lasting longer in bed?

[collegeguy32101]

I know this is slightly off topic, but Im looking for advice from anyone who may have experience with this problem. I was wondering of anyone knew any exercises or have any tricks they use to last longer. I can barely last a minute when I actually get inside. Luckily I can usually make a quick recovery n then last for a while longer if Im careful. Even while gettin head I need to keep her going very slow otherwise Ill cum. Im pretty new to this site so i figure maybe better sex techniques will be a perfect compliment to my (hopefully) new larger cock. Hope to hear from someone thanks!

 

[Benjamin Siegel]

I know this is slightly off topic, but Im looking for advice from anyone who may have experience with this problem. I was wondering of anyone knew any exercises or have any tricks they use to last longer. I can barely last a minute when I actually get inside. Luckily I can usually make a quick recovery n then last for a while longer if Im careful. Even while gettin head I need to keep her going very slow otherwise Ill cum. Im pretty new to this site so i figure maybe better sex techniques will be a perfect compliment to my (hopefully) new larger cock. Hope to hear from someone thanks!

welcome to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] collegeguy32101! sorry to hear about your problem. try maybe thinkin about somethin that would turn you off, when you feel that you are about to orgasm. maybe that will help you to last longer.

 

[dickfordays]

I used to have the same problem, now it seems that I don't, but I can tell you a few things that helped me.

1. Sounds crazy, but try counting by 13's (13,26,39,52,etc.) or some other number, it's gets challenging after a while and it takes your mind off of things.

2. Don't go out with a loaded gun, take care of business yourself before when you know you're going to be having sex.

3. Think of Rosie O'Donnell naked.

I hope this helps, good luck.

DforD

 

[DLD]

Think of Rosie O'Donnell naked

Just came in my pants

 

[SillyStick]

Just came in my pants

hahaha

@college...i know what your going threw man...it defiantly hurts my confidence and quite possibly lost my last little fling I had(dunno why she stopped wanting to hang out)...I'm still somewhat a "noob" when it comes to these sort of things but some suggestions I have are...

1. Start doing kegals (Search the forums for more info)
2. Pauses...once you start to get "that" feeling, stop and do something else(I.E. kiss, go down on her, etc.)

Last but not least...my best(and longest) sex was when I was very drunk(Liquor Dick)...I'm not sure if I was fully erect but I'll be damned if I didn't last for almost 2 hours!

 

[twins172_up]

there is all kind of info on this subject on the net...practice your breathing technique..the stop start method...learning to control your ejaculations during your masturbation sessions(edging) these are all things that will help you to get pass the over anxiousness that you might feel when the times comes..good luck

 

[ronron234]

Though I haven't had succes with these yet myself, I think reverse kegels could be your buddy.

 

[Wang Chung]

Kegeling makes you tense up cum even quicker. Reverse Kegeling (like pushing when you piss) relaxes you and makes you last longer.

 

[Egghead1]

WELL my tricks work great for me and usually if im desperate i pinch myself REALLY HARD with my nails.(when shes facing away from me) or if shes facing me i bite the inside of my mouth or my tounge. Pain almost always stops me from going to fast. However, counting my 13's sounds amazing ahah im gonna try that

 

[Girth Hammer]

start and stop with a reverse kegel.....its like starting all over. Other method dont work that well, maybe for a few minutes and you can fell the nut creeping back up. Try this though.

 

[Girth Hammer]

I know this might sound silly but it is something to always consider. Make shore you dont have to shit. Being someone from experience you having to shit even a little bit can make you pop quicker so make shore you take care of that before you get down with the get down rofl. And piss of course, MAKE SHORE THERE IS NOTHING IN YOUR TANK.

 

[ithiel]

Man I just never fuck with them reverse kegels. If I do too many or push too hard, I feel like ima shit my pants.

 

[ronron234]

Man I just never fuck with them reverse kegels. If I do too many or push too hard, I feel like ima shit my pants.

Same here. I won't dare using them until I've found a way to isolate them. Red says he's managed to isolate it though, so it should be possible.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Visualisation helps me more than anyhing. Meditate before you go out clubbing [If thats what you do to pick slags up for example] and imagine the story infront of you in the club from pikcup to the bed sheet and you lasting ALL FUCKING NIGHT LONG and cumming everywhere at the end, that she shivered with orgasm after orgasm and keep going over this in your mind. See this and make it feel like its real. Its like I'm having a psychic orgasm when I do this. When you tap that ass in this world you will find that you can last longer because .... you've already been here and done it already .. you have done it on the astral and dream plane, so doing it in physical form is a piece of piss.

Kegel work also helps allot alongwith useing more foreplay and takeing your time. Enjoy it all. Refer to the art of attraction and allowance section here and the thread on psychic Penis Enlargement and you will see my advice on building an inner sanctuary for Penis Enlargement which you can use to mediate in and bring your astral sluts to and fuck, lasting longer before you go out for real ... it works mate, take it from me!!

 

[REDZULU2003]

A good way to know you have isolated the reverse kegels is suck your stomach in like a vacuum and while doing that push out like you want to shit. You will feel it more and than do a normal kegel, than the RK. In time you will isolate without sucking the stomach in, but until than do that for reference to the feeling.

 

[camdenistheman]

i have a follow up question i can go slow and take my time and last 20 min or so but i have to stop and start a couple times. my girlfriend likes it hard and fast but that gets me to pop within a few minutes. is it possible to last longer while going hard and fast? or are most of the techniques centered around knowing when you are going to come and stopping or slowing down before it happens?

 

[CharlesHUNGson]

If you can masturbate for 30 minutes straight and not cum you will last as long as you want in bed.. So put on a adult entertainment and start practicing and go with full force like if you were actually having sex.. and try not to cum.. until you start hitting 30 mins consistently without cumming.

 

[new2this2010]

I don't know if this is true or not but i heard if you have too much testosterone in the body that is what makes you cums so fast, and older gentlemen have lower that's what makes them take longer to cum

 

[KingCobra]

I would say experience, "solo practise" and kegels.