major erection problems >:(

[wannagrow4real]

OMFG...This is realy bugging the hell out of me. Since a month or two I've been having the problem my erections aren't what they used to be. Been reading all kinds of threads on the forum, been doing kegels every day but they don't get back. I'm afraid my other excersizes (typo intended) have been ruining them. All I did were intensive jelq and uli's. Some stretches, but I was focusing more on girth and for the future length. Maybe it's the mastubating every day since I haven't got a partner at the moment and feeling the need to come at least twince a day. I went to the redlight district yesterday, saw this realy beautifull prostitute...and almost nothing. She sucked me like I've never been sucked before, but I the hardest I got was semi hard. She had the tightest pussy, but that didn't even help. Doing at least 6 positions...Still a hard time maintaining the semi. After 45 minutes later I'd finaly came but it took her every little trick in the book. It was a very well spend €55 and maybe I'll see her again in the near future, but I realy want to get rid of this erection problem.....get rock hard and realy fuck her brains out....At first I'm going to try to stop masturbate and second I'm goig to try smoke less. I'm smoking shag, the heavy kind, 50g per pack 4 packs a week. I know, I should quit totaly, but at the moment it's pretty relaxing...

Pleas, please, please everybody...anybody I need help to get the erections back the way they were.

 

[psychotic]

Get a cock ring, rock hard erections any time any place!

 

[NRA]

From where i sit it looks like you've figured it out yourself. Cut back on masturbation and smoking like you plan to

If it doesn't help over time it might be the right time to look at your general diet, and perhaps a little pause from Penis Enlargement and kegels will benefit you as well. Sure kegels will make your PC-muscle stronger in the long run, but if the PC is always in a state of fatigue how will it then be possible for it to hold your dick tightly?

Best of luck

 

[DriverNuts]

Get a cock ring, rock hard erections any time any place!

really? what kind?

 

[velimirovich]

Don't ejaculate for 2 weeks and come back and post how you feel then..

 

[Reber187]

I'm smoking shag, the heavy kind, 50g per pack 4 packs a week. I know, I should quit totaly, but at the moment it's pretty relaxing...

FUCK ME... 200g!!!!!

i smoke 12.5g of GV a week and i consider that, for myself, excessive. you HAVE to cut down, mate, or its early doors for sure. your palette must be worthless.
have you tried before to curb the amount of baccy you smoke?


keep pushing

 

[psychotic]

really? what kind?

I got squidgy adjustable rings from lovehoney.co.uk, called "Big Daddy's cock ring." Tighten it up on a semi-erection and it works well every time, even if drunk!

 

[wannagrow4real]

From where i sit it looks like you've figured it out yourself. Cut back on masturbation and smoking like you plan to

If it doesn't help over time it might be the right time to look at your general diet, and perhaps a little pause from Penis Enlargement and kegels will benefit you as well. Sure kegels will make your PC-muscle stronger in the long run, but if the PC is always in a state of fatigue how will it then be possible for it to hold your dick tightly?

Best of luck

Thanks for the reply bro. I know, I've realy got to smoke less or maybe even quit for good. And about the kegels; you're right, how can something that's exhausted all the time help another problem.

Don't ejaculate for 2 weeks and come back and post how you feel then..

I'm not quite sure if it's going to help, but it doesn't hurt to try. At the end of those two weeks I'm pretty sure my balls will be hanging down to my knees

FUCK ME... 200g!!!!!

i smoke 12.5g of GV a week and i consider that, for myself, excessive. you HAVE to cut down, mate, or its early doors for sure. your palette must be worthless.
have you tried before to curb the amount of baccy you smoke?


keep pushing

I know, I know. But do you know how hard it is to cut back on something you're addicted to? My English isn't that worse, but what mean by my palette being worthless?

 

[TheFlame19]

Hey man,

From what I can see: too much masturbation, your cock is probably exhausted - this usually comes from overtraining.

I'd say, cut back on masturbating (completely) and don't Penis Enlargement at all for 2 days, and then I'm sure you'll have a massive erection the next time you get real turned on.

Also cut back on the smoking - best of luck to you man!

Cheers

 

[Reber187]

I know, I know. But do you know how hard it is to cut back on something you're addicted to? My English isn't that worse, but what mean by my palette being worthless?

i mean, when you eat you must not really be tasting anything.

smoking is a fucker to kick, i know where you're coming from... however, nicotine is not so much the issue here, its more the habit of preparing, rolling, and then smoking. i don't know what to suggest as im a multi-failed quiter, but its clear that you can cut down the amount you smoke, maybe not quit entirely, but cut down for sure... you're addicted to the habit of smoking, far more than actually smoking itself.

does this sound familiar or am i talking shit?


keep pushing

 

[jqsderrida]

I took me several attempts to quit smoking. After the fifth or sixth attempt I did manage, successfully, to quit, and have been off, cold turkey, for over two years (I started perhaps when I was sixteen, I'm 23 now). For me, it took moving to an entirely new environment (Chicago). You see, I was addicted to smoking, talking, drinking etc. with my friends. When I moved to Chicago to attend graduate school, the absence of all-to-familiar situations, and the fact that, in Chicago, cigarettes are about $7.50 a pack, made it exceedingly easy to quit. In fact, I was amazed at how easily it came....

 

[wannagrow4real]

i mean, when you eat you must not really be tasting anything.

smoking is a fucker to kick, i know where you're coming from... however, nicotine is not so much the issue here, its more the habit of preparing, rolling, and then smoking. i don't know what to suggest as im a multi-failed quiter, but its clear that you can cut down the amount you smoke, maybe not quit entirely, but cut down for sure... you're addicted to the habit of smoking, far more than actually smoking itself.

does this sound familiar or am i talking shit?


keep pushing

It's not that I'm tasting anything, but you're right: it could be better. I'd also like to get my smelling capabillity back, can smell hardly a thing
And you're not talking shit. It's probably just that, and some addiction to the nicotine.

 

[wannagrow4real]

Hey man,

From what I can see: too much masturbation, your cock is probably exhausted - this usually comes from overtraining.

I'd say, cut back on masturbating (completely) and don't Penis Enlargement at all for 2 days, and then I'm sure you'll have a massive erection the next time you get real turned on.

Also cut back on the smoking - best of luck to you man!

Cheers

thnx dude

 

[wannagrow4real]

I took me several attempts to quit smoking. After the fifth or sixth attempt I did manage, successfully, to quit, and have been off, cold turkey, for over two years (I started perhaps when I was sixteen, I'm 23 now). For me, it took moving to an entirely new environment (Chicago). You see, I was addicted to smoking, talking, drinking etc. with my friends. When I moved to Chicago to attend graduate school, the absence of all-to-familiar situations, and the fact that, in Chicago, cigarettes are about $7.50 a pack, made it exceedingly easy to quit. In fact, I was amazed at how easily it came....

OMFG, and I thought we in the Netherlands were expensive. The pack of shag I buy (50g of tabacco) costs €4.75 and the rolling paper €0.2

 

[jqsderrida]

OMFG, and I thought we in the Netherlands were expensive. The pack of shag I buy (50g of tabacco) costs €4.75 and the rolling paper €0.2

Well, these are pre-rolled, brand cigarettes such as Camel Filters or Lucky Strikes. A pack of rolling tobacco would cost about $4, which would be, I'm estimating, about 3 Euros. Rolling papers run about $1.

 

[The BTC Killer]

Wow, on a side note, you are a lucky bastard. I supposedly live in the land of the free, and there is no way I could stroll the avenue and pick up a hot Holland chick for a few bucks and some of the worlds greatest weed. Legally, mind you. I would have an erection all day long. I could see it now, honey, "I have to run to the store." Lucky bastard.

 

[stridge]

I had a similar experience with smoking - I smoked heavily in college and grad school and I thought I was fairly seriously hooked, though I never tried to quit. Eventually I ended living in a new city and apartment where it was just extremely inconvenient to smoke. I still did at times, but I enjoyed it less and less and found that I just didn't have any cravings. I'm sure the addiction pattern is different for everybody, but I think there's a good argument for the psychological attachment to the habitual aspects being the hardest part to get over.

My advice for the erections is the same as everyone else - stay away from the adult entertainment and wanking, take it easy with the smokes (and coffee, or really anything else - from what I've seen, too much of most substances that many of use can affect your sex life), and try getting some cardio exercise into your days. Even just some easy jogging or paced walking for a half hour a day may help stimulate a little cardiovascular rejuvination. It's impossible to say if you have a real physical problem if you don't give that stuff a shot for a while. If you see no improvement after a few weeks, then it might be time to go visit a urologist.

There was recently an article, I think on Salon.com, that discussed the fact that a lot of healthy college-aged guys were having erection problems, in many cases with no discernable physical causes. Researchers did determine that lots of the guys were having lots of 'no strings' sex, or as we used to say friends with benefits. The psychologists surmised that the total willingness on the part of the young women to have sex without any committment or pursuit by the males was changing the sexual dynamic and possibly having hormonal and psychological effects on the guys - without any chase or effort the sex drive simply wasn't there. There's just no winning for men I guess . . . No sex, we're frustrated; too much sex, we become impotent.

In a lot of the suBathmateitted cases, however, they were able to link the college lifestyle to the erection problems, including too little sleep, too much drinking, smoking, and drug use (including lots of anti-depressants and ADD meds like aderol), stress, and poor diet. Any one of those things can throw you off your game, so keep that in mind before you get too worried. From what I understand, erection problems are very rarely an actual physical dysfunction young men, so it's more than likely very correctable.

 

[Reber187]

Well, these are pre-rolled, brand cigarettes such as Camel Filters or Lucky Strikes. A pack of rolling tobacco would cost about $4, which would be, I'm estimating, about 3 Euros. Rolling papers run about $1.

20 B&H(Lucky Strikes and the likes equivlent) costs £5.40 in good ole England.


keep pushing

 

[jqsderrida]

20 B&H(Lucky Strikes and the likes equivlent) costs £5.40 in good ole England.


keep pushing

I used to love the old Benson and Hedges. However, they are extremely expensive in Chicago - circa $8.50/pack.

 

[wannagrow4real]

whieeoeeeeeeee

 

[Riven650]

When I was doing daily pe, and really working it, I had a softer erection. I don't think the smoking helps, but the soft dick is because the tissues are tired. After a break from pe it will be hard as ever, I'm sure.

Smoking: I started smoking at the age of 14. I tried quitting a few times during my 20s and 30s, but usually went back to smoking after a week or two. THe problem was always that I'd meet friends in the pub, have a few drinks, then I just HAVE to ask someone for a cigarette. It was always most difficult to resist when someone would start rolling one in front of me. I love the smell of the tobacco, the feeling of rolling the thing, the licking of the paper, etc. etc. It's a kind of calming ritual. I KNEW that I was damaging my health, and I didn't even enjoy each cigarette. I finally quit when my wife and I had a baby. I didn't want him to grow up in with smoking parents. He's 15 now and has no intention of even trying a smoke. What made it easy to eventually quit was keeping away from other smokers - that was of course made easy by wanting to be at home with my wife and baby, plus a change at work which meant that I no longer spent all day working alongside other smokers.

If you are single, it's even harder to quit, as you do your socializing in bars, etc. and those are traditionally smoking environments. I don't think you'll find it easy to quit until you change your social habits, but it is not impossible. Nicotine patches can take the chemical carving away. You are then left with the behavior habit to shale off. And people can do that - even when they spend time with other smokers. Keep trying.

I have to say, I like the sound of your red light district girl. I have often thought I should pop over to Amsterdam for the weekend sometime. But I have been put off by worrying about being ripped off. Is it easy enough to get a good experience in the red light district, or do you think you have to be shown how by someone with experience?

Best of luck with the quitting.

 

[wannagrow4real]

I have to say, I like the sound of your red light district girl. I have often thought I should pop over to Amsterdam for the weekend sometime. But I have been put off by worrying about being ripped off. Is it easy enough to get a good experience in the red light district, or do you think you have to be shown how by someone with experience?

I've been there for six times now. The first time wa the worst. The girl didn't let me do anything. She was just lying there and told me every minute time was almost up and that I had to cum soon.

The scond time, I met this great girl. She let me do almost everything. Even eat her out., stick my thum up her ass while taking her doggystyle...she even gave me a few little kisses on my mouth (lips closed). when i came...she even lay on top of me and hugged me for a few minutes. I went to see her again.

Another girl was great for me to, spoke dutch and also let me do more than the usual...

Another girl was pretty hasty and only let me take her doggy...she tightly put her leggs together so i didn't had any feeling at all...

Last girl was maybe the best...as described in my other story.

Guess you don't want to have the eager girls...the ones that dragg you in. Go for the shy girls