Do it for the right reasons!

as one of the older guys on this forum there is something that stings in me. and it happens over and over again.

we get new guys coming in here.

and usually they come here do to some girls words about their size.

now guys i have been there i had a girl who apparently only had 10 inch cocks in her life. and mine (back then around the 6 inches)

now remember this:

you can do the wrong things for the wrong reasons.
the right thing for the wrong reasons
the wrong thing for the right reason.
the right thing for the right reason.

what do i mean by this?

Penis enlargement should be used for you by you!

do not do it for anyone else. as that will be you trying to proof yourself worthy to someone else. this is extremely unhealthy. and even if you grow. she will probably still be a bitch.

please. if a girl is the reason why you ended up here.

threat the wound seperately. realize that its not you but her that is the problem.

and let the PE become something you do for yourself!.

it is so important that this is the reason.

when PE becomes about you it will help you grow and become proud of yourself. through archivements.

when PE is about someone else it will always have a: "i will show them!" mentality.

you are basicly taking something beautiful and turning it into something negative.

negativity will drain you and makes you feel depressed.

positive will recycle and continue to grow inside of you.

Hey man :/ I started PE because a girl made me feel some type of way once upon a time, and look at me now one of the prolific bros :blush:. I don't discriminate anybody on here because who am I to right XD. Nothing stings me only gladdens me, and drives me toward my goals :D

I'm doing it because I want to have a big ding dong. Big enough where it's obviously huge. Not sorta kinda large or gee my fat pad is blocking some.

I think that's easier said that done. Most people come to sites like these looking for answers because of a something their significant other or an old girlfriend said. Others who already started off larger than normal, usually do this for the same reasoning or because they want to do it for themselves. Eventually when you come across a board like this one where everyone wants to help and benefit from each others successes, those initial goals change and become more. I'll be the first one to freely admit that my wife is the reason I came looking for answers (because I wanted to do this for her and I felt shamed). Now I want more than anything to do this for myself. Sure! There's a little seething rage wrapped up in there, but its constructive seething rage. lol

Once we start to realize that PE is for us n by us,i think we are going to start to understand that we dont enlarge our penises because we want to be showy or something like that..

PE has or may have a deeper meaning even different purposes....The mind The Body n The Spirit....

Not PEing for girls, but because not happy being just average

Ive had to bust my arse bodybuilding and working hard finacially to get out of being average.

May aswell continue this theme for my cock too

i came here in the first place because of a girl.

but getting over that had nothing to do with my size. it had to be taken care of separately.

the fact that another human has that much power over your perception of yourself. is what need to change.

this is what i am trying to call out to people. (especially the new guys)

No one has ever said anything bad about my dick. Just the oposite in fact as most call it such things as "perfect" and "big" "huge" etc eventhough its not huge. I´m here for me. I just want to add some girth. Make my dick look more powerfull in my eyes.

kak03;673252 said:

No one has ever said anything bad about my dick. Just the oposite in fact as most call it such things as "perfect" and "big" "huge" etc eventhough its not huge. I´m here for me. I just want to add some girth. Make my dick look more powerfull in my eyes.

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The best reason to be here is for yourself. It makes little sense getting larger for someone else, this would not satisfy the underling issue. First, before anything, a man must love himself before he can love something else. Get huge for you and they will appreciate it in bed but ultimately you will be increasing your confidence as you perfect your male form.

Aimingforthetop;673201 said:

Penis enlargement should be used for you by you!

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doublelongdaddy;673304 said:

The best reason to be here is for yourself. It makes little sense getting larger for someone else, this would not satisfy the underling issue. First, before anything, a man must love himself before he can love something else. Get huge for you and they will appreciate it in bed but ultimately you will be increasing your confidence as you perfect your male form.

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the whole point in 3 lines. good job

Good thread. We should enjoy life.

Aimingforthetop;673201 said:

Penis enlargement should be used for you by you!

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This is all you need my brother. For myself only! Not for anyone else or vanity.

What is right and what is wrong?
Life is perceptional. . . And even though i agree with some of your points
I can't help but let the instinctive social gadfly in me out.
I believe PE should be done without any restrictions, justification of cause being one.
Lets be realistic and logical here. We differ in opinions,point of view, character, cognition and behavior.
So there is absolutely no way we'd all do PE for "ourselves" or for the "right reasons".
As a matter of fact, this might sound paradoxical or contradictory, but regardless of why you do PE in the end it is actually for YOU.
some instances to prove my last statement would be.
1, Doing PE to please/satisfy a partner = You feeling good when they are satisfied
2, Doing PE to build a reputation among girls = You feeling like a champ when rumors start circulating about your size
3, Doing PE to get bigger, feel more like a man and boost your ego = You feeling like a demigod, somewhat superior to the "average joe"
I could write some more, but I believe my point has been proven already.
There are NO right or wrong reasons.

^ Or to put it simply: Why is anything anything ?:blush:?

Aimingforthetop;673353 said:

the whole point in 3 lines. good job

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Thank you my Brother, it is always appreciated.

johnny-wang;673457 said:

What is right and what is wrong?
Life is perceptional. . . And even though i agree with some of your points
I can't help but let the instinctive social gadfly in me out.
I believe PE should be done without any restrictions, justification of cause being one.
Lets be realistic and logical here. We differ in opinions,point of view, character, cognition and behavior.
So there is absolutely no way we'd all do PE for "ourselves" or for the "right reasons".
As a matter of fact, this might sound paradoxical or contradictory, but regardless of why you do PE in the end it is actually for YOU.
some instances to prove my last statement would be.
1, Doing PE to please/satisfy a partner = You feeling good when they are satisfied
2, Doing PE to build a reputation among girls = You feeling like a champ when rumors start circulating about your size
3, Doing PE to get bigger, feel more like a man and boost your ego = You feeling like a demigod, somewhat superior to the "average joe"
I could write some more, but I believe my point has been proven already.
There are NO right or wrong reasons.

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Just don't let that positiveness reflect on others as negativity. AKA Ego destroying. Making others feel small, ineligible, and weak.
That is the wrong thing. It's great to feel great about yourself, just don't affect the others that don't have the luck of finding out PE.

johnny-wang;673457 said:

What is right and what is wrong?
Life is perceptional. . . And even though i agree with some of your points
I can't help but let the instinctive social gadfly in me out.
I believe PE should be done without any restrictions, justification of cause being one.
Lets be realistic and logical here. We differ in opinions,point of view, character, cognition and behavior.
So there is absolutely no way we'd all do PE for "ourselves" or for the "right reasons".
As a matter of fact, this might sound paradoxical or contradictory, but regardless of why you do PE in the end it is actually for YOU.
some instances to prove my last statement would be.
1, Doing PE to please/satisfy a partner = You feeling good when they are satisfied
2, Doing PE to build a reputation among girls = You feeling like a champ when rumors start circulating about your size
3, Doing PE to get bigger, feel more like a man and boost your ego = You feeling like a demigod, somewhat superior to the "average joe"
I could write some more, but I believe my point has been proven already.
There are NO right or wrong reasons.

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For me it all comes down to the difference between being in a state of victimizing yourself or being in a state of evolving yourself.

Lowest state: "to me" "look what happens to me! The world is cruel. Tge world is harsh!
This state is what most will describe as whiners all they do is to talk about how the world is unfair... To them! Occationally having a contest in having the most horrible thing happen to them.

Medium state: "by me" these are the guys who will continue to hit their head into a wall untill it breaks.
These will usually be the guys who join the forum. And then do 20 sets of 1 hour with 15kg hanging. While injecting some sort of liquid into their shaft. While eating different amino acids to improve recovery.

These guys are not victims but thry usually burn out too fast and fuck up alot of gains due to overwork.


Last mode and what i hope to get people into: through me!
The state where you accept who you are. your current size. And you dont try to rush anything. You accept things and slowly let them change as it feels naturally to let them change at these times. basically
Following the current instead of swimming up stream. Or sitting by the lake and cry because you got wet.

People can do whatever they like.

However i see people being motivated by negative things. And that is always goibg to have negative consequences.

Be inspired by positive things and life will be fucking awesome!

Really what i try to say

kyomoto;673603 said:

Just don't let that positiveness reflect on others as negativity. AKA Ego destroying. Making others feel small, ineligible, and weak.
That is the wrong thing. It's great to feel great about yourself, just don't affect the others that don't have the luck of finding out PE.

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Sometimes is not that hard to tell when a man feels n believes hes got a big one n feels satisfied whit his size,n its not that hard for me to see that maybe im bigger than him..

the funny thing here is that the guy is confident n happy n hes got no clue that he can get bigger..LOL n hes going to spend the rest of his life whit that size..

I would like to keep my nose far away from most men sufferings but for some reason i want to let them know about PE.but maybe i will not let them know about PE ever.cause i dont think they are open enough n patient enough...


Besides i think i need to fix my shit first...n then see what can i do for others...

shortdick;673637 said:

Sometimes is not that hard to tell when a man feels n believes hes got a big one n feels satisfied whit his size,n its not that hard for me to see that maybe im bigger than him.....

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There's no way for you to know what size someone is unless they're erect