Such interesting philosophy about men and women loving differently, such an expansive thought, it truly has opened my eyes and I’ll always be greatful for it all!
Well, I’m regard to my post, I’ve been soft and shown her a weakness that I’m prepared to accept her however she sees me and am grateful for that no matter what it may be. Something like that?
Well, I’m regard to my post, I’ve been soft and shown her a weakness that I’m prepared to accept her however she sees me and am grateful for that no matter what it may be. Something like that?
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Stripeee;749826 said:
If all you feel you deserve is scraps from some girl that doesn't give a crap about you, sobeit. Clearly we have self-esteem issues if you're willing to be treated in this way AND continue to engage. good luck
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Stripeee;749842 said:
You will have to do something that changes the way she thinks
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Stripeee;749887 said:
That is what you are aiming for. The more you appear not to give a rats ass what she thinks or does, the more interesting you will become to her. It is possible that the tide turns at that point and she becomes the one wearing the leash
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Stripeee;750012 said:
You posted in another thread that you have had several opportunities for sex but could not because of your surgery. Is this a result of you practicing some of the tactics suggested?
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Stripeee;750131 said:
You are on the right track Strip. The only thing I would do different is let the girl be the one that initiates the more intimate messages. You keep your responses less intimate for as long as possible and this is when you will see how it looks from the other side
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escalating into sexual banter takes a deft hand...keep it on the fun/funny side and you'll usually be fine but watch-out for land mines and shit tests
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Big Schwanz Acht;750184 said:
Yep
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doublelongdaddy;750217 said:
oh my, you've been celibate far too long, my friend
women are constantly 'shit-testing' men (their SO/BF/Hubby) to make certain they haven't been 'duped' by some poseur. These tests range from the benign to the out-right combative, just to ratify that you're 'man material'. Depending on your 'relationship' investment, failure can result in the erosion of her respect for you and ultimate demise of the union.
I believe we, as men, have a sense of 'plateau' once we've solidified with the woman of our choice, where women see that plateau as more of a 'stair-step'. As long as you're maintaining your 'game' and passing her tests, you'll still be considered 'respectable' in her eyes, but if you start slipping or being lazy, she'll be off looking for the 'bigger/better' deal.
