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I did not know where to post this thread, so I decided to post it here. @squirt_inducer_man you may move it to the proper location.
I want to ask all available members, whole forum, everyone. AM I the only one on earth that has premature ejaculation? I mean, to whomever I speak, they are all beasts that fuck live ���� stars. I know I have premature ejaculation. If I am overstimulated I won't last more than 1 minute after intravaginal penetration but OKAY I know my situation, it's lifelong. What about others? I listen everywhere, "I fuck at least 15 mins intravaginal like a beast". Okay If I fuck like a compressor I will cum in 30 secs. If I try to take it very, very slow... I might last....3 mins. That's my best. If I am without sex for a long time, or I did not masturbate, whatever I do, I will cum asap.
Is that the same with you guys? AM I the only 1-minute-get-the-job-done guy here?
 
Pumping and jelqing helps to some degree as the nerves readapt and desensitized about 30%. However, what helped me going from 5 minutes to 3+ hours is the techniques of slowing down, easing out when I was about to blow. It will take a few months to a few years, depending on how you train your mind and body. Sometimes, I do blow my load on 10 minutes rather than going on foe 20+ minutes when I saved up too many days without blowing.

Remember that you can blow faster as your hormones rage inside you. It's instinctive of survival to blow and go. As humans, we tend to adapt and slow down to enjoy. This is a acquired learning and not an automatic biological function. Just seen it as part of PE.

We can go into greater details if you need more info. There are at least seven techniques I can impart to you.
 
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As I have indicated before, it's a learning curve to train your body and mind not to offload until you want to.
  1. Pumping and jelqing does just that. Pump expands the entire penile body, which means the nerves, blood vessels, and tissues are being under stresses. This reduce the overall amount of sensitivity by around 30%. However, the glans can be your strength and weakness. Why? It will be slightly more sensitive due to changes. That sensitivity can force you to deflate during intense erection as it touches the cervix of inner vaginal wall, or it may hyper intensify your chance to offload quicker. I've been on both side of the issue.
  2. Controlling the offload by easing up. This can either be done by manual masterbation, or via sexual intimacy. When you feel like you're reaching 70% stimulated to offload, back off, ease up, and allow a bit of time by doing other stimulation with your partner. If you are alone, squeeze the entire penis shaft hard to deflate a bit. This is a programming period to train your mind not to allowing your semen to offload. Once you calmed down a bit, continue with the pleasuring and repeat. The more often you can do this series of self control under intense pleasuring, you can achieve longer lasting sessions and multiple (dry) orgasms. I get on average of 6 before blowing my loads.
  3. Desensitized methods using creams. There are tons of creams out there you can try to see which works best. So far, most males I know used tattooing cream for the glans and the bottom of the penis, from the frenulum to the middle of the penile shaft along the urethra. Works perfectly on delaying them for about 45 minutes. Why that short? It takes between 30 to 40 minutes to work, and the window of numbing is around the same amount of time. Cock ring is great too, but 20 to 30 mins window before penis goes limp due to nerve pinching effects. A pain in the rear of you want to have hard and sensational feeling for the long duration.
  4. Unload partial loads. What the hell does that mean? Practice to off the load in small amount and not in full. I practiced this for a few years, and offload the volume by 20% each time. After offloading a small volume, I can keep on going for the next hour without having to worry. You body flagged that you already released the load and won't force you to offload again until you become very sexually excited. My wife kept complaining that my quickies are too damn long, and my long sessions are lasting eternity. I used this truck to keep myself going and going like the sex bunny.
  5. Delaying foreplay is gap of calm time to either ease the blow off sessions or build up the next session. Remember that you can train your mind to get your penis back into operation within a few minutes as long as there are sexual stimuli. The film stars pound their penises on the girls' rear or groin to desensitize their penis while doing a teasing foreplay. This is very common. I do this too when I know I'm about to blow too early. I tease my woman by "accidentally" pushing into her anal, tapping my glans on her clit, or just drawing a dripping precum tip along her legs to show how much she lubricated my shaft and I need to doodle my lubricant on her body as teasing countermeasure. This also cause desensitizing for the glans as well.
  6. Toys play. Just like teasing mid stream, application of toys such as the Rose for clit hyper stimulation, G-spot vibrator, and even a soft lifelike dildo to hit her G and A spots while you suck on her nipples. My woman goes into hyper climaxes with a minute using some of the combo. I then pound her to numb my glans and only stimulate the shaft. This will ease the feeling of blowing the load early.
  7. Different positions provide different delay of your offload. Doggy and missionary are the quickest as your penis shaft has no constriction to ease the feeling of ejaculation. 69, spider, reverse cowgirl, and other kama sutra exotic positions causes yu our penis to hyper extend downward, providing natural pressure on the urethra and nerves without wearing the cock ring. Works great when I was going through the delay ejaculation training.
Hope these few things give you better ideas. I still have more but it's getting too long.
 
oldandlively said:
As I have indicated before, it's a learning curve to train your body and mind not to offload until you want to.
  1. Pumping and jelqing does just that. Pump expands the entire penile body, which means the nerves, blood vessels, and tissues are being under stresses. This reduce the overall amount of sensitivity by around 30%. However, the glans can be your strength and weakness. Why? It will be slightly more sensitive due to changes. That sensitivity can force you to deflate during intense erection as it touches the cervix of inner vaginal wall, or it may hyper intensify your chance to offload quicker. I've been on both side of the issue.
  2. Controlling the offload by easing up. This can either be done by manual masterbation, or via sexual intimacy. When you feel like you're reaching 70% stimulated to offload, back off, ease up, and allow a bit of time by doing other stimulation with your partner. If you are alone, squeeze the entire penis shaft hard to deflate a bit. This is a programming period to train your mind not to allowing your semen to offload. Once you calmed down a bit, continue with the pleasuring and repeat. The more often you can do this series of self control under intense pleasuring, you can achieve longer lasting sessions and multiple (dry) orgasms. I get on average of 6 before blowing my loads.
  3. Desensitized methods using creams. There are tons of creams out there you can try to see which works best. So far, most males I know used tattooing cream for the glans and the bottom of the penis, from the frenulum to the middle of the penile shaft along the urethra. Works perfectly on delaying them for about 45 minutes. Why that short? It takes between 30 to 40 minutes to work, and the window of numbing is around the same amount of time. Cock ring is great too, but 20 to 30 mins window before penis goes limp due to nerve pinching effects. A pain in the rear of you want to have hard and sensational feeling for the long duration.
  4. Unload partial loads. What the hell does that mean? Practice to off the load in small amount and not in full. I practiced this for a few years, and offload the volume by 20% each time. After offloading a small volume, I can keep on going for the next hour without having to worry. You body flagged that you already released the load and won't force you to offload again until you become very sexually excited. My wife kept complaining that my quickies are too damn long, and my long sessions are lasting eternity. I used this truck to keep myself going and going like the sex bunny.
  5. Delaying foreplay is gap of calm time to either ease the blow off sessions or build up the next session. Remember that you can train your mind to get your penis back into operation within a few minutes as long as there are sexual stimuli. The film stars pound their penises on the girls' rear or groin to desensitize their penis while doing a teasing foreplay. This is very common. I do this too when I know I'm about to blow too early. I tease my woman by "accidentally" pushing into her anal, tapping my glans on her clit, or just drawing a dripping precum tip along her legs to show how much she lubricated my shaft and I need to doodle my lubricant on her body as teasing countermeasure. This also cause desensitizing for the glans as well.
  6. Toys play. Just like teasing mid stream, application of toys such as the Rose for clit hyper stimulation, G-spot vibrator, and even a soft lifelike dildo to hit her G and A spots while you suck on her nipples. My woman goes into hyper climaxes with a minute using some of the combo. I then pound her to numb my glans and only stimulate the shaft. This will ease the feeling of blowing the load early.
  7. Different positions provide different delay of your offload. Doggy and missionary are the quickest as your penis shaft has no constriction to ease the feeling of ejaculation. 69, spider, reverse cowgirl, and other kama sutra exotic positions causes yu our penis to hyper extend downward, providing natural pressure on the urethra and nerves without wearing the cock ring. Works great when I was going through the delay ejaculation training.
Hope these few things give you better ideas. I still have more but it's getting too long.
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Very good info here. Thanks for sharing brother.
 
I think my English are bad, and I did not pass the meaning that I wanted to pass.
I am not asking about how long someone can last in sex. Or how should someone do sex. I am asking about how long can someone last when he enters a vagina. This is my question. I also cannot take @squirt_inducer_man reply into account because if I cum I need 30 minutes to have erection again because I am not 15 years old which will be bad for the girl.
So, here is the question again. How long do you guy last?
 
@kriskros your English is still good. Yes, I described the method to last inside the vagina. I used to be the 5 mins man way back in my youth. It took me a few months to be a 30 mins man, then hours man after a year while being inside the vagina. What you are experiencing is hyper sensitivity and hyper stimulation. Very common when your hormones are raging to impregnate the girl on instinct. You just need to train to go against that instinct.
 
oldandlively said:
@kriskros your English is still good. Yes, I described the method to last inside the vagina. I used to be the 5 mins man way back in my youth. It took me a few months to be a 30 mins man, then hours man after a year while being inside the vagina. What you are experiencing is hyper sensitivity and hyper stimulation. Very common when your hormones are raging to impregnate the girl on instinct. You just need to train to go against that instinct.
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How do I train that?
 
If you are about to tell me that "when you are 80% about to cum go out" then that means I have to get out after 20secs wich is somehow strange. I am asking something thats doable
 
kriskros said:
I also cannot take @squirt_inducer_man reply into account because if I cum I need 30 minutes to have erection again because I am not 15 years old which will be bad for the girl.
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By the way, if you take up to 30 mins to get back into an erection, I do have suggestions for you. It used to take me 20 minutes to get my erection back in my 40s. Now, I can get it back in 5 mins.

Critical thing is testosterone level. You must have a good level. I normally take blood sample to monitor my creatinine level yearly. If it drops below 90, I have to find ways to ensure to rises above 100. This is the optimal healthy body of men in their 20s. This is to maintain your libido at optimal level.

Make sure to exercise, both in forms of muscles and cardio. Muscle, or resistance training, should comprise of 80% to 85% of the routine, and the remaining is short burst cardio. This helps with blood flow and heart health to keep your libido high.

Also, keep your Vitamin D3 level up as well as nitric oxide. These two assists with heart health and blood flow delivering the needed blood supply to your penis. I supplement my vitamins with B-complex twice the daily doses, and HMB powder to keep my testosterone level high during my aging years. My libido flying high.

kriskros said:
How do I train that?
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Look at the previous post of mine for the 7 suggested items. I can give you more.
 
kriskros said:
If you are about to tell me that "when you are 80% about to cum go out" then that means I have to get out after 20secs wich is somehow strange. I am asking something thats doable
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When you feel that urge to cum at 80%, ease out and calm down, even if it's 40 seconds into penetration. It will take time to train your mind and body to be better.
kriskros said:
@oldandlively i think its neurological on my side
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That's a definite. And also due to hyper sensitivity. When you want to cum, your mind can control the urges to let the load go. That's why I said it both the mind and the body. You have to control both, same as PE. It takes both the mind to keep going and be diligent, and physical conditioning for growth.
 
kriskros said:
they are all beasts that fuck live ���� stars.
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I don't like it when these words are mentioned here, they are censored here for a reason.
'P' destroys relationships and love.

@kriskros you know that these movies are cut together from multiple takes?

You can't compare yourself to these movies or the men in them, if you do it will ruin you from within. When you see the fakeness of these movies, you will never go back.

Also: You can never win the comparison game.
 
The p-movies are entertainment, and those in them trained and enhanced their bodies to entertain the masses. Don't compare yourself to them, but rather, set goals for yourself for your own purposes. Who are you doing PE for? What are your purpose to motivate you? Will you be able to meet your set goals as you know yourself best all these years of your life?

You confidence is your main goal to develop first. Without that confidence, you will not develop the drive and ambition for your PE. It takes tons of motivation and dedication on your part to go through the PE journeys. Those who gone through them at some level, they can tell you it takes finance, blood, sweat, tears, and pure tenacity. This is why the mottos "never give up" and "nothing is impossible" come into play.
 
oldandlively said:
The p-movies are entertainment, and those in them trained and enhanced their bodies to entertain the masses. Don't compare yourself to them, but rather, set goals for yourself for your own purposes. Who are you doing PE for? What are your purpose to motivate you? Will you be able to meet your set goals as you know yourself best all these years of your life?

You confidence is your main goal to develop first. Without that confidence, you will not develop the drive and ambition for your PE. It takes tons of motivation and dedication on your part to go through the PE journeys. Those who gone through them at some level, they can tell you it takes finance, blood, sweat, tears, and pure tenacity. This is why the mottos "never give up" and "nothing is impossible" come into play.
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The journey of making your penis big also change you in a fundamental way.

Penis Enlargement in connection to this brotherhood, really teaches you all about the discipline you need in life, in order to accomplish anything you desire in this lifetime.
 
I admire you all. I mean it. I am not joking, neither I am ironic. I try so hard in comparison with you.
This seems so much difficult for me if I add into account my life (work etc.) and my medical problems.
Okay thanks guys.
 
kriskros said:
I admire you all. I mean it. I am not joking, neither I am ironic. I try so hard in comparison with you.
This seems so much difficult for me if I add into account my life (work etc.) and my medical problems.
Okay thanks guys.
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It have been difficult for us all.

I went 1 year alone in my apartment, just to get my penis bigger, I lost a lot of muscle mass as well. The sacrifices have been great. But it was worth it.
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
I don't like it when these words are mentioned here, they are censored here for a reason.
'P' destroys relationships and love.

@kriskros you know that these movies are cut together from multiple takes?

You can't compare yourself to these movies or the men in them, if you do it will ruin you from within. When you see the fakeness of these movies, you will never go back.

Also: You can never win the comparison game.
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Amen!
 
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