"MOS Confused Sexuality Syndrome"

[philadelph]

Dialogue is good.

David,
I don't know if you read my post, but what do you think about my theory? How did your parents react to your homosexuality?

My idea really comes from an almost "Freudian" concept, so most homosexuals would not be able to actually realize that they are seeking acceptance from other males, it is a sub-conscious urge.

 

[kong1971]

I don't mean to suggest that you can tell all gays by their looks, pimpin, only that he was obvious. There is just something indefinable about his facial features in the picture that makes you know. Another interesting thing I have noticed in my family is that most of his male relatives, myself included, like him and don't mind that he's gay at all...but there are a couple aunts and female cousins that just vehemently hate him for that reason alone. I thought that was a little against the norm.

 

[kausion_420]

I too started lookin and paying more attention to penises when I started Penis Enlargement.... just make sure you dont tell anyone of your friends about it once you think of it as a normal new behavior because theyll think ur gay

lol

True enough.

 

[swedeguy]

Actually, I would like to be bisexual, that's like the ultimate sexuality. Too bad I don't see anything sexual about women at all... Ah, well. I guess I better stick to just looking at their boobs without cause.

philadelph: I actually saw an article yesterday that stated that if we don't get close contact, hugs etc from our parents as kids we tend to seek it from others as adults.

 

[REDZULU2003]

This is now stuck

 

[philadelph]

philadelph: I actually saw an article yesterday that stated that if we don't get close contact, hugs etc from our parents as kids we tend to seek it from others as adults.

That is very interesting. Do you have a link?

 

[swedeguy]

Hm, no I read it from a magazine somewhere..

 

[DLD]

philadelph: I actually saw an article yesterday that stated that if we don't get close contact, hugs etc from our parents as kids we tend to seek it from others as adults.

Ha, this is what my therapist and me are exploring right now We are stating regression therapy next week, I am excited as I have never done this and I really believe this is where my demons may lurk. I do not think it was a lack of affection more than it was abandonment issues. She feels that if we go way back we may find where things went off course. I know for myself most of my youth was spent in lockups due to reasons we now see as psychological issues. Back then it was the child's fault and the best therapy was locking them up or beating them. Things have changed greatly since the 70's but still there is a generation of children, who are now adults, that still suffer the stigma of an ignorant society.

I will make a thread concerning the therapy sessions so others can follow, I think wearing my heart on my sleeve in this way will help others that have similar issues.