One wife's opinion (sorry for long post)

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I am recently unemployed so you might say I am a "bored housewife". With not much to do during the day or night, I have been visiting various websites to pass the time. I know that my husband visits here often, because I see him and he also from time to time wants me to see some of the pictures that guys post here.
Anyway, the last week I have been going through a lot of the present posts as well as archives, and I would like to give My opinion on penis size, if you don't mind.
I know that my husband is going to read this anyways and I am going to tell him that I am posting this. My husband posts as Kcee and is pretty much obsessed with his penis size. We have been married for over 20 years since we were teens. We have what I think is a great marriage and sex life, but I figured out pretty quick that he was obsessed with this subject. I am not real sure why, because he has a nice sized penis. He thinks it is sexy when I measure it, and he measures almost 7 inches long and is over 7 inches around. It is so big around that blow jobs hurt my jaw.
Anyway, he loves to get on the subject of penis size sometimes when we have sex and he loves to fantasize about me having sex with someone with a huge penis. I go along and it's kind of sexy but to tell the truth I could care less.
What I want to tell you guys is what REALLY turns ME on. In truth, I DO like looking at guy's dicks. I always have even when I was a little girl. I enjoy watching adult entertainment films and looking at guys penises on the internet. But you know what...I like them all regardless of size. What turns me on is a hard on, regardless of size. When a guy gets a hardon, that turns me on.
My fantasy is that he is excited ABOUT ME! Now that is a turnon.
My favorite adult entertainment movie that we ever rented started out in an alley where about 6 guys were masturbating (sp?) around this one beautiful girl. They were stroking their penises and slapping it on her butt. It turned me on so much. The rest of the movie was boring, but I LOVED that scene. It was all I needed to get hot. Now these guys had pretty big penises, but that wasn't what made it sexy to me. It was me putting myself in the place of that woman knowing that those guys were turned on by ME.
We both are somewhat of flirts when we go out. I wear sexy clothes to show off my body, and he dresses to impress as well. I also like it when a guy is in shape. My husband is a bodybuilder and I love to see his butt in jeans and to see his chest. He thinks that it is important to have a big bulge in his jeans, but that is not important to me...give me that butt!
I guess you can see that I don't have much to do with the long post and all, but I really would like to get the point across guys...don't stress about your dicks so much! I am writing this for my hubby as much as you guys (although there's not much hope that he will change on this subject).
I don't expect to post again here, but this does seem to be a pretty cool site in spite of the anxiety.

XXXXXDeeDee

ps I do admit sometimes when I am around my girlfriends that we talk about the subject! LOL
 
Thank's for the female insight.

Ya, quite a few of us are obsessed with our penis's and it has caused problems with my relationships. I try to keep my "interest" in Penis Enlargement under control but I can't stop coming back to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] rofl
 
deedee said:
I am recently unemployed so you might say I am a "bored housewife". With not much to do during the day or night, I have been visiting various websites to pass the time. I know that my husband visits here often, because I see him and he also from time to time wants me to see some of the pictures that guys post here.
Anyway, the last week I have been going through a lot of the present posts as well as archives, and I would like to give My opinion on penis size, if you don't mind.
I know that my husband is going to read this anyways and I am going to tell him that I am posting this. My husband posts as Kcee and is pretty much obsessed with his penis size. We have been married for over 20 years since we were teens. We have what I think is a great marriage and sex life, but I figured out pretty quick that he was obsessed with this subject. I am not real sure why, because he has a nice sized penis. He thinks it is sexy when I measure it, and he measures almost 7 inches long and is over 7 inches around. It is so big around that blow jobs hurt my jaw.
Anyway, he loves to get on the subject of penis size sometimes when we have sex and he loves to fantasize about me having sex with someone with a huge penis. I go along and it's kind of sexy but to tell the truth I could care less.
What I want to tell you guys is what REALLY turns ME on. In truth, I DO like looking at guy's dicks. I always have even when I was a little girl. I enjoy watching adult entertainment films and looking at guys penises on the internet. But you know what...I like them all regardless of size. What turns me on is a hard on, regardless of size. When a guy gets a hardon, that turns me on.
My fantasy is that he is excited ABOUT ME! Now that is a turnon.
My favorite adult entertainment movie that we ever rented started out in an alley where about 6 guys were masturbating (sp?) around this one beautiful girl. They were stroking their penises and slapping it on her butt. It turned me on so much. The rest of the movie was boring, but I LOVED that scene. It was all I needed to get hot. Now these guys had pretty big penises, but that wasn't what made it sexy to me. It was me putting myself in the place of that woman knowing that those guys were turned on by ME.
We both are somewhat of flirts when we go out. I wear sexy clothes to show off my body, and he dresses to impress as well. I also like it when a guy is in shape. My husband is a bodybuilder and I love to see his butt in jeans and to see his chest. He thinks that it is important to have a big bulge in his jeans, but that is not important to me...give me that butt!
I guess you can see that I don't have much to do with the long post and all, but I really would like to get the point across guys...don't stress about your dicks so much! I am writing this for my hubby as much as you guys (although there's not much hope that he will change on this subject).
I don't expect to post again here, but this does seem to be a pretty cool site in spite of the anxiety.

XXXXXDeeDee

ps I do admit sometimes when I am around my girlfriends that we talk about the subject! LOL
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Hey, welcome to the forum! I have been reading Kcee's posts for years here and I believe a few other places. You say you don't care about size much but do you think it might be an issue if your husband wasn't as thick as he is? It is easy to say you don't have a problem with his size but his girth is in the top .1%. Perhaps if he had an average or small size it might become an issue? What all is discussed amongst your girlfriends and how does it get brought up?
 
I said I wouldn't do this, but here I am. I will stay with this as long as this stays alive.
A very good question. I have not made love to that many men, but I have had a few. Size was really not an issue, because it is really not the intercourse that gives me the orgasm alone. I need plenty of stimulation, and then I like to be "finished off" with intercourse. If a guy knows how to give me the right stimulation, his penis will get the job done, if you know what I mean.
Kcee was not always as big around as he is now. I don't really know what happed the last few years, but he has gotten much bigger around. Truthfully, I ALWAYS liked the sex. I like to "mindfucked' as much as anything, (excuse the unladylike word!). I can't honestly say for sure if it brings me that much more pleasure physically.
This is bad, but the pleasure I get from his fat penis more than anything is showing pictures to my girlfriends. That's pretty bad isn't it? Oh, well, I told you I'm a a tease and a flirt.

DeeDee
 
I wish my dick was so fat that my gf showed of pics to her friends.

You are right that big size is'nt necessary for a fulfilling sexual relationship. The "mindfuck" remark is so true is'nt it.
 
Yea being 7x7 he's bigger than MOST adult entertainment stars. Theres not too many adult entertainment stars running around with 7 inch girth. So I can see how its not a concern of yours. Plus DeeDee is proving that most girls are infact attention whores (no offense). I've always said though majority of girls get off more dancing on tables at a club while everyones watching, than they do having sex.
 
One question,

As a woman who has fucked a truly humongous girth, do you think this has stretched you out permanently? If you were able to enjoy an average ~5 inch girth penis before your husband do you think your ability to have a tight fit with said penis nowadays would be jeopardized?
 
Nice size? Wants to see you with huge ones?

7X7 is huge. Maybe the length would look small if he were a bodybuilder, but it's definitely NOT.
 
Sounds like you enjoy the site of erections (so much for women aren't stimulated visually) because of the aspect of you love a man being turned on by you. Sounds like you have a good marriage and sex life, so enjoy it. Kcee's size is far above average, so again enjoy it.
 
sasquatch said:
Thank's for the female insight.

Ya, quite a few of us are obsessed with our penis's and it has caused problems with my relationships. I try to keep my "interest" in Penis Enlargement under control but I can't stop coming back to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] rofl
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Me eather bro. I Been to manny diffrent sites but I always wide up back here.
I don't bleave we are the only ones obsessed with penis size, woman are very obsessed also if you don't belive me google up "size Queens" many woman are looking for the big one, "And.. it has to be ME.."
 
Wow. It looks like I started something here. Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to this, but I have been out job hunting. I will try to answer some of your questions, which I find interesting. I am really trying to understand this whole penis size thing with guys.

1) No, I don't think that I am permanently stretched out from kcee. Reason? I have to be VERY well lubricated now just to take him in. Does it feel better than with the thinner guys that I have had? I can't say for sure.
Blowjobs for sure aren't as much fun. I used to be able to get almost all of him in my mouth, now just the head. He has to be soft to get it in.

2) Franchise: I LOVED your comment about girl's would rather dance on the table. NO DOUBT ABOUT THAT! I am a HUGE flirt. Nothing turns me on more than dressing in a low cut dress and going clubbing. At my age, it turns me on seeing young guys give me glances.

3) Penguinsfan: You know, I think that I really do enjoy the site of a man's erection, regardless of size. That, and that alone, is the sign that a man is turned on, and what can be sexier than that?

4) In closing, your comments about kcee being bigger than average is nice. But the only reasone that I think that is because I really wish that HE COULD BELIEVE THAT. I maybe think that part of it is that when he doesn't have an erection, it looks very average. He won't even let me see him sometimes when he is soft. Is that a laugh?

5) The last comment about us having a good relationship is SO TRUE. We love each other so much and have never been with anyone else in over 20 years. We have a tremendously exciting and fulfilling sex life. We may flirt and fantasize a bit, but in the end, it's just us. I wish the same for each and every one of you great guys.

DeeDee XXXXXX

ps kcee hasn't said anything yet. I haven't told him about this. I am probably in BIG TROUBLE!
 
my girlfriend tells me that penis size is not important. i held up my pinky and said "what about this?", and she said she would love it. i believe her, but with all the hype about big d's i get frustrated thinking about it. i know she wouldn't lie to me, but i know that there are girls out there that say things to the one's they love so they won't hurt they're feelings.

luckily, i am 5.5"x4.5", now i know its not above average, but she loves it. we spent about an hour and 15 minutes "doin' the nasty" :) the other night and i know she loved it. i took my time and really showed her that i love her and everything i have is for her, and i know that adds to what she gets out of it.

it seems though that after a while it wasn't hard to get in and that to me makes me wonder about my girth. would she like it better if i where 5" or 5.5" in girth? she may, but the fact is, she probably doesn't care.

after telling her about pe and hearing her ask me "why do you care so much about it? it is fine!", i know that if she ever wanted any more mass inside of her she could come to me about it. so, i'm really not worried about her going behind my back because she knows it is something that i can change if i work hard at it.

i wish i could say that all girls like their boyfriends or husbands penises just because it is theirs, but that's probably not true. however, probably a lot more girls than we guys think love it just the way it is. there are other factors that get girls going rather than just the numbers.
 
thenewguy said:
my girlfriend tells me that penis size is not important. i held up my pinky and said "what about this?", and she said she would love it. i believe her, but with all the hype about big d's i get frustrated thinking about it. i know she wouldn't lie to me, but i know that there are girls out there that say things to the one's they love so they won't hurt they're feelings.

luckily, i am 5.5"x4.5", now i know its not above average, but she loves it. we spent about an hour and 15 minutes "doin' the nasty" :) the other night and i know she loved it. i took my time and really showed her that i love her and everything i have is for her, and i know that adds to what she gets out of it.

it seems though that after a while it wasn't hard to get in and that to me makes me wonder about my girth. would she like it better if i where 5" or 5.5" in girth? she may, but the fact is, she probably doesn't care.

after telling her about pe and hearing her ask me "why do you care so much about it? it is fine!", i know that if she ever wanted any more mass inside of her she could come to me about it. so, i'm really not worried about her going behind my back because she knows it is something that i can change if i work hard at it.

i wish i could say that all girls like their boyfriends or husbands penises just because it is theirs, but that's probably not true. however, probably a lot more girls than we guys think love it just the way it is. there are other factors that get girls going rather than just the numbers.
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Congrats on the great girl man.
A thought occurred to me while reading your post that I want to voice before I forget. I keep hearing stories of girls who genuinely don't seem to care about penis size. Then there are guys on here who are here because of the hurtful remarks girls have said about penis size. I know this difference could be debated to death on who the majority is, but my point is our society has a knack for focusing on the negative. You know the old saying that when a hurricane hits the South they never interview a Southern doctor or Lawyer, they always manage to find the fat lady wearing a mu-mu with curlers in her hair and sponge rollers in her hand. Therefore the South is portrayed as a bunch of illitereate yahoos. Perhaps thats where alot of this is coming from. Like that song, I think it was Lil' Kim who had it in her lyrics: "under 7 inches...sorry". The problem with this kind of thinking in our media is that it is poisoning the minds of younger girls who try to live up to their MTV idols. I believe someone actually posted here a long time ago about his 12 year old daughter soliciting sex on the internet, but only with someone with a penis of 7 inches or more. Wow if that isn't a startling clue as to the mentality thats being stirred around the hallways of freakin' MIDDLE SCHOOLS then I don't know what is. So while logic would dictate to most rational women that penis size doesn't really matter, the negative element is making itself better known, and making girls who would otherwise be rational women believe that it is the normal way to be. Take from all of that what you will. I decided some time ago that I'm doing this for myself, and not any woman, and I will go on with it with or without anyone's approval.
 
I'm back for another round. Couldn't find a job so I have insomnia. I saw kcee's post about being "so busted". Yeah, right!
Anyway, the last post is just what I was thinking about in relation to this thread. I believe that our society believes whatever it hears or reads without thinking too much.
For whatever reason you hear so much about "size matters" in commercials, tv shows, etc. now where you never did years ago. It conditions everyone to think that, when in reality, there is no real evidence behind it.
I have always heard that if you believe something is so, it is. So I believe that some people for whatever meansprited reason try to perpetuate it.
I challenge anyone to prove that a girl can feel anything that much different if there's an inch more of flesh. I'm sorry. I don't believe it.
But like some guys are the same way, they feel if a girl isn't built a certain way, she is not desirable. Come on, there's got to be more to life than that!
One wife's opinion.

DeeDee
 
well size does matter is the guys version of girls have to look like super models in order to be sexy. I am doing Penis Enlargement for myself and recently told my girl and she was kind of wierded out, well not kind of more like really. She was like its not wierd you want a bigger one, its just wierd that you are that obsessed with it.
 
I understand how she feels because I have one at home that is the same way. It seems that no amount of reassurance will ever let him forget about it.

DeeDee
 
To: Thewife;
Point well taken. You certainly have the right to preferences. My husband has sexual preferences. I do too. I like tight abs and a tight butt. So I guess you liking large penises is your right as well. I only feel that there is SOME tendency these days to influence people in to thinking that only "BIGGER IS BETTER!" And most of all, I never, ever want to make a man feel less of a man because he only has a 5 inch penis.
I read somewhere once that Elvis had a very average penis. But I promise you, there were more women lining up for him than the most famous adult entertainment star.
But again, I truly validate your point of view.

DeeDee
 
you say natural, but for every guy who does a pe routine there is probably a "natural" guy the same size as him somewhere else. i would also like to know from a womans pov how much is too big?
 
I just want to jump in and say to our new women members that they should not hold back on saying they like big dicks or don't like (if so) small dicks. Just like you are getting our honest opinion, we want yours, nobody will feel offended unless you are mean or offensive. I appreciate your honesty.

And thewife, you said 12" would be your max. I suggest you actually hold a 12" ruler physically in your hands and then tell us again about it. Or maybe, if you have the time, make a cylinder out of a piece of paper with the measurements you say you would like. Then, adjust if you want until you are satisfied and measure again. I would really like to know the outcome of this.
 
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First - thanks for the reassurance that I can be honest. I dont' want to step on anyones feet or hurt anyone....would never do that.

Okay - I did the ruler thing....AND......I think 10.5 would be the perfect fit for me. Maybe about 6" girth. I know that is not HUGE or adult entertainment star size....but to me it would be perfect.

Honestly - I don't know if I could take the 12". I mean I know I pushed an 8lb baby out of there....but it's not like it was fun, that's for sure and I had DRUGS!!

I think for sex to still be enjoyable 10.5 would be great. Enough to visually turn me on, but not so much that feel like I'm giving birth again (being a little sarcastic, since we all know babies are bigger around than 6" :))

Another thing - I would rather the flacid be long than the erection. I LOVE the look of a long flacid dick hanging our being bulged up in pants. The longer it would hang flacid the better......but for sex, not so much. I know you can't have a long flacid dick and a not so long erect one.....but you get my point - right?
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Heh interesting, that was a cool little experiment that was suggested. However the only pornstar I know of that might be bigger than 10.5 by 6 is Mandingo, so whoever had that would not only be pornstar size, but if he could get it up for the camera, would be very well paid and well known pornstar size:) . It has ben discussed greatly about the camera angles and visual tricks of adult entertainment (plus the use of tiny girls) that can make an 8 inch look like a 12, so imagine what 10.5 would look like on the screen. Plus that size is incredibly rare. I wasn't trying to be mean or anything, I just thought I'd mention that. Also if you haven't already seen them, Dld's 10.5 dick pics are in the pic proof section.
 
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REDZULU2003 said:
I may as well ask a question to the woman :)

Veins, do veins on a cock turn you on?
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I know this was answered, but I'm not sure I understand the answer. Most of the best-selling dildos are heavily veined. So, Red and me believe that visible veins/arteries matter. And both of us have pretty heavily veined shafts. That's why we're so interested in knowing about this. That, and the fact that we've heard so few straight answers about this from women.

To the two wives: do veins matter physically to you? Do veins matter visually to you? If you could design a cock, would you prefer 1 or 2 really large veins, or 8 or 9 smaller ones?

I know some people will find these questions strange, but believe me, I'd really like to hear some answers. Thanks, ladies.
 
I've enjoyed reading this thread and must thank both of you ladies for your honesty and perspective on these issues. And it's nice to know while you enjoy the large dicks you keep it in perspective when evaluating your men. Your husbands seem like lucky men to have wives still interested after years of marriage.
 
thewife said:
I think 10.5 would be the perfect fit for me. Maybe about 6" girth. I know that is not HUGE or adult entertainment star size....but to me it would be perfect.
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A 6" girth is average porno size, while a 10.5" length is beyond HUGE.
 
thewife said:
10.5 would be the perfect fit for me. Maybe about 6" girth. I know that is not HUGE or adult entertainment star size....but to me it would be perfect.
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Wow thewife what kind of adult entertainment do you watch? MOST male pornstars wish they could be that big.

spinner2 said:
a 10.5" length is beyond HUGE.
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I agree. That's Mandingo territory.
 
I share penguinsfan’s sentiment and thank the new ladies thewife (I’d like to apologize for my cheap shot in the previous thread, sorry) & deedee for adding their much needed and honest female perspective on the issue of penis size. They are obviously very intelligent ladies and I think most of the male members can agree that they’ve made the forum a little more sophisticated.
 
Since finding that little DeeDee has invaded my (ahem) territory, I have watched this thread with more than a little interest. The only comment I want to make is to penguinfan; yes we have a GREAT marriage and sex life as well. And I can only wish that all of you could have a wife like the beautiful DeeDee. She has been my little princess (and temptress!) for over 20 years.
 
deedee said:
Since finding that little DeeDee has invaded my (ahem) territory, I have watched this thread with more than a little interest. The only comment I want to make is to penguinfan; yes we have a GREAT marriage and sex life as well. And I can only wish that all of you could have a wife like the beautiful DeeDee. She has been my little princess (and temptress!) for over 20 years.
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Well...I'm not holding my breath, but I hope I do get as lucky as you. :)
 
thewife said:
I guess my perception is off. I know looking at almost all of these pictures (without looking at the stats (sorry) I just assumed that most of you were like 9" or 10".......

Most of the porns I watch they guys dicks are about the same as most of the pics I've seen on here and in my mind I thought they were like 12" or something. Goes to show how much I know ........
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Well I gues many members here can take that as a compliment.
 
thewife said:
I guess my perception is off. I know looking at almost all of these pictures (without looking at the stats (sorry) I just assumed that most of you were like 9" or 10".......

Most of the porns I watch they guys dicks are about the same as most of the pics I've seen on here and in my mind I thought they were like 12" or something. Goes to show how much I know ........
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THANK YOU.


This isn't a dig at Wifey: she's a classy individual who's been very mature and rational in sharing her opinions with us - but AGAIN - she just shows how totally skewed the average woman's perception of size is. She thought that she could take a FOOT-LONG dick like it was nothing, but just look at what she said. :P Sorry theWife, I couldn't resist... but it's a good a chance as any to illustrate a common phenomenon and how women are misinformed about TRUE penis size, and also throw men off in the process.

This is my rule of thumb concerning women and the size they 'want':

A LEGITIMATE 8-9 inches is about as much as 90% of women can take - and even that requires some serious foreplay and warming up. Most feel comfortable (and fully satisfied) with between 6.5 and 8 inches provided there is ample girth. I think the other 10% are sizequeens and can take whatever you throw at them (10 FEET long, for all I know) - but that's okay, pleny more fish in the sea... :)
 
In the above post, BLU said:
"A LEGITIMATE 8-9 inches is about as much as 90% of women can take - and even that requires some serious foreplay and warming up. Most feel comfortable (and fully satisfied) with between 6.5 and 8 inches provided there is ample girth."

I can't speak for other women, but in DeeDee's case (the lady that started this post) I believe that for her 7" length is perfect for her. I don't say that because that is what I am, but because we sometimes play with some "realistic" toys (an 8x6 toy to be exact!).

When DeeDee lets me insert it inside, it bottoms out with an inch left. I of course want to see it all go in (come on, all you guys have the same fantasies!) but it won't no matter how excited she is.

So, that's my 2 1/2 cents worth.

kcee
 
kcee said:
In the above post, BLU said:
"A LEGITIMATE 8-9 inches is about as much as 90% of women can take - and even that requires some serious foreplay and warming up. Most feel comfortable (and fully satisfied) with between 6.5 and 8 inches provided there is ample girth."

I can't speak for other women, but in DeeDee's case (the lady that started this post) I believe that for her 7" length is perfect for her. I don't say that because that is what I am, but because we sometimes play with some "realistic" toys (an 8x6 toy to be exact!).

When DeeDee lets me insert it inside, it bottoms out with an inch left. I of course want to see it all go in (come on, all you guys have the same fantasies!) but it won't no matter how excited she is.

So, that's my 2 1/2 cents worth.

kcee
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lol So what are you doing here man? Don't tell me she wants more girth. haha. Just having fun, but I am a tad curious what your targeting in your Penis Enlargement anyway.:)
 
thewife said:
I guess my perception is off. I know looking at almost all of these pictures (without looking at the stats (sorry) I just assumed that most of you were like 9" or 10".......

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This to the topic women and size estimates :cool:
 
I want more length, but so far to no avail. I guess I have insecurities that began like some of the other's here. I was a late bloomer in middle school and felt like a little boy around the more mature kids. Even though I eventually surpassed most of the early maturer's in height and physique, those first impressions sometime last forever.
I think that my flaccid size keeps me insecure. You can't show anybody an erection in the showers! LOL!

kcee
 
i would like to thank both of you ladies for your point of view please feel free to be open and honest even if the truth might hurt some members. You both have lucky husbands to take an interest in all this. (wish my wife would) btw i am curenty a little shy of 8x5.75 and want to get to 9x6.
 
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