doublelongdaddy said:
A really bad trap, or should I say habit, to get into is refraining from sex until some size gains are made. It can cause severe depression and sexual problems. Understand that Penis Enlargement works, you are getting bigger, but be happy with your current size. I know that Penis Enlargement can be exciting, especially when you are making gains, but remember that your penis is made for using (not saving).
DLD
i really apreciate your advise,i really do.so please,please do not take what i am gonna say as disrespect or arrogance.i have the utmost respect for you and what you are doing to help guys with the most important task of increasing the size of their "units",including myself.maybe i came across the wrong way,so i'm gonna try ang "re-express" myself.
i'll try not to be too long winded so please bear with me.
i have been sexualy active since i was 12 years old(i'm now 42,almost 43)and though i have always wanted a bigger unit,my size(average to a little below)has never affected my confidence in the pursuit,and capture
of the female gender.i was tryin to be funny when i said "wait til x-mas".i have a hard time going 3 days of not having sex,much less 3 months(i dont think ive gone 3 months ever since my discovery of "the promised land
i guess the good thing about being averaged size is it forces you to become the best lover you can be with what you got.if you hone your lovemaking,and oral skills to your fullest potential i truly believe that most women will be left satisfied,and awaiting a "return engagement"(from my experience anyway)
i am also a "realist".meaning i know that no matter how good guy can work his "member",he just cannot replace the feeling that a big penis gives a woman.now dont get me wrong,i also know that a guy with a big dick that dont know how to use it is just a guy with a big dick.however,a guy with a big dick,and the right moves is one dangerous mother fucker to the ladies
(dld thinks to himself:"YEAH,I KNOW A GUY LIKE THAT!")
as i have said before the girl that i am now involved with(2 years) is the greatest woman i have ever been with.by that i mean on all levels,we just "click" bigtime.we even know what the other is thinking most times(scarey ,aint it
if you were to ask her about our sex life she would tell you "it's great!"the problem is with me.it may sound stupid,but i know she has been with "bigger" men,and in my mind i think that no matter how good a lover i am i cannot "give her" the" feeling" that i know she has felt before.it may sound like an ego issue,but the truth is it is a love issue.i love this girl so much that i just want to be able to make her feel the best that she can. i feel that the only way i can do this is to build her,AND ME
a bigger penis.so i guess what i am sayin is i dont have a confidence problem...i'm just ready to move on to the "NEXT LEVEL"
i thank you dld,mos,and all the veterans for the help,and wealth of information that this site provides for all of us who are ready to move on to "THE NEXT LEVEL"
thanks man,bigtime!
ps in regards to my girls past exs with big units,check out my post on the thread "women dont know their sizes...from a black mans point of view"........it should crack you up.