gains.... but looks the same

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hey guys,

Having Penis Enlargement'd for around 5 or 6 months now, I finally measured today and am seriously shocked! I've gained 1.3 inches in length (now 7.4 inc EBPL) and .2 inches in girth (now 5.3 inc) - which is VERY pleasing!

However, to me, my fella looks no bigger than he did pre-Penis Enlargement - DEFINITELY not nearly 1 and a half inches longer anyway.

Also, when looking in the mirror (from various angles) I still think it looks 'average' - and when I compare it to some of the members pics on here and at other Penis Enlargement sites, who claim to be my size or less, their cocks look bigger than mine!

My girl is away travelling (back in 12 weeks tho!!) so I have no '2nd opinions' to go off.

Why do my gains not 'show' guys? - opinions/guidance gratefully accepted.

Thanks all
WI
 
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Its hard to see any change from day to day. Because you see your penis every single day. If you have before and after pics though, it will be easy to see that big of a change.
 
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Well since it is such a gradual process and you're there for the whole thing it is a good bet you won't notice the gains. Girth would probably be far easier to notice than length because you can notice your fingers getting tighter and tighter around the shaft. But with length and visually looking down on it all the time you really get accustomed to the gains.

Wait for your GF to get back and see the reaction ;)
That'll really let ya know how you've progressed. But self-perception is a strange thing. Pictures with a digital camera or something may help and then you can put them side by side with the one's on the Forum and truly see how you're doing. Good luck!
 
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I agree on the girth vs length comment. I've gained a little in both and can only notice a girth difference.
 

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Its also a MENTAL thing not really seeing new gains.
Us men have a tendency, ESPenis EnlargementCIALLY us lot here to undermine our success in Penis Enlargement.
I am a PRIME lol example for this, I still think I aint that large many times during the week/month, yet I know deepdown and others tell me I am HUGE.
Its all MENTAL, you have gained ... you ARE Larger than before.
Just a case, of clearing your head and really seeing this for yourself, than accepting it and drill that into the mind so you feel more positive.
 
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thanks guys, I appreciate your advice. Intelligent and sensible as always.......

WI
 
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Yeah bro, its just like seeing yourself grow taller, or memeber of your family, when your with them day in day out, you dont notice it.
 

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TheExecutioner said:
Yeah bro, its just like seeing yourself grow taller, or memeber of your family, when your with them day in day out, you dont notice it.
nail hit on head.
 

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TheExecutioner said:
Yeah bro, its just like seeing yourself grow taller, or memeber of your family, when your with them day in day out, you dont notice it.
I think this is very true and I know a way to combat this and put things into reality. If you go out and buy some modeling clay and make molds of your penis month to month the changes would be very apparent.
 

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Also, I think if you take pics and look at it, it will look bigger. Honestly, when I look in the mirror, it looks about the same as it did to me when I was 13 years old ( 4 inches shorter and probably 2" less girth). But if I take a pic with a polaroid or camera phone and take many different angles for perspective I feel much better.
 
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doublelongdaddy said:
I think this is very true and I know a way to combat this and put things into reality. If you go out and buy some modeling clay and make molds of your penis month to month the changes would be very apparent.
Yes this is a good idea, you could also take a photo with your penis say next to an object like a Coke can or something then compare it against the object a few months down the road.
 
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Yes this is a good idea, you could also take a photo with your penis say next to an object like a Coke can or something then compare it against the object a few months down the road.
This is even better for motivation because it's very hard to be objective about your dick. Period. So when you see it next to an object you'll appreciate the size that much more. I recently took some pics with my dick next to a bottle of Miller (it was empty :p ) and suddenly my dick looks huge. Still looks the same to me without the bottle but at least now, every time I see a bottle of Miller I can think about how big my dick actually is.

For added motivation use an object that you see women (or just your girlfriend) handle, like the remote or something. ;)
 

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The problem with progress pictures are they are 2 dimensional. Seeing something always leaves room for doubt, even when there is a ruler involved. I wish I made clay casts of myself throughout my entire program. It would be awesome to hold, feel and touch a 3 dimensional objects of my progress.
 

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