case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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There will be good and bad days. That's how your body works to see where it's at to send resources. Just like a cut fingers, broke leg, or a bad migraine, it will divert and send out test signals to see how the affected body fares before diverting the needed resources for repair. This is why PE pushes the body to keep diverting to an area where it pays the least attention to. It even ignores the prostate, which is one of the important organs keeping everything balanced. Do you notice that the hairs on your groin And back regions receive more resources for growth than the hair on your head and prostate health, let alone the penis itself. It's and oddball way the body acts from ages of the modern evolution of our body. Keep working on the penis, even if you have a bad day. Our brother @kriskros can be your witness on his short-term improvement based on his specific method to test the body and improve it. This is how we use the mind over the matter approaches to force the body to do our biddings.
 
i dotn really know what you mean by "working on it" but last time i did anything period to it, it put me into this stage im in currently. which is a death sentence. just feeling normal is my only first goal, and so far that aint happened yet. my body doesnt seem to desire anything sexual, and everytime i try to change that, it backlashes on me. ive obviously changed something , and i dont know that it will change back ever. i havent had a drop of precum from being horny since the day this happened. thats pretty significant to me that something got wiped out. whatever it is
 
i dotn really know what you mean by "working on it" but last time i did anything period to it, it put me into this stage im in currently. which is a death sentence. just feeling normal is my only first goal, and so far that aint happened yet. my body doesnt seem to desire anything sexual, and everytime i try to change that, it backlashes on me. ive obviously changed something , and i dont know that it will change back ever. i havent had a drop of precum from being horny since the day this happened. thats pretty significant to me that something got wiped out. whatever it is
Yes, but did you go to a therapist and to an andrologist?
 
i dotn really know what you mean by "working on it" but last time i did anything period to it, it put me into this stage im in currently. which is a death sentence. just feeling normal is my only first goal, and so far that aint happened yet. my body doesnt seem to desire anything sexual, and everytime i try to change that, it backlashes on me. ive obviously changed something , and i dont know that it will change back ever. i havent had a drop of precum from being horny since the day this happened. thats pretty significant to me that something got wiped out. whatever it is
Not working on it, but working on your penis. "Working on it" can range from doing nothing and wait to proactively pursue in the development of methods to heal. Complaining won't help. We workout (physical exercises to gain muscles), we get hurt, throw out our back, damaged our pigments, so we rest up and find ways to heal. Do we stop working out later? We become weary of doing the same stupid mistakes, become smarter and implement more effective and efficient methods to prevent ourselves from getting hurt. But we never stop working out. Do we bitch and moan about the injuries constantly? No. It's a battle scar. We keep a positive outlook and move forward. Dick not doing a solid flag pole today or the prior days doesn't mean tomorrow is bleak. Keep strategically doing PE to improve the penile health.

PE shouldn't be excessive. Learn the mistakes. Light to moderate SSJ to get the blood flowing and remove the blockages. Get the nerves to heal by pushing the nutrient-rich blood to the right spot. By not doing PE the right way, you're starving the cells and nerves from the resources they need for repairs. No device clamping, no device constricting, and only use manual restriction with your hands. SSJ is gentle enough to be in the same league as natural venous constriction (such as during sex), but good enough to rival device type temporary constriction.

No more bitching. Keep positive perspectives. Report your PE routine attempts, and the results along the way. It's time time to switch gears to have mind over matters mode.
 
Not working on it, but working on your penis. "Working on it" can range from doing nothing and wait to proactively pursue in the development of methods to heal. Complaining won't help. We workout (physical exercises to gain muscles), we get hurt, throw out our back, damaged our pigments, so we rest up and find ways to heal. Do we stop working out later? We become weary of doing the same stupid mistakes, become smarter and implement more effective and efficient methods to prevent ourselves from getting hurt. But we never stop working out. Do we bitch and moan about the injuries constantly? No. It's a battle scar. We keep a positive outlook and move forward. Dick not doing a solid flag pole today or the prior days doesn't mean tomorrow is bleak. Keep strategically doing PE to improve the penile health.

PE shouldn't be excessive. Learn the mistakes. Light to moderate SSJ to get the blood flowing and remove the blockages. Get the nerves to heal by pushing the nutrient-rich blood to the right spot. By not doing PE the right way, you're starving the cells and nerves from the resources they need for repairs. No device clamping, no device constricting, and only use manual restriction with your hands. SSJ is gentle enough to be in the same league as natural venous constriction (such as during sex), but good enough to rival device type temporary constriction.

No more bitching. Keep positive perspectives. Report your PE routine attempts, and the results along the way. It's time time to switch gears to have mind over matters mode.
im still not right from a week or 2 ago when i massaged some blood through it. ill let night erections take care of that for now. id rather never hear the word pe again in my life. didnt need it before this. i almost died from it so far. and still may or may not ever be right from it later on. im gonna pass lol.
 
i dont know where to start with a therapist. not that it is gonna help anything. i played a stupid game, and got a stupid prize i guess. i just gotta keep my head straight and keep praying , and excercising and destressing and hope i can go on without it.
 
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i dont really think ill ever get things back in shape. im moving on,and just gonna live what i got left the best i can. wish id never ever got curious and found something on the internet to make me think i needed to do this crap. i really had the best life and family. now i just exist.

but dont ever get in this shape. its not worth it. and youll have no help. doctors are a joke. youll have to figure out how to help yourself. which is pretty rough. i have to wait another month now for physical therapy. which may or may not even help. even if it helps, i dont htink ill ever have the feelings i had. which pretty much kills the whole deal anyway.

yesterday i finally started getting "decent" feeling, and bloodflow was better than it has been. last night i had a good erection, but when i woke up with it, my glans isnt nearly as fat at all with it. and i couldnt kegel anything to make it swell up.didnt make any difference. fell back asleep, and then woke up later with another one. this time it actually responded when i kegeled. so i dont know whats going on. really tight in my insides and rectum again.

about daylight, i woke up, decided to rub it and see what state of hardness it would achieve. it aroused failrly easily, but just doesnt reach its full size until i almost climax. at that point of stopping before i cum, i get some internal pain and then it will finally get approxomately the size it should be. even the glans. but it kinda seemed spongy in the glans and mid shaft. had that issue in the past as well. but not always. seems like i have to almost get off to get my erection full size,which isnt exactly new, but never did have the pain and such. all day now and everyday usally, i dont get any flow into the penis when i kegel. just a wall feeling. and sometimes light pain with it. i guess this could all be pelvic floor still since im so tight feeling inside. its just so confusing. i get good feelings stretching everyday sometimes, but nothing ever really subsides enough to matter. all day yesterday when i felt "ok" i had all those flowing "opening up" type feelings occasionally during the day and certain ways i moved.
 
i dont really think ill ever get things back in shape. im moving on,and just gonna live what i got left the best i can. wish id never ever got curious and found something on the internet to make me think i needed to do this crap. i really had the best life and family. now i just exist.

but dont ever get in this shape. its not worth it. and youll have no help. doctors are a joke. youll have to figure out how to help yourself. which is pretty rough. i have to wait another month now for physical therapy. which may or may not even help. even if it helps, i dont htink ill ever have the feelings i had. which pretty much kills the whole deal anyway.

yesterday i finally started getting "decent" feeling, and bloodflow was better than it has been. last night i had a good erection, but when i woke up with it, my glans isnt nearly as fat at all with it. and i couldnt kegel anything to make it swell up.didnt make any difference. fell back asleep, and then woke up later with another one. this time it actually responded when i kegeled. so i dont know whats going on. really tight in my insides and rectum again.

about daylight, i woke up, decided to rub it and see what state of hardness it would achieve. it aroused failrly easily, but just doesnt reach its full size until i almost climax. at that point of stopping before i cum, i get some internal pain and then it will finally get approxomately the size it should be. even the glans. but it kinda seemed spongy in the glans and mid shaft. had that issue in the past as well. but not always. seems like i have to almost get off to get my erection full size,which isnt exactly new, but never did have the pain and such. all day now and everyday usally, i dont get any flow into the penis when i kegel. just a wall feeling. and sometimes light pain with it. i guess this could all be pelvic floor still since im so tight feeling inside. its just so confusing. i get good feelings stretching everyday sometimes, but nothing ever really subsides enough to matter. all day yesterday when i felt "ok" i had all those flowing "opening up" type feelings occasionally during the day and certain ways i moved.
Dude its been 4 months since your problem started and you didnt ever consulted an andrologist and an urologist. What are you talking about?
I came to this forum with 0 libido, 0 erections. Everyone can confirm it. I was whining like you. Even though I have so metanl issues and problems, so much depression, I found a way to do what everyone was saying here: Work on my self.
Thats it: You have to work on your self too.
I started with 0 erections and now I can do some exercises and I am more energitic into this.
You should too. Just pick up the phone and go to an andrologist for Gods sake.
 
Dude its been 4 months since your problem started and you didnt ever consulted an andrologist and an urologist. What are you talking about?
I came to this forum with 0 libido, 0 erections. Everyone can confirm it. I was whining like you. Even though I have so metanl issues and problems, so much depression, I found a way to do what everyone was saying here: Work on my self.
Thats it: You have to work on your self too.
I started with 0 erections and now I can do some exercises and I am more energitic into this.
You should too. Just pick up the phone and go to an andrologist for Gods sake.
um no . its been 10 months now. and ive been to 3 urologists so far. i can get erections, just nothing feels good, and if i dont have an erection, i have a shrunken nonresponsive unit with not much feeling most times.or libido . i really dont understand what i did changing everything this bad in one day,but im not giving up. i stretch every day. and try to find new ones. i cant just go to the doctor. i have to wait for the appointment, and its rediculous how long out every doctor is.
Did you do something to hurt yourself, or what started it? and what stretches are helping? i feel some help with some of them. but not enough to make any long term difference. i just feel constricted , and burning/numb most of the time.
 
I had pelvic floor once. Big time so much pain but specific stretches are the pelvic area fixed everything. Just think that I was doing stretches daily for 3 months in a row to fix this.

My friend listen to me. You need an andrologist for this peyronie disease and a psychiatrist to help you

I am one of those guys who had problems. Trust me. I came here with 0 erecrions and brothers now helped me and I have erections.
 
I had pelvic floor once. Big time so much pain but specific stretches are the pelvic area fixed everything. Just think that I was doing stretches daily for 3 months in a row to fix this.

My friend listen to me. You need an andrologist for this peyronie disease and a psychiatrist to help you

I am one of those guys who had problems. Trust me. I came here with 0 erecrions and brothers now helped me and I have erections.
yes, but what caused your pelvic floor problem? i just dont think this is peyronies.
 
well, anxiety did not cause this. a bit aggressive jelqing did i believe. although, it just doesnt seem real to cause such a thing. but it dang sure is adding more anxiety to it now.
 
Anxiety due to the sudden penile injury is a dopemine and endorphine killer to keep your sexual moods up. It also produces more cortisol and reduces nitric oxide as well. So yes, anxiety is one factorial cause to induce extreme ED. @kriskros is dead on the topic. This is why PE requires optimistic mindset.
 
yes. understood. ive worked on anxiety immensley lately, and ive been getting slightly better mentally. its just the physical feeling swings, and shrinkage/pain . hard to figure out what to do to get past it. after rubbing it this morning, its changed the feel again, and libido. size isnt as tragic . but im still tight as a rock internally when i sit down it feels like. i just cant get anything to release
 
What I'm suggesting is going to sound strange, but bare with me and decide according to your needs. There are tools out there that massage your pelvic muscles without engaging your muscles to tighten.

External:

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I used to have this when I injured my pelvic muscles from cycling incidents.

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If you feel comfortable enough, you also have internal. My wife uses this during bad pelvic period due to oddball traumas:
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There are many, many, many newer tools now. This is just an intro to a unique approach.
 
Those things @oldandlively showed are amazing and help big time. I am one of the guys that their DNA changes massively when psychology changes. For example it is as @oldandlively stated above. When I get stressed my cortisol levels go so up that the doctors though I had autoimmune disease and it was just anxiety...lol.
Stress can kill you, literally
 
Those things @oldandlively showed are amazing and help big time. I am one of the guys that their DNA changes massively when psychology changes. For example it is as @oldandlively stated above. When I get stressed my cortisol levels go so up that the doctors though I had autoimmune disease and it was just anxiety...lol.
Stress can kill you, literally
You are correct. Your DNAs are programmed to do the stupidest things when we are under stresses. It's designed for ancient flight and fight adaptation when our environments do not provided the resources to survive. In the modern days, we have abundant of resources, but our bodies have not changed from their original survival programming. Unfortunately, we can't program our cells like a computer program. Well, not yet anyway.

PE requires a strong mindset, positive outlook, and constantly be uplifted in looking forward for the new gains. This is why this brotherhood uplifts one another and support each other with our experiences, wisdom, and knowledge. Stresses and negativity will kill your PE and your life.
 
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