new here - serious confidence problems

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Hello, I just joined this site. I have serious confidence problems with regards to my penis. Very serious. I'm also a mental health patient so I'm thinking that coupled with all the rest of the bullshit that's going on in my mind the penis thing creates a deadly combination. I'm about 5.5 BPLD or whatever and about 5 girth. If I could get half an inch in length and 1/4 in girth I'd be delighted and I'm convinced my life would be a lot better, because as many of you will probably know, this shit fucks with your brain. So I'm not shooting for the stars here, I just want a reasonable gain to break the 6inch barrier. I have read many posts and I'm convinced this works - I never knew about it or thought it possible. I will start doing exercises and may post around. I'd like some encouragement as well as some reasurrance that I can indeed have the gains I'm looking for.

On another note, wonder if alcoholism can take away from the exercises? Wish me luck and courage and I hope a few months from now I can be back with a slightly bigger penis and a much bigger confidence. Thanks for reading.
 
Its true mental illness will fuck with you and I believe the penis has a serious role in that aspect. You are in the right place. All the answers you need are available and exist with in this forum. I'd be glad to share any advice that you may need. I also suffer from a type of mental distress aswell as others here too, so you are not alone and you can get the help here so congrats on finding us. Good Luck
 
A size increase will do little for you, it is the understanding or the very fabric of why Penis Enlargement works that will change your life. Many of us, who have gained in size, have found solace in the journey and the methods of self creation which have built the foundation of our future in all aspects of life and betterment. Do not do this for a bigger penis, do this for a bigger mind. The gains in Penis Enlargement are easy, it is the culture, as a whole, that will feed your confidence.
 
Thank you for your replies. DLD your reply is worrying me; you almost sound like you're trying to prepare me as if my penis can't change, only my mentality could. I want to work on changing my penis. I want a 6+ inch penis. I'm sorry I'm putting this so bluntly and I don't mean to appear shallow but this issue goes deep with me. I just want a bigger penis. Simple as that. I'll keep doing the exercises and will hope for results. May buy some of the products although I'm poor. Hope this works and that I don't destroy my penis in the process.
 
We're talking permanent gains here, right? Do you think getting the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] as my first Penis Enlargement "tool" ever is a good move? Or should I start with something else?
 
Depending on how your routine is and what your goals are, once you get there cementing your gains is just a matter of keeping up with the program. My personal opinion in yes I do think the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] is the perfect Penis Enlargement starter equipment.
 
Can I expect "cemented" gains in a matter of 6 months? I realize my questions probably sound disgusting to you as this is more like a lifestyle than just an exercise for you, but for me it isn't at least yet and I'm just looking for results, not necessarily quick results, but good results.
 
It is not disgusting at all. Nobody can tell you how much you will gain, OR what the perfect routine to gain is. We can offer advice and share what worked for us, but it doesn't mean it is the same for everybody.

Yes if you make gains within a 6 month time period (very possible) you can cement those gains. Cementing a gain is only a matter of doing some penis related "maintenance" such as stretching a couple times a week and jelqing. Actually a really good question for the veterans on the forum would be to start a thread about "HOW TO do Penis Enlargement cementing or maintenance" because they would know better than I would and you will have other responses there also with others' input. That is if you're interested in learning more about cementing gains.
 
strappedcat;399291 said:
Thank you for your replies. DLD your reply is worrying me; you almost sound like you're trying to prepare me as if my penis can't change, only my mentality could. I want to work on changing my penis. I want a 6+ inch penis. I'm sorry I'm putting this so bluntly and I don't mean to appear shallow but this issue goes deep with me. I just want a bigger penis. Simple as that. I'll keep doing the exercises and will hope for results. May buy some of the products although I'm poor. Hope this works and that I don't destroy my penis in the process.
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I am forewarning you that a larger penis will not directly bring a larger confidence. As I stated, getting a larger penis is the easy part of building confidence and you will make the gains you desire rather easily as they are modest, but you will need to work on building your confidence in other areas to feel true confidence. A bigger penis WILL NOT BRING CONFIDENCE ALONE. I can't remember how many men have come and got a bigger penis only to say they still do not feel confident. It is vital to enlarge the mind with the penis.
 
For me I started Penis Enlargement and that opened a window to learning so much more about myself and my mind specifically. Enlarging your penis a good start would you not agree DLD?

I am NOT the same person I am today as I was in March 2010 and I dont mean my penis.
 
BTW DLD it is almost 9pm in Mass. isn't it :s

Also I have been having confidence issue's even though today my dick was the Biggest it has ever been. In my journal you can see I'm struggling. I cant make excuses for these feelings: my ego needs humbling. I do know that I have valid reason's for feeling this way. I'm just young dumb and learning to fix these road blocks in my life for the positive.
 
Thank you for the responses. In the meanwhile I was doing Uli's and a few jelqs as shown here:
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?58370-How-To-VIDEOS-ULI-Horse-Squeeze-Jelq
I will proceed with some stretching... In the next few days I'll try to somehow pony up the money to buy the BathMaster, after I get a few more suggestions about what the first piece of equipment I should buy is. I'd like something that will motivate me to work and that will excite me about this whole process, as well as bring me gains. After only a couple days of stretching I think my flaccid length has already improved. If I could one day reach 4.5-5" in flaccid length I'd be ecstatic.

Obviously I have issues going on, like I said I am a psychiatric patient, in fact I spent a few weeks during the summer in a clinic. I do have the intelligence to understand that a bigger penis won't necessarily fix my confidence issues, and that even if I had the biggest penis in the world I would probably find something else to be insecure about. Either way, baby steps, one step at a time, I want to work on my penis in hope that I will feel better about that part of me soon.

Thanks again for your responses and I look forward to sharing my journey with you, with all its ups and downs (hopefully more ups). I have been through much worse so I don't think this can phase me. Also, when I was younger I used to be a quite good amateur heavyweight boxer so I'm familiar with exhausting regimes, the mental strength one needs to go through the workouts, as well as understanding when it's time for tampering. Hopefully this knowledge will prove useful in Penis Enlargement as well.
 
Turnover;399403 said:
For me I started Penis Enlargement and that opened a window to learning so much more about myself and my mind specifically. Enlarging your penis a good start would you not agree DLD?

I am NOT the same person I am today as I was in March 2010 and I dont mean my penis.
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That is the point! Penis Enlargement will bring the gains with ease but it is in the journey of Penis Enlargement that the mind will grow, if it is open to it. I want every guy to walk out of here with the penis of their dreams and I know we can give that to them. What I desire more is that a man walks away with knowledge applicable in every aspect of his life. In the process of learning the discipline, motivation, effort, visualization, belief and understanding of the Penis Enlargement process comes skills applicable to every facet of a mans life. A man should walk away from here with a bigger penis, more success, a happier family, better friendships, wiser with the ability to teach this to all who desire. Most of the men who post on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] have reached their goals or know they are going to. These men do not have to be on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words], they come to spread the awareness and to share in the successes of every member...that is a powerful testimony to if Penis Enlargement works, among countless other things we have accomplished.

Does Penis Enlargement work? Of Course. Will it work for you? Do you want it bad enough?
 
strappedcat;399406 said:
Thank you for the responses. In the meanwhile I was doing Uli's and a few jelqs as shown here:
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?58370-How-To-VIDEOS-ULI-Horse-Squeeze-Jelq
I will proceed with some stretching... In the next few days I'll try to somehow pony up the money to buy the BathMaster, after I get a few more suggestions about what the first piece of equipment I should buy is. I'd like something that will motivate me to work and that will excite me about this whole process, as well as bring me gains. After only a couple days of stretching I think my flaccid length has already improved. If I could one day reach 4.5-5" in flaccid length I'd be ecstatic.

Obviously I have issues going on, like I said I am a psychiatric patient, in fact I spent a few weeks during the summer in a clinic. I do have the intelligence to understand that a bigger penis won't necessarily fix my confidence issues, and that even if I had the biggest penis in the world I would probably find something else to be insecure about. Either way, baby steps, one step at a time, I want to work on my penis in hope that I will feel better about that part of me soon.

Thanks again for your responses and I look forward to sharing my journey with you, with all its ups and downs (hopefully more ups). I have been through much worse so I don't think this can phase me. Also, when I was younger I used to be a quite good amateur heavyweight boxer so I'm familiar with exhausting regimes, the mental strength one needs to go through the workouts, as well as understanding when it's time for tampering. Hopefully this knowledge will prove useful in Penis Enlargement as well.
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You can and will accomplish your goals!

I too suffer from many mental disabilities and have wrote many articles on this. You should have a read through some of them because they deal with correcting many of these disabilities through alternative methods of correction. Much like I have learned many methods to enlarging my penis I too have created many exercises to bring solace and even pride to nasty words like paranoid schizophrenic, bi-polar, OCD, PDD and cross spectrum disorders. It is truly amazing at how applicable the mental portions of Penis Enlargement are to many other "thinking intense" processes. I was a 5 year live in suffering with agoraphobia and extreme OCD. I also was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia, bi-polar disorder and oddly enough, A Hitler Mentality (can you believe this is a diagnosis, moreover WHY WOULD THEY TELL THE PATIENT THIS? ) In addition my IQ was "not measurable" on Wechsler Adult Intelligence Scale Exams. This had me TRAPPenis EnlargementD, I was a victim of my diagnosis and I suffered for many years because of this. It was through the very process of starting Penis Enlargement, opening [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and the 10 year journey that I finally have became free of much of that stigma. I want you to absorb this and take something very valuable from [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]...I promise the penis is a given:)

Here are some threads to check out:
 
Very good stuff. Very interesting to know that you've had similar issues to work through. I never knew about the Hitler Mentality thing. IQ not measurable? Why? Too high? Too low? Too incompatible? I can't read all the articles now but I'll certainly be coming back to see which ones I can relate to and read one or two at a time. Thanks for the references and your warm welcome.
 
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