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Are any of you addicted to ����? I think I am. I read up on signs of it because it seems to be all I think about most of the day. Its to the point Ive gotten bored with my wife due to seeing so much hard ����. I even considered cheating on her a few weeks ago just to get more satisfaction.
From what Ive read and seen on TV, here are some of the signs of internet ���� addiction....
1. Moving the computer to a more private place. (thats me)
2. Setting up passwords or a seperate user account to hide your activity from others, and lying to the wife and using a lame excuse as to why you have done so...virus protection, security, "other settings"(me again)
3. Getting mad or irritable towards family members when they bother you while on the internet. (me)
4. Having more than one browser open...one for ���� and one on a safe site you can click to when someone walks in. (me)
5. Household chores are not being done on your end. They are usually the first thing to be put off. (me)
6. Saving ���� movies and pics only to feel guilty and erase them, then the cycle repeats over and over. (ME!)
7. Losing interest in your partner.(me)
8. Sleeping times and habits change. You stay up late or all night looking for that one perfect site. (me)
9. You start to neglect human relationships and interactions in favor of looking at ����. (me)
And the one that really hits home for me, even though I never thought it would get this far out of hand,...
10. You start to plan how to meet other people to have sex with to satisfy the ultimate need for sex and orgasm. (me)
11. You finally do start having sex with others outside the normal routine of life.(almost me)

Theres more if you research it and I hope this may help someone. Am I the only one? Its really taking its toll on me. I have just this past week wasted 6 days after work just setting on the internet looking and downloading ���� only to completely erase all signs of it last night for the millionth time. I could have done so much more productive things around the house than this. I need help. I dont want to cheat, but its getting so hard to resist. Talking sometimes helps. Thanks for listening. Chime in with advice, stories etc...

I think im like 65% of that, i need to back up some so i dont get 100%, anyone got ideas how to do that,

I think maybe you should talk it over with her or a professional about your addiction. It could help out a lot. You don't have to cheat on someone you love, especially your wife. And you can't say you don't love her, because you're still with her unless there's something wrong but all I can see from that is your addiction. But your best bet is to talk it over, you're married and that's where communication comes into play! ^_^

Don't let this ruin your marriage. Do whatever you have to to preserve it, assuming it is not a nightmare relationship.

I might suggest you cancel your broadband and get dial-up access. It will be so slow, you'll deem all internet ���� to not even be worth the load time and you'll soon move on to new interests and hobbies.

Personally, I don't find internet ���� even remotely appealling. As I said, it takes forever to download it, in my case. If I try to download a small movie clip, it might take several minutes, just to download a small clip a few seconds long. Then I get to watch a little Quicktime or Windows Media Player box for a few seconds and it looks like shit if I try to expand it to full screen. Maybe I haven't tried the new stuff and maybe I'm not doing something right, but all I used to get of internet ���� was grainy pixel penetration that didn't even begin to compare to just going to the local video store and renting a good ����. Same thing with the jpegs. They're cool and all, but no better than a good magazine shoot and most of the free stuff sucks. Anyhow, a few years back I concluded that a person could get hooked on spending several hundred dollars per month on stuff that just wasn't all that great.

i say get freaky with your old lady and make your own ����.

what happened to some of the replies? They are gone.

lee6 said:

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It's been happening for a couple of days now or so, I'm not sure the reason why though ?

i did some research a few weeks ago... dope website - http://www.no-����.com/

Well, Ive decided to give it a month and see if I can overcome this slowly. I relize Im backing down from complete cuttoff, but I do need the net for other things. Lets see what happens.

"My name is VladtheImpaler, and I am a ���� addict"

Yep, I've known this has been taking a toll on me for a long time, and I can confidently say its one biggest things I have to rid of my life.....
It shows how little self-control I have, and theres so many reason to get rid from it.

I don't think its the downloading ���� part thats so bad, its the whipping your cock out and making love to a screen part (any screen, or mag).

I used to jerk off after every Penis Enlargement workout, that meaning everyday, and I had to cut myself off of that, and now I'm at about 2-4 times a week but I still feel greasy....

And if you dont have a woman, it is the worst thing in the world, because you can just take the easy way out and not try to get one :D....(i know a few people that live like this solid)
And when you watch that much ����, you cant communicate with women well either, I see a marked difference when I cut myself off for a couple weeks wehn I have the self control.
And in general, I feel lethargic when I jerked off everyday, so really, its an all around negative impact on life.

Lee6, I propose we have have a competition to see who can go two weeks clean :D....I think a little healthy competition would help us better ourselves than anything else..............

You in? :D

Im in. It starts today right now (7-27-05). Of course the honor system will be used.


I too can see and feel a differencew when I cut it out for a few days. I can think clearer on things and the biggest difference is when I see a woman out in public i can see just a "female" , instead of a "hot, big titted, I wonder what she looks like naked" woman. You know what I mean.

Ill also post if i have weak moments in this race and all that stuff.


The race is on!!

after reading Vlad's post I was like "Right, I wanna see if I can do this" - I'm in aswell.

We using this thread for progress reports?

For what it's worth I'm prayin' for you guys.....your studs!!! Stay strong. I've been in and out of treatment centres for addictions a few years ago so I know how hard it is to get a monkey off your back, especially when your monkey as you will find out is your best freind. There's gonna be a big whole when you kick it out of your life so get occupied with something.

Lee6,

I was in exactly the same conditions as u are, I could spent the whole night surfing and then ending up deleting all "evidence" ... just like you, looking for the perfect girl or the perfect site, this could have ruined my life and marriage, cause the wifey was complaining that I was not sleeping at night with her anymore and wanted to divorce from me, since I was spending from 7 pm to 3 am everyday on the pc, at work I was tired all the time. Simple things as ���� can screw your whole life if you overdoit .

Yeah man, this is like a fuckin snowball, you start viewing a little ���� and, next thing u know, you end up screwing some gal out there for real, and jeopardize your marriage.

Man , if you love ur family , and appreciate ur wife, have some guts and fight this addiction.. it is hard but u can do it.

Yeah, I am not cured ( I never will, hehehe, I love women! ) , but now I only surf through ���� sites one or two hours per week, compared to 60 or 70 hours per week I did in the past, I also looked for professional help and therapy and it helped, I shifted my energy towards something different other than the pc, the gym and basketball helped me alot, seek for some sort of activity other than ����.

I ended up moving to a place with no ISP contract and I havent contracted any since.

Trust me it takes balls to get off the addiction, but I wish you all luck ...

I ocassionally log on from my bro's home and fool around , but I take it easy.

I wish you luck man .

why dont you just tell your wife about it, and see if maybe she can enjoy the ���� with you

you can try out new stuff by watching and learning

like someone said, communication is key

mandrake said:

Yeah, I am not cured ( I never will, hehehe, I love women! ) , but now I only surf through ���� sites one or two hours per week, compared to 60 or 70 hours per week I did in the past, I also looked for professional help and therapy and it helped, I shifted my energy towards something different other than the pc, the gym and basketball helped me alot, seek for some sort of activity other than ����.

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I was just thinking as I read this that finding an extracurricular activity could be very helpful, preferably something competitive.

Look do not tell your wife. She will not understand. Get help. Go to therapy. Go to Church. Do not tell your wife. Honesty may be good at times. However, women do not understand. My brother was in the same situation. His wife left him. I think you can defeat this addiction not on your own but with help from either counseling or a minister.

I think you should not tell your wife.

Your decision.

Thanks guys. I have decided to spend alot more time playing the guitar. i got bored with it a year ago after learning all I could, and went in deep with the ���� more than usual. Im also going to start lifting weights again. I stopped it about 5 years ago after doing that for 13 years due to stress at a job. Mabey those 2 will get me going in another direction. Vlad and the rest in the competition, so far Ive been strong but its still lingering in my mind. Still in the race!

I have a change of plan for now - no more than 30 mins a day, I can usually control myself time-wise... good luck

Hey I just learned to play "In My Darkest Hour" by Megadeth! Rythem, not solos. I couldnt do that a year ago.

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