man it even starts with your nick : like SHE likes ! What about your needs and how YOU like it ?
There are several things you could do. Of course a low dose 25mg viagra is the easy way out, to help you overcome the problem. Once you manage to do it , you won't have any difficulties later on.
Another thing is , realize what you think AND by this TELL your body to do.
Don't think about a pink elephant with big big ears. Wait , I said DON't and you still DID think about it, because thats how the human mind works , it HAS to imagine everything before it can understand that.
Don't THINK about BIG BREAST ! haha YOu see it always works !
So what you are doing to yourself is : Putting yourself under high pressure
speaking in your mind to yourself : I hop I will not LOOSE the Erection , I Hope I will not LOOSE the erection:
You command Yourself : LOOSE the erection , LOOSE the erection !
You see, this alone releases so much stress and adrenalin that it makes your dick shrivel up again. So what you do ?
The opposite : Play around with her AND tell yourself , pls god I don't want to get an erection , I don't want to become erect.
You command yourself : BECOME ERECT , BECOME ERECT. vuola it will work...
Beisdes , what about your needs , don't focus to much on her, why always 1 hour forplay , what about 10 minutes and stcik the fucker in while its rising up, keep telling yourself I don't like sex , I don't want to get it up :
And you mind will imagine : SEX , SEX , SEX and GET IT UP GET IT UP !!!
Understand is easy really...
even besides that , your world YOUR rules - if you say to yourself 1 hour forplay IS already part of sex AND very satisfying you will be happy , if you say its only sex WHEN you stick it in, then you are UPPING the pressure on yourself.
Besides , free yourself of any feelings of guilt , maybe you kissed around with another girl , and thats whats coming up in this moment, like : Shit i'm not worthy to have sex with this woman who loves me.
Also TAKE AWAY the importance of sex completely , its a simple and nessesary part of your life , absolutely normal and nothing special , like talking , eating , sports , and taking a shit. It just a way to communicate to a woman , nothing to worry about...sometimes you make mistakes when you talk , sometimes you don't eat right , sometimes you fuck up in sports and trip , and sometimes the hankey just don't want to come out , yah know these things though would never make you come runnin and postin asking for help on a Forum -because they seem unimportant to you ! Understand , life goes on after this no matter what.
So don't take sex serious : ENJOY it...everything of it , from the forplay , the failures , the fun of , it take eevrything with humor and fun and ironie , this way you can never fail at anything.
Good eh ?