god I hate it. it takes so much toll on my self esteem, makes me feel like less of a man. at the same time tho, I dont want a girl or girls just for sex. I want an enduring relationship with one girl who I CAN LOVE and who will love me in return just as much. Only then will I have great sex. I just cant seperate the two. Oh yeah and the girl of my dreams just broke up with me.<:( >
 
Man you have nothing to worry about, your 18, you seem to have a sence of morals, and your a virgin. I don't see anything wrong with that picture, you have clearly stated that you are not out for sex, and that when you have sex you want it to be great. It probably won't be great your first few rounds about, but since your looking for a solid relationship with someone who gives a shit.

Life is about experiences and by they way it sounds with you your headed down the right path of learning through experiences, because if you find the right person for a solid commitment then you learn through experamentation and you don't have to worry about humiliation or embarassment because it isn't an issue if they think of you the way you think of them.

They should be willing to see you as happy as your willing to see them so if they do critic something don't take it as a slap in the face take it as something they think you might be able to improve on or something to work towards/against in future outtings.

That and now adays the sight of a male virgin at your age is a rarety but its also somthing girls look for because it means your not out to just "hit it and quit it".

Thats my two cents on the topic so nothing to really worry about you'll be fine.
 
I was in a similar situation until recently, i am also 18 and was a virgin, although in contrast to you, i did'nt really want a serious relationship, it was'nt that i did'nt have my chances, it was just that i was too shallow and did'nt have much confidence with women, nevertheless, i am now having frequent casual sex because i took the risk and made the move.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18, according to statistics, 1 in 5 or 6 people are.
 
jonny rod said:
god I hate it. it takes so much toll on my self esteem, makes me feel like less of a man. at the same time tho, I dont want a girl or girls just for sex. I want an enduring relationship with one girl who I CAN LOVE and who will love me in return just as much. Only then will I have great sex. I just cant seperate the two. Oh yeah and the girl of my dreams just broke up with me.<:( >
I am also 18 and a virgin and I see where your coming from. The scariest part for me is that it would be kind of embarassing for a girl to find out that I were a virgin. Have you ever had a girlfriend?
 
18 yr old virgin here too man.... ive got a few realistic things i could blame it on but bottom line is if u want it go out n get it, it's not the girls fault it's yours.
 
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I am 22 and still a virgin. When I was 18 I wanted to lose it like mad, now I don't mind waiting. I just wish I could fool around a little bit more than I do. :s
 
Don't worry about it! I lost my virginity at 26. There is no set norm for when you 'should' have sex. When I was young, even up to my early twenties, I was really shy. But I worked on my self-image and self-esteem and was able to beat shyness. Since you want a serious relationship, just relax and let life roll on. When you are more comfortable with yourself you'll become more relaxed and will convey confidence. I know it sucks to lose your 'dream girl', but hey, there'll be more dreamgirls. =)
 
Jonny, it's no big deal. There are a lot of other guys that are in your boat and a certain percentage of the ones that say they're not are lying, for whatever it's worth.
 
Don't feel bad, I was a virgin until I was 19, I'm about to turn 20 now. The only reason why I got laid because this girl I met was lonely and never had a bf before.
 
I'm 18 and a virgin, too. I have found a good girl and probably will be making love soon. I thought I'd never have sex, at least from how things were going in high school, never getting anything. College girls aren't any easier either.
 
Don't feel bad being a virgin is not a bad thing. I broke up with the love of my life a month ago b/c she moved to the Phillipines. We had been dating for over a year and a half. I thought she was just going to visit her family but then she decides to live there a year and enroll in school...she might even live there. I was totally supportive and we are still very good friends. I think if she didn't go I would no longer be a virgin. A couple of times she would get really excited and tried to put it in without a condom. She wouldn't even get it past the head and would be saying "OUCH, OHH, Ouch" and then we would stop. So that's really the closest I've come to sex.

I'm like Johnny Rod it means more if you have emotional ties with the girl. My dick is very capable of doing damage but I don't want to be a man whore. If I dicked every female friend I have it would be kind of weird and I might lose their friendships. Although I probably wouldn't pass on some ass :) I think it feels better and is more secure grinding when you have ties with a girl. Of course then again I am a virgin.
 
10inchadvantage said:
I'm 18 and a virgin, too. I have found a good girl and probably will be making love soon. I thought I'd never have sex, at least from how things were going in high school, never getting anything. College girls aren't any easier either.

Damn 10inch judging by your stats when you do start having sex its gonna be like unleashing a pussy destroying demon.rofl
 
longstretch said:
Damn 10inch judging by your stats when you do start having sex its gonna be like unleashing a pussy destroying demon.rofl

Would a 6 inch midshaft girth really be that hard to put in a pussy? Although, she is a virgin, too. I don't see why she'd really have problems with it. I'm not going to just ram it in there but it shouldn't take long to stick it in either. That and my penis still doesn't seem to be big to me. Probably a combination of both my being used to it and my body size. How big is your girth, seems that your girl was having problems taking it?
 
Would a 6 inch midshaft girth really be that hard to put in a pussy?
Are you being sarcastic? Hell yeah that's a helluva lot of meat to take especially if she's a virgin. You must be a giant if you think your dick isn't that big to you. I'm 5.5 EG. 6.5 is my goal but so far whenever a girl has seen it she says it huge. One time me and my now ex were at my grandma's. We were in the house alone. I was laying on the day bed and I took out my cock and she said "that's not a dick that's a fucking monster." That my friend is a huge boost to the ego.But that boat has sailed and I'm looking for other fish in the sea.

I've read that you got over 7 in. from pumping, clamping and jelqing from one session. That is fucking ginormous. I would really like to see what that size would look like on me but what girl could even wrap her lips around a coke bottle sized dick. Hopefully I will gain an inch by this upcoming summer and will start working on my girth. It has always been easy for me to gain girth so that's why I want to focus on length right now.
 
longstretch said:
Would a 6 inch midshaft girth really be that hard to put in a pussy?
Are you being sarcastic? Hell yeah that's a helluva lot of meat to take especially if she's a virgin. You must be a giant if you think your dick isn't that big to you. I'm 5.5 EG. 6.5 is my goal but so far whenever a girl has seen it she says it huge. One time me and my now ex were at my grandma's. We were in the house alone. I was laying on the day bed and I took out my cock and she said "that's not a dick that's a fucking monster." That my friend is a huge boost to the ego.But that boat has sailed and I'm looking for other fish in the sea.

I've read that you got over 7 in. from pumping, clamping and jelqing from one session. That is fucking ginormous. I would really like to see what that size would look like on me but what girl could even wrap her lips around a coke bottle sized dick. Hopefully I will gain an inch by this upcoming summer and will start working on my girth. It has always been easy for me to gain girth so that's why I want to focus on length right now.

Well I view my penis as not looking really big because of my body size. I'm a tall, wide guy, with massive legs. I measured them last week, having not really worked them out since starting college, and it was something like a conservative 28" girth, I think. People called me "tree trunk legs" in high school. So that doesn't help in viewing penis size. After messing around with a girl and looking at my flaccid dick I thought it was honestly 4" and she thought so too, but I took a ruler and we were both shocked that it was 5.5" soft, when it looked so much smaller compared to my body. She also commented how my big body made it look a lot smaller from a distance. What was funny is she said she was with a "really big" guy who she sucked off and stuff. She honestly thought I was average just looking at it from like 8 feet away. When she tried to suck it though, she was using mad teeth around the head and couldn't go down any further, and I told her "ahhhhhhhh, teeth" and she looked up at me and said "I'm trying." Needless to say she didn't think she'd have a problem when she saw me undressing from a few feet away but when she got up close her ideas probably changed, hehe.

She ended up telling me about the "big dick guy" and said he was a tall, skinny ass mother fucker with no muscle. After telling me that she said "But I don't care about penis size, yours is just fine." This of course made me think she thought it was average(which she did). She said she loved how I was all "swole" and stuff. I asked her how long she thought my dick was and she said "I'd say 6 inches." I was like damn after that. It didn't hurt ego-dick wise because the ruler says I'm over 8(plus I know women can't measure worth shit), but it hurt because I knew that other girls would think the same thing. With women, isn't it all about appearance, not what is really logically/measurably factual? If they see a 5'6" guy with a 7x5 they'd think he's significantly bigger than my 8+x6 on my 6'3", 240 lbs frame.

However, she is a sweet girl who doesn't care at all about penis size and thinks it's silly how guys always try to act all macho. Also, about her comment about the "big guy" she was with, I know he couldn't have been as big as me because there are only like 1/10000 people with my stats(considering length and girth). Oh well, just makes me want to get a 10x7.

The only time I have gotten a "big dick" comment was from a girl online where I only had pics of my dick up and not my body. I have never received any other comment with any other girl, but I'm thinking 99% of girls don't comment unless it's in the extreme(10x7 or 1x3). However, the thing that has hurt the most was her thinking it was average. After I showed her and talked to her about penises and stuff she said "well, you are a big boy then." But for some reason I don't take that in pride.

Us silly men and our fixation with our penises, women will never understand. This is why I think Penis Enlargement and our women need to be TOTALLY separate. Don't do this for a woman, because most likely they really won't care if you gain another inch. It's all for us, and women will never understand it. If I would have realized this sooner in my Penis Enlargement career then I think I would have been a much happier person. I am just now coming to this epiphany and it's like a paradigm shift in my being. I honestly feel like I crawled out of an old shell and am a new person after being enlightened to this.

The bottom line is I won't stop Penis Enlargementing for a while, it is something that is a fun hobby of mine and a lifestyle. I have no idea if/when I will fully stop, as playing with my dick now is just so much fun. I'll leave that to the future though, one day at a time gentlemen...

PS: Women can't judge size.
 
wholly fuck dude, hearing the comment about the 8x6 on a 6'3 frame scares me cause i have a 7x5.75 on a 6' frame and im big like you at 205 lbs with a single thigh girth of 26 inches. oh well, i know im not quite at the baby seal club but if i don't like their responce i'll give them a good cuff in the ear with it.
 
bcboy said:
wholly fuck dude, hearing the comment about the 8x6 on a 6'3 frame scares me cause i have a 7x5.75 on a 6' frame and im big like you at 205 lbs with a single thigh girth of 26 inches. oh well, i know im not quite at the baby seal club but if i don't like their responce i'll give them a good cuff in the ear with it.

I think the important thing is how she reacts when you stick it in. She'll definitely feel it, no questions asked. If she thinks it's "averageish" then she'll be in for a BIG surprise :) . Also, I'd probably surprise a few girls if we hooked up one random night as a 4" flaccid on me looks pretty unimpressive, but when I get it hard it's a whole different story. It's cooler when it grows like an accordian, surprises the hell out of girls. Although I still want a 7" flaccid.
 
That is good to know 10, as for J-Rod, still nothing to worry about being a virgin, I can count the number if intimate incounters i have had on one hand, I'm 22, and i didn't start till i was 19 and there was a reason, its the actual same reason i came to this site/forum. And if your wondering why it is i can count my encounters on one hand, I'm picky as fuck, there has to be some personality to go with the looks or it don't happen, and im a bar dj, I see everything and have seen everything.

I had a problem that with the help of dld and others on the forum has been pretty much corrected to the fullest extent, where if it didn't work i would have had to go under the knife, and due to my first couple incounters with people that involved anything with my dick in any sort of way (bj, hj, etc) i would get sharp pains when erect, and this not only turned me off of sex almonst entirely, but completely scarred me mentally as to why it was happening and caused me not to care at all about wanting to have intimate encounters, or finding a significant other.

Just relax don't stress it cause that will cause you to miss out on other stuff in other areas of your life and it will all come to be in time.
 
Well I did end up making love with a great girl and while it was probably the worst sex I'll ever have it was very special. We were both virgins.

All I have to say is that when I was 90% hard I could just stick my head in and that was it. I played with her 30 minutes beforehand and she was "really hot"(in her words) and wanted my dick really bad. After over 5 minutes of trying different positions and going slow it wasn't working out and we were getting pretty frustrated, she kept saying "god this really hurts." I kept telling her everything was OK and that she has control since she is on top. After a while I just lost my hardon and she stuck it in when it was about 20% hard, barely enough for penetration. She said it still stretched and hurt quite a bit but it was better than me being at full blast. So I just sat there soft in her for a while and let her get used to it. Unfortunitely, since I kept having to play with myself to keep hard(because there was no thrusting) I ended up blowing my load really fast when she started riding with my pretty-much-soft cock in her.

So I guess this is an experience where a girl, who is a virgin, has sex with a guy who is a virgin and is over 8x6 when fully erect. Also, I got blood all over my dick! But it was fine and I really look forward to learning and exploring with her. I'm really glad I did it with someone I love, I couldn't have asked for a better first time!

Afterwards she said she was really sore and that her vagina had a weird "hurt but not hurt"(hurts so good?) feeling to it. Not sure if anyone has experienced this before.
 
Just be patient and take you're time 10 inch you should invest in lubrication if she's inexperienced. I'm not that big myself but when I was with my girl for the first few times she always had to stop cause she kept getting a "burning" sensation. And she had been with another guy (although not "real" sex but he had penetrated her)


If you love her then you will have no problems taking your time and enjoying it. She will become use to your size...well maybe not "use to it" that's pretty large :P but she'll be able to handle it better if you keep patient and take your time.
 
It seems that her vagina is pretty deep. When she was aroused when we were playing around she said she could feel her cervix way up in her abdomen, looked like at least 8 1/2" deep. I hope she isn't that deep! Then I'll have to go to 10" bp to get the most out of it, lol.
 
If you live in England, take my advice and get a younger girl, go on a site such as faceparty, chat them up and your in there.
 
I'd recommend if you're a virgin, just don't throw it on any girl. Make sure you at least like her as a person, you don't want to just have sex for the first time with some random bitch, then be back at square one the next day, with no sex for months. Sex really is more about the connection.
 
rakas said:
If you live in England, take my advice and get a younger girl, go on a site such as faceparty, chat them up and your in there.

So you have fucked some girls from here then "Faceparty".
 
Four, over the last three months, though i will not have sex with anybody over 30 which limits my field, though there are thousands of members of each age.
 
rakas said:
Four, over the last three months, though i will not have sex with anybody over 30 which limits my field, though there are thousands of members of each age.

I had a scan, a lot of young girls, too young for me lol. Very tempting tho but too young :D
 
keepingitbig;405455 said:
I'm 24 and a virgin as well and P.Eing. Doesn't hurt me at all.

Nothing wrong with being a virgin, you will be nice and big for your first.
 
If I could only get back all the time I have wasted in my life either: chasing sex, flirting for sex, looking for sex, pleading for sex, driving long distances, sitting at a computer, staying at the bar till lights on, etc, etc. It would be an incredible amount of time I am sure. Don't go hunting for it, just to be hunting for it, spend your time more productively. Easier said than done.
 
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