so that’s why I don’t really bother anymore. (Yes being negative isn’t attractive I know)
 
Stripeee;741784 said:
There are a couple of girls I’ve seen that I’d like to talk to but I just don’t know how to really. Thing is I just don’t give off a confident attractive vibe that girls will be attracted to and want to talk to again, I guess I’m just very ordinary in that sense so that’s why I don’t really bother anymore. (Yes being negative isn’t attractive I know)
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The quote that comes to mind is from Road House, Be Nice. No matter the woman, big, small, beauty queen or anything else, be nice but don't let on that you are trying to score some ass and you might be surprised what falls at your doorstep. Self confidence will go a long way but you are the only one that can change that. I would not have considered myself Mr GQ either but it did not stop me from trying to hook up with any girl
 
Lookn4girth;741785 said:
The quote that comes to mind is from Road House, Be Nice. No matter the woman, big, small, beauty queen or anything else, be nice but don't let on that you are trying to score some ass and you might be surprised what falls at your doorstep. Self confidence will go a long way but you are the only one that can change that. I would not have considered myself Mr GQ either but it did not stop me from trying to hook up with any girl
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Great advice...I'd also add to just be extraordinary in your mind and it will permeate out your pores. Give yourself some credit, most guys sit on their ass and do less than nothing, you're improving yourself and have value in who you are and what you're becoming...let that guy out for the world to see/admire
 
Big Schwanz Acht;741790 said:
Great advice...I'd also add to just be extraordinary in your mind and it will permeate out your pores. Give yourself some credit, most guys sit on their ass and do less than nothing, you're improving yourself and have value in who you are and what you're becoming...let that guy out for the world to see/admire
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Well said sir
 
It’s just a case of discovering it from within I guess. I just need more practice but like I said it’s just getting the ball rolling that I’m struggling with
 
Stripeee;741873 said:
It’s just a case of discovering it from within I guess. I just need more practice but like I said it’s just getting the ball rolling that I’m struggling with
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Like Nike, just do it. Don't think about it too hard just put yourself out there and see what happens. Rejection is part of the game but you have to use it to hone your skills and no matter what, don't let the rejection get you down. It is like gambling in a way, you put it out there enough, the odds will pay off eventually
 
the more positive you see and feel about yourself, the more people will feel it...it's real
 
Oh definelty, I’ve had similar advice before from people and I just found it hard to take on board and apply it to myself tbh
 
Big Schwanz Acht;741886 said:
the more positive you see and feel about yourself, the more people will feel it...it's real
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So true. When I was coming up in Catholicism I was told I am a dirty worm, worthless and I needed see this in myself to Love God the right way! What a freaking joke! When I became a born again Christian I was told the complete opposite. When I was Catholic I hated myself and everyone around me saw in me that way. When I finally was able to cut all religion out of my mind and accept the Word of God as the Bible says (NOT MAN!) I realized I am a worthwhile child of God and that I should let my light shine bright so the whole world could see! I am a accepted, beautiful and righteous in the Love of God. Today I shine bright for all to see and that is what I project, a man who is worthwhile and loved! So many people come up to me now asking how I found such happiness so Big you are right, the world will notice.
 
So true...Catholic School all the way to College, but it never sunk-in for me. I basically doodled or day-dreamed my way through it. Each year thereafter has been a positive progression (with a few stumbles here/there). Fortunately I'm always learning/searching and found MOS almost 3 years ago...this has been a huge leap in personal development and a couple years ago I discovered The Rational Male which truly put male/female dynamics into perspective for me.

My Mantra: always have something to look forward to (which prevents regret from looking backward)
 
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