Thoughts

[msustud]

I am not sure where to put this thread, but I figure this may be the best spot . It's kind of long so bare with me. If I haven't introduced myself before than I am going to do it now. I am a 22 year old male in college. I have a 7.5 nbp, 7.75 bp, and 5.25-5.375 girth for size. I have gained pretty decently when I first started Pe, but now I haven't had much luck. I have came to realize some things, and I want everyone to make sure they watch what they think too. Ever since I started to be sexually active I have always thought of my member as just alright if not then small. Before I had any sexual encounters I probably had about a 5.5 incher and I thought very highly of it. Everyone is different so not everyone is going to like what they have nor will the person next to you have the same size as you more than likely. Since everyone is different we have to accept who we are and what we got, because no one else will. Maybe your parents will be the exceptoin lol. I have came to realize this and to accept myself for who I am and what I got. I know everyone wants to have a big unit as I can't blame them. I want to get there as well and I am going to keep trying as hard as I can, but if I don't get there thats alright because I am happy with what I got. It's just like what we read sometimes on here with sexual encounters of others. The girls more than likely didn't come back because he had a big unit, but it was more that he thought highly of himself and was confident in everything he was doing. Thus presenting himself as the man and being the man. Just because you aren't huge doesn't mean you can't be happy with your life. I am more than sure that there are plenty of things to be thankful for for everyone out there. You just need to find them and be happy with who you are. It's like trying the different exercises people come up with. Sometimes they may work for you and sometimes they wont, so dont get discouraged and depressed if they dont work for you. Just keep working at it and find things that work for you. Just like I said before everyone is different. In the end this can be addicting, but remember who you are and the good things about yourself and you should be happy in life. That's what I learned as I was always depressed about my size and always insecure about it leading to other insecurities. I just want everyone to be thankful for life as much as they can and to appreciate the things in life that make you YOU.

 

[insearchof9inch]

Size isn't everything to quite a few men and women. Quite often women just enjoy being with a man they care about more than his size.

 

[coolbreeze]

good post bro - most of us realize we are here cuz its our own issue....most women dont really care that much as long as you are a good lover...if size was that important evolution would have weeded out small sized men a long time ago.....

 

[kong1971]

I have come to the conclusion after being here and doing this awhile that we are the male equivalents of those girls who look in the mirror and think, "If only my boobs were a little bigger, my butt a little bigger, my waist a little smaller..." She may turn the head of every man she walks by, but in her mind she is not good enough.

The reality of the matter is that the human vagina is, on average, only 5 to 6 inches deep, and when they say that size doesn't matter, they really do mean it-- so long as you got enough cock to fill up that 5 to 6 inch deep pussy! Sadly enough, there are some men who can't do that, and those are the guys who need Penis Enlargement, not these skinny nineteen year olds I see here all the time with thick 9 inch dicks, thinking they're too tiny. That just makes me sad.

I have grown my cock doing these exercises from 5.5 inches to a little over 7 (I have been lazy lately and have lost a little length, but that's okay, as soon as I'm off break I'll be back at it). I never had a complaint, not when I was 5.5 and not now.

I want my 8" NBP, but I know it won't make much difference to my wife if I get it, except that I'll have to be more careful when first putting it in because she has a small, tight pussy. I want it for me because, deep down, I am insecure. My wife loves me for who I am-- my personality, my sense of humor, my mind-- not because I have 7 inches of penis hanging between my legs instead of 6. The insecurity that I and you feel is just a construct of our minds caused by some misfiring nueron or past event.

I can assure you of something else, msu, from my own experiences with women. Your cock is a little longer than mine. Mine is a little thicker than yours. But if we both fucked the same woman I pretty much guarantee she wouldn't be able to tell much difference at all. It's a vagina, not a measuring device. They're only sensitive the first inch or two deep. With women, it's how deep you get in their head, not their pussy. Go for their emotions and fantasies, not their cervix. and they'll think you're the best lay they ever had.

 

[prince Albert]

Disagree kong about women only being sensitive for the first inch or two,in the case of my missus she asks to be fucked deep when she can feel her orgasm coming on and they are a lot more intense now than they were before i gained the extra length,not saying thats the case for all women mind you just what ive seen with my wife.

Also off topic quote "my butt a little bigger" if you were in the uk/europe it would be i wish my butt was smaller : )

As far as size goes no you don't need a big dick to be good in bed and one of my best mates has an average size dick ive seen pics of it and i told him about pe and he wasn't interested,said he didn't have any problem making his girlfriend cum so why bother.

 

[kong1971]

Yes, you're right. Perhaps I should have said that better. The main concentration of sexual nerves is in the first two or three inches of the vagina. They can certainly tell the difference between a 4 inch cock and an eight inch cock, and they can certainly tell how deep it's going. I just meant the main part that is being stimulated is toward the opening of the vagina, not at the bottom. I guess that means that any size guy is going to get make them feel good. The big guys are just going to give them that extra little stretch!

I stand by the rest of my comments.

 

[insearchof9inch]

Yeh Prince Albert I agree, thing is I fill up my gf now anyway but still...........

 

[kong1971]

Oh, I'm not arguing that size doesn't matter at all. It certainly does. HOWEVER, I just hate to see someone feeling bad about their "subpar" 6 or 7 inch cock. I am very happy with my size. It doesn't mean I don't want more, but I know that this desire is an ego thing, and that any woman would be perfectly happy with my 7X6. I am arguing for us guys to Penis Enlargement from a realistic and healthy mental standpoint, not out of a sense of shame or low self-esteem. There is a difference between thinking "I want 8 inches so I can be hung like a horse!" and "I need a bigger dick because mine isn't good enough." One is healthy and one is not.

 

[DLD]

Size isn't everything to quite a few men and women. Quite often women just enjoy being with a man they care about more than his size.

Awesome point!

 

[insearchof9inch]