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doublelongdaddy;593833 said:
Things haven't improved with her, idk what to do as far as our marriage. Its hard to just up and leave someone I've been with for so long even though I know I'd get over it eventually. Not only has she been my best friend but pretty much my only friend too. Ive given up everything I have for her. Hell I traded my dream truck I had for a more family friendly vehicle.
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LNL;593853 said:
To which you will probably continue giving away your life in attempt to changes things that probably never will.
You have to know when to pull the plug.
Does she have anyone she can go to? Considering she's not working, as she can't move out.
When you mean things haven't improved, what are you still referring to? You mentioned a lot of things w/ her.
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LNL;593853 said:
I understand from experience and I put my heart out to you. I too am alone and it can be a scary thing, it takes time to get to know yourself and learn how to live alone. As hard as it is it is therapeutic and will eventually bring greater self love. Keep you head up my friend, things do get better.
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LNL;593853 said:
So you told her things needed to change? you expressed how you have been feeling?
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youknowme123321;593913 said:
Being open and honest is the best rule, if she has compassion and determination to keep the relationship alive she will respond with acceptance. Becoming venerable to your mate can be scary but in the end it may be the best way to go if you want to save your relationship.
Yes I told get things need to change and told her specifically what it is that to change. I told her how I felt and how she's pushing me away. Nothing really changed at. Tonight when I got home from work I hopped in the shower and she texted me "I'm horny let's fuck" when I got done and went in our room she was like "just kidding, I'm not in the mood anymore" and it sent me over the fucking edge. I told her I was done trying to save our marriage and she can leave. And she was like "you can't make me leave, I'm not going to give up on us" but 10mins early the bitch said she don't love me. Then I told her I got money and I can go get the papers myself and she says she won't sign them. Honestly at this point I'm done, idc. We were supposed to going to Gatlinburg with my family this weekend to a wedding and I rented out own cabin but im debating telling her to go to her family's house and bringing this girl that my friend said keeps asking about me. What do I do?
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LNL;594092 said:
do this!!! bring that girl!!!! be done with your wife. kick her to the curb...she is cold as ice. you'll definitely get laid!!! just dont tell your wife you got laid she will use it against you in court
she doesn't love you. never will. she will plead with you once she sees your serious but she will remain the same. she may even change for a short period of time but she will do it again and you'll be right back where you are now.
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youknowme123321;594116 said:
She actually works next door to where I work so I see her daily, so I'm going to approach her today. I definitely didn't think I was her type(shes like 5'6 maybe 90lbs, im 6'4 280... lol) but I'm going to go for it.
doublelongdaddy;594125 said:
Yeah, she doesn't have a car and pretty much sits in our room all day playing a game on her computer. She's been on her period for like 2weeks also so I know she wouldn't be doing anything. But she's very secretive with her phone, she won't let me touch it so who knows who she's taking to tho.
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Does she play a MMO (WoW)?
When you get off from work and shes @ home. What usually happens? Watch tv, cooking, cleaning, showering?
I'm curious what she does.
I'm also curious why the OP and second post of yours is not there. Does she check your history? Assuming she sees that you created this thread.
Considering your OP was about you know what and there is a gal that you might want to pursue. You might go ahead and go for it.
That might spark motivation to leave your situation or push someone out of it.
Just make sure she doesn't get dirt on you as that's the last thing you want. Shes putting you in this position.
When you get off from work and shes @ home. What usually happens? Watch tv, cooking, cleaning, showering?
I'm curious what she does.
I'm also curious why the OP and second post of yours is not there. Does she check your history? Assuming she sees that you created this thread.
Considering your OP was about you know what and there is a gal that you might want to pursue. You might go ahead and go for it.
That might spark motivation to leave your situation or push someone out of it.
Just make sure she doesn't get dirt on you as that's the last thing you want. Shes putting you in this position.
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doublelongdaddy;594166 said:
agreed!!!
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LNL;594154 said:
Don't do it!!! Some time apart may help or go see a marriage counselor
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can't teach a cunt not to be a cunt!! leave her
