Fantasy

smerc;594176 said:

Does she play a MMO (WoW)?

When you get off from work and shes @ home. What usually happens? Watch tv, cooking, cleaning, showering?

I'm curious what she does.


I'm also curious why the OP and second post of yours is not there. Does she check your history? Assuming she sees that you created this thread.
Considering your OP was about you know what and there is a gal that you might want to pursue. You might go ahead and go for it.
That might spark motivation to leave your situation or push someone out of it.

Just make sure she doesn't get dirt on you as that's the last thing you want. Shes putting you in this position.

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She plays Runescape. When I get home at 1:30-3am she's usually on the computer playing her game. I'll take a shower and cook me some food, watch tv for an hour or so usually until whenever she gets off the computer then we go to sleep, sometimes if I can't sleep I'll stay up later. When I wake up she's usually on the computer and she'll stay on until I leave at 330. Just deleted the first couple posts because this post has changed topic lol. Heres what she says today on my lunch...

"I don't know what to do anymore. I really don't want I can do to make you happy anymore. God, I love you more then anything. But everything I do is wrong, everything I say is wrong. Why don't you care for me? Would you even care if something happened to me? I love all of our memories. I miss laying in the back of the truck all night, or going to sonic, or taco bell getting chicken soft tacos. I miss riding around town. I miss our midnight swims. I miss everything about us. I miss you. I miss whe you lvoed me. I miss it all. I want you back. I am sorry I am a bitch. But I am so scared something is so wrong with me, why else would I bleed for a month straight? And u dont care to help me, you want a tattoo oof a half naked girl, and I dont want that. I dont want to stare at that while we have sex or anything. I want u to only want me. Dont do this to me. It hurts to bad. I am literally nothing without you."

As for the tattoo thing, I'm a welder and I.was trying to think of a welding related tattoo(I have a bunch of tattoos already) and I ran the idea of a pinup girl welder by her and she freaked out. I don't think it's that big of a problem?

I responded...
I love you too, you've just pushed me away so much. I want to be in love with you more than anything but you're not who you used to be. Be happy and act happy with me and drop the attitude with me all the time. I don't want anyone else, I only want YOU the one I feel in love with. It's just a tattoo that I thought would be cool. You removing everything just about us off Facebook for no reason is one major thing that pushed me away alot. Not wanting to be affectionate is another, having an attitude with me, being lazy and letting clothes and dishes sit around the house. And you're right, right now I'm not sure if I care or not but I do love you and all our memories and I want to care. It's just hard when I've been pushed away so much.

So now that I'm acting like I don't care and told her to leave she's trying to change...

I would not get that tattoo go do the things she loves Taco Bell,midnight swims,laying in the truck,going for drives go to the doctors with her if she's worried about the bleeding show her you care might create that spark back.
Don't cheat on her it will just cause more problems if it doesn't work out maybe your not meant to be together but maybe you are and this is just a hurdle,she sounds very worried about the bleeding needs to be checked take a day off if you have to and go with her.

8incyclops;594220 said:

I would not get that tattoo go do the things she loves Taco Bell,midnight swims,laying in the truck,going for drives go to the doctors with her if she's worried about the bleeding show her you care might create that spark back.
Don't cheat on her it will just cause more problems if it doesn't work out maybe your not meant to be together but maybe you are and this is just a hurdle,she sounds very worried about the bleeding needs to be checked take a day off if you have to and go with her.

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I've tried taking her out and doing things we used to when we first got together and she doesn't want to. Just wants to sit on her computer. I've tried to get her to go to the dr and she won't, over text when I'm at work and when I'm at home with her she's two totally different people. But yes a 27day period is not good at all.

LNL;594230 said:

I've tried taking her out and doing things we used to when we first got together and she doesn't want to. Just wants to sit on her computer. I've tried to get her to go to the dr and she won't, over text when I'm at work and when I'm at home with her she's two totally different people. But yes a 27day period is not good at all.

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well her not going top the doctor is stupid. stupid as fuck! ditch this chick. if she missed those things she would do them with you.

Shes an addict to that game. It seems she just became really complacent as a result of it. It happens to numerous people that play WoW.

I assume you pay the internet bill? Does runescape require a monthly membership fee like WoW does?

LNL;594210 said:

So now that I'm acting like I don't care and told her to leave she's trying to change...

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Usually how it works. Doesn't seem like she is trying to change though as you haven't pointed out much that shes doing other than current her repetitive nature.


Just get a torch tip tattoo on your pointy finger. I can understand the girl thing and her having a dislike for that. That's all up to you.
Is it a big problem (the tattoo)? No and yes. Depends on how your girl portrays it in her mind. At the end of the day it's your body. It's a fictitious girl after all. Don't recall you saying where you wanted that tattoo.
If you're the type of person that would get those types of tattoos, then she should know that by now. Seems she doesn't know you.

LNL;594210 said:

Would you even care if something happened to me?

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LNL;594210 said:

But I am so scared something is so wrong with me, why else would I bleed for a month straight? And u dont care to help me,

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LNL;594230 said:

I've tried to get her to go to the dr and she won't

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Did you call her out on her bullshit?

smerc;594260 said:

Just get a torch tip tattoo on your pointy finger.

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That is an awesome tattoo idea!!!

youknowme123321;594265 said:

That is an awesome tattoo idea!!!

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Get a ruler tattooed on the dick

LNL;594230 said:

I've tried taking her out and doing things we used to when we first got together and she doesn't want to. Just wants to sit on her computer. I've tried to get her to go to the dr and she won't, over text when I'm at work and when I'm at home with her she's two totally different people. But yes a 27day period is not good at all.

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Ffs dude you have to get mean tell her to get up and we are going to the doctors now!!!

8incyclops;594561 said:

Ffs dude you have to get mean tell her to get up and we are going to the doctors now!!!

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agreed....just take her there!! or send her off to the hospital in a cab

27 day period seems more like fiction than reality, are you sure this is not a ploy to further avoid sex?

doublelongdaddy;594759 said:

27 day period seems more like fiction than reality, are you sure this is not a ploy to further avoid sex?

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No its for real, she's very open about it with me. Things went good over vacation, didn't argue or fight but maybe once over something stupid but as soon we got home back to the same thing. I told her I'm giving her two weeks to change her ways or she can gtfo. Just like that lol.

LNL;595158 said:

No its for real, she's very open about it with me. Things went good over vacation, didn't argue or fight but maybe once over something stupid but as soon we got home back to the same thing. I told her I'm giving her two weeks to change her ways or she can gtfo. Just like that lol.

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Well what ever it is I hope you do not get hurt in the process. My prayers go out to you my Brother.