ED @ 28 yrs old....seemingly out of the blue, please help

It's been a while since I've been on. I'm hoping someone might be able to guide me in the right direction. The past several sessions with this new girl in my life, I've experienced ED. I've been able to get errect, but then will loose the errection after a while, usually based on the speed and position,....doggy style, and very fast.

I can usually get my errection back after 20 mins or so, but due to our schedules, it's a big birdon, especially for her, and it is very embarrasing for me considering that only a year and a half ago, (at 27 yrs old), I enough libido for a small army. I could usually orgasm 3 times before needing a break, due to refractory period. Last night, I didn't orgasm and I was having problems.

I'm trying to think what could of happened, and/or is happening it's like there's a neural problem or something, I'm very attracted and turned on by her, but the message is getting mixed up somewhere in the nervous system.

Anyway the things that have changed since: I now have a very stressfull job, and my current living situation sucks, bc of putting up my friend and his wife for a couple weeks while they hopefully get on there feet, .....I live in an efficency; however I've been through a lot of stressfull things before and was not affected.

I did a small test cycle for 6 weeks, 2 years ago.....400mg Test E, for 6 weeks, PCT probably could've been better. But until the last 6-7 months I haven't had issues. I've also found in general my libido is not nearly as pronounced as it used to be. My diet, sleep, and exercise, are close to average.........which they were prior to this issue.

I also wanted to mention, that I'll be getting a pump soon, .....a good quality one, I'm hoping that might help some? .....and that as far as foreplay and everything, for this girl its minimal she wants to get right to the action, straight on, hard and fast, and doggy style position, killer for someone with my current dilema.

Nothing else has changed for me other than I'm now 28, going on 29, instead of 27. I apologize for the length of the thread. I'm just very frustrated and embarassed and I'm hoping one of the vets can guide me in the right direction.

Thank you guys for your time.

have you tried Kegels?

There Is A Good Chance That The Living Situation Etc. Has A Lot Of Barring On Your Situsation. Job And Bad Economic Situations Have Herdered Many Men In The Past. And Cycles Dont Help Either If You Have Just Come Off Of One. Anyway It Mostly In Your Head And The More You Think About It The Worst It Will Get. You Need To Put Yourself In A Relaxing State Or Situation And Just Think Happy Thought And Take A Load Off.

I would honestly try doing what atlyroc said it sounds like you have got a lot going on in your life. At the same time if you think that you have ED you will have ED if you get what I mean. It sounds like during sex you are concentrating on your dick and not on the sex and this is going to cause sexual anxiety so you need to let go relax don't think about it. The other thing that you mentioned is foreplay well to me it plays a big part in a sexual relationship with out it there is no JAZZ so to speak so what if you just gave her foreplay I now that it works for me. There are times that I am just not in the mood and my little fella just will not stand to attention. So I please her the sound she makes excites me and all off a sudden I am keen.

The other thing is the cycle that you where on what PCT did you use. This may have something to do with it but very unlikely because you have been fine since then. But in saying that it is not hard to go to the doctors and get your hormones checked low test could be what is killing your libido and creating ED. In this case a test cream will generally be prescribed in this day and age and I will guarantee you that you will be feeling a whole lot better not only in libido and sex but you will not be as tired and stressed out all the time. Well I know that this is a long post but there are so many possibilities when it comes to ED i.e in your head or a underlying factor where there is need for further investigation. So please do not ignore it if the relaxing does not work go and see your doctor and get yourself checked as its better safe then sorry.

Lets cut to the chase. Are drinking a lot of beer?

lifted;307571 said:

Lets cut to the chase. Are drinking a lot of beer?

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Hey lifted what does beer have to do with it I understand that there can be a problem when drunk but I do not understand how beer can affect your cock constantly. Could you please explain?
Sorry I do not want to hi jack but lifted may have some valuable info for all us beer drinkers. I only drink beer on a friday night but am interested.

little fella;307572 said:

Hey lifted what does beer have to do with it I understand that there can be a problem when drunk but I do not understand how beer can affect your cock constantly. Could you please explain?
Sorry I do not want to hi jack but lifted may have some valuable info for all us beer drinkers. I only drink beer on a friday night but am interested.

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Even a small amount of beer can decrease terstosterone levels. Raise estrogen levels. Increase DHT.

If stress is a factor he may be drinking more beer to compinsate for the stress. Beer relaxes you. Beer has hops, hopds are a sex depressant.

You should not drink more than 1 beer per day if you are having ED. Perhaps it is better to stop drinking it while going through an ED period.

Things that cure ED:

Ginkgo Biloba
Arginine
Alpha Arginine Ketoglutarate
Tong Kat Ali
Golden Root
American Gensing
Korean Gensing
Chineese Gensing
pomagranate extract
Green Tea

do u know what ur talking about dht isnt increased with drinking is is decrased dht is made from testosterons so if it drops so does dht

Hey guys,

Thanks for all the replies. Currently I'm not drinking at all. However, because of the craziness going on at home, I'm not exercising, not really eating very healthy, not sleeping well, etc. It could be adding to things, however I've been through similar things before without this effect(s).

However, little fella, your right. During sex I am concentrating on my dick and either staying up or not reaching orgasm too early; especially because she's been saying lately during sex "come on baby, f*ck with your dick not your tounge or fingers" I'm like ......oh damn, and then if I don't get back up quickly or orgasm to quickly, she'll just put her clothes on and it's usually more or less done and over with it, even thought I sometimes I'm cool after 15 mins or so.

Also, to orgasm she needs it very hard and very fast from the back, and will say "don't you come yet, not yet, come on I'm almost there"....so I guess there's probably some stage fright there. Also, I've over heard her mentioning about the size of her previous partners to others,...(I myself am avg.), add to that overcoming her less than good preconcieved notions due to race, (I'm white, she's black, first inter racial relationship for both of us).

But, at the end of the day. I just don't feel the effects of my libido like I used to. It used to be almost like a curse not so very long ago; now more like an after thought.

My PCT after my cycle wasn't as good as it should've been. I know better, but the cycle was relatively short, (6 weeks), on the milder side, (400mg Test E), and I did do 50mg of Nolva for approx 2 weeks......should've done HCG prior. But I didn't see any adverse effects concerning libido until approx. 12-14 months post cycle.

Sorry for the long post, thanks for the current and possible future responses