How is pussy supposed to feel?

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10inchadvantage

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I have made love with my girlfriend three times now. I'm wondering how tight it should be, because it doesn't feel like much at all. Like, my normal jacking off grip is WAY more intense than a pussy, and I don't squeeze(only when jelqing).

Do you have to get used to pussy or something? When I'm thrusting in her I am not really into it because it doesn't feel good. I have a very hard time trying to stay somewhat erect. I have never been able to have a 100% erection, only about 80% max while having sex.

I really have to imagine myself being turned on in order to be aroused when thrusting. And yes, she was a virgin.

The two times I have blown my load in her I was almost completely soft(I wear a Magnum XL, which feels pretty "real"). This is really starting to frustrate me.

This makes me wonder how adult entertainment stars can be in all of those weird positions and still be able to be 100% hard. I'm in normal missionary and can't stay hard.
 
Fuck her ass ... see if it's any tighter lol
Stop the missionary position with you laying on top. Stand up and hit it like a true adult entertainment Actor.

All kidding aside, 10inchadvantage is right about the performance anxiety. It usually happens the first few times until you get comfortable with each other.

I had a GF with the same issue. I turned her on to Kegals and it made a huge difference or is it smaller difference ?:( . Meanwhile I would hit it from all angles and boy did she love that. She tell me, "You hit spots no other man has done before" And I still use that technique, the women love it.

I had another GF who did Kegals regularly and she could actually grip my cock at will. I didn't even have to thrust with her, it was like getting a Blo-Job from a pussy.

Answer to your question ... "Slippery when wet."
 
I can sort of relate to what you're saying. It doesn't feel at all like wanking. It's just different for different guys. I could probably make myself nut from jacking off in a couple minutes, although I would certainly not climax that fast from intercourse. You can't compare it to an action you're fully working and controlling. For me, a good blowjob will do more, but some guys don't get that much out of them. Give it time and work with it.
 
The thing that frustrates me the most is that I can't keep a hard on because it doesn't stimulate me. It's not an anxiety issue, I'm not afraid or expecting to live up to something. It's just that I haven't been getting pleasure out of it.
 
Probably down to the condoms,i'm uncut and when i used to use blobs a long time ago i could feel very little and would struggle to stay fully erect,i would guess if your cut and using a blob there will be even less sensation.

You could try putting a small amount of condom freindly lube inside the blob,ive read that helps increase sensation.

Try using positions where she can keep her legs together that will increase friction,though depending on your length you my find it hard to stop slipping out.
 
Dude, I totally know the feeling...

It got to the point in my last relationship where we would fuck but all I really wanted to do was foreplay...I really like fingering girls cause I can get them off so freakin intensely. And I'd just about rather rub up against each other and do that kind of stuff than to actually have intercourse. It just doesn't stimulate me the right way a lot of the time. Maybe if the girl would kegel or something...but for me at least, it got to the point where I wouldn't ever get fully hard...even beforehand, just because I knew what was coming. Viagra helped some, as I would be really hard...but then it just took like 9 hours to get off...

One thing that did help some was to get thin condoms. If you go to www.condomania.com you can look at different ones and they give the thickness (of the latex)...getting thin latex lets you feel a lot more.
 
The best erection I have had in her was when I didn't wear a condom. I was about 80% hard, I think because I had beat off like 8 hours ago and I wasn't fully "in the mood". I did not ejaculate, I stopped after a while. She got off but it still didn't feel as good as jacking off, so I had to really meditate to feel the gripping sensations.

Magnum XLs are already lubed.

As for condomania, I don't know. It's like 2x more than XLs and I'm a poor college student.
 
psychotic said:
Man, stop beating so often because it will fuck your erections up! Be more gentle with it and it will get better:)
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DITTO.. Stop spanking your monkey for a few days then fuck her and tell me how it feels.

PS: If she is a virgin she should be REAL tight.
 
floridabob said:
DITTO.. Stop spanking your monkey for a few days then fuck her and tell me how it feels.

PS: If she is a virgin she should be REAL tight.
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We were both virgins so we have nothing to compare to. It's not near as tight as my normal grip.

I popped her cherry, btw.
 
prince Albert said:
Probably down to the condoms,i'm uncut and when i used to use blobs a long time ago i could feel very little and would struggle to stay fully erect,i would guess if your cut and using a blob there will be even less sensation.
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I thought of that too. I've never gone bareback with anyone, but I can imagine it makes a substantial difference.

Also, the type of condom makes a difference too. The thinner ones do give some more sensation and the polyurethane ones are absolutely incredible. 10inchadvantage, I urge you to see what might be available in a polyurethane condom. When I last used one at 5.75" girth, the Trojan Supra felt great and I'll never use latex again.

Try using positions where she can keep her legs together that will increase friction,though depending on your length you my find it hard to stop slipping out.
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I can definitely affirm that. There are positions I've had an awful frustrating time with, given my mere 5.5" in length (had it up to 6" but did not cement it).
 
penguinsfan said:
I thought of that too. I've never gone bareback with anyone, but I can imagine it makes a substantial difference.

Also, the type of condom makes a difference too. The thinner ones do give some more sensation and the polyurethane ones are absolutely incredible. 10inchadvantage, I urge you to see what might be available in a polyurethane condom. When I last used one at 5.75" girth, the Trojan Supra felt great and I'll never use latex again.



I can definitely affirm that. There are positions I've had an awful frustrating time with, given my mere 5.5" in length (had it up to 6" but did not cement it).
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Aren't Supras like 2x more? Pretty steep. My girlfriend is on the pill too, so that helps. The university gives out free condoms but I think they're just the plain LifeStyles or whatever, which my girlfriend did have, and I did try on, and it only went halfway down my shaft. It also after about 5 minutes start to make the blood flow hurt, like a burning sensation(in a bad way). I can tolerate it but I'd rather not. So much for the "one size fits all" theory of condoms.

Hopefully I'll get something right before this semester is up. It's frustrating, seeing as how most people REALLY enjoy sex yet I am not enjoying it really at all.
 
penguinsfan said:
In you're in a healthy committed relationship and you have no STD issues to worry about, then consider no condom.
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We are, and we have talked about this. Personally, it makes me feel better wearing a condom. I figure about $6 for 12 is cheaper than $200k+ for a child.
 
Dude, wear a condom. I recently had an ex get knocked up by one of my friends and she was on birth control. They only fucked twice without a condom and now she is pregnant at 18 and her big college plans are down the drain.
 
If that happened, hopefully my girlfriend and her parents would follow through with how they said they would want an abortion.

But yes, this is why I wear a condom. Because sometimes the woman can forget to take her pill, and it just makes the 1/100 chance go to 1/10000 with both a condom and the pill.
 
Man just relax....you've gotten yourself all worked up expecting this to be awesome. Sex is sex is sex. 100% of men who have had a GOOD blowjob will take head over sex. And probably 90% or so would rather masturbate themselves why she did some foreplay for them. Sex is really more about the connection you make with your partner rather than the feeling. And come on be real man...the only time I've ever had a full erection during sex I came :P so being at 80% is a normal thing. You won't get fully hard normally just because if you do it'll be to stimulating and you'll blow your load.


My best advice is to stop thinking of what it should be and enjoy what it is. If you don't feel that great having sex...then don't do it just to do it. Enjoy the other parts of sexual stimulation and you really SHOULD stop wanking it so much :P I rarely masturbate anymore and it makes everything feel oh so much better. Also remember you've been doing Penis Enlargement for how long? You are probably less sensitive than an average virgin would be. I don't know what goals you have for Penis Enlargement but I'd say cement then quit once you get them.
 
those cheap condoms are horrible I had a bout of going limp while using condoms and it was because of the condom not me, I switched to this brand called "Class Act" and man its been awesome every since. by the way, if you are virgins and are on the pill, go bare back you wont be disappointed. the way I look at it, anyone worth having sex with is worth going bare back with. that does not mean I screw dangerously, i just make sure that they are very clean and really worth any potential consequences.
 
aeroth said:
Man just relax....you've gotten yourself all worked up expecting this to be awesome. Sex is sex is sex. 100% of men who have had a GOOD blowjob will take head over sex. And probably 90% or so would rather masturbate themselves why she did some foreplay for them. Sex is really more about the connection you make with your partner rather than the feeling. And come on be real man...the only time I've ever had a full erection during sex I came :P so being at 80% is a normal thing. You won't get fully hard normally just because if you do it'll be to stimulating and you'll blow your load.


My best advice is to stop thinking of what it should be and enjoy what it is. If you don't feel that great having sex...then don't do it just to do it. Enjoy the other parts of sexual stimulation and you really SHOULD stop wanking it so much :P I rarely masturbate anymore and it makes everything feel oh so much better. Also remember you've been doing Penis Enlargement for how long? You are probably less sensitive than an average virgin would be. I don't know what goals you have for Penis Enlargement but I'd say cement then quit once you get them.
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Thank you for this advice. It is very sound. My goals are 9 x 6.5 right now, although I might decide to go up to 10" in length. 7 in girth just seems too big right now, but I'll probably change my mind when I get to 6.5, haha.
 
10inchadvantage said:
But yes, this is why I wear a condom. Because sometimes the woman can forget to take her pill, and it just makes the 1/100 chance go to 1/10000 with both a condom and the pill.
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Your odds are still pretty good on the pill alone. Get one of them pillbox things with every day of the week. Heck, talk to her each day and ask her if she took it. It might annoy her a little, but she'll know you mean well. Instead of combining the pill with a condom, combine it with coitus interuptus swallowus. Not a highly effective birth control method by itself, but should be good enough when combined with the pill. Consider researching some of the natural family planning methods used by devout Catholic, Orthodox, and others that do not accept artificial birth control. If done right with all the stuff, it's pretty effective. My old roommate is a super devout Catholic (should be the Pope's successor) and him and his wife fuck like rabbits. They haven't had a pregnancy in like 6 years or so.

Anything combined with the pill will greatly add to its effectiveness, which is pretty good as it is. If the rubber bothers you and you have no STD concerns, there is absolutely no good reason for wearing one.
 
IMO, its the condom. My wife got her tubes tied abour 9 years ago so I can go without a condom. It is way better. Dont go bare until you know 100% sure it wouldnt matter if she got pregnant, because theres a good chance she might.

Condoms not only cut down the sensation , but you also cant feel the "heat" of her inside and her wetness. Without a condom your dick gets so hot from her, sometimes that alone will make you orgasm. The wetness is almost to much too sometimes.
 
10inchadvantage said:
If that happened, hopefully my girlfriend and her parents would follow through with how they said they would want an abortion.

But yes, this is why I wear a condom. Because sometimes the woman can forget to take her pill, and it just makes the 1/100 chance go to 1/10000 with both a condom and the pill.
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The pill is a very effective form of birth control its about 95%,a women would need to miss taking it for several days in a row for it to loose its effectiveness.
 
penguinsfan said:
Your odds are still pretty good on the pill alone. Get one of them pillbox things with every day of the week. Heck, talk to her each day and ask her if she took it. It might annoy her a little, but she'll know you mean well. Instead of combining the pill with a condom, combine it with coitus interuptus swallowus. Not a highly effective birth control method by itself, but should be good enough when combined with the pill. Consider researching some of the natural family planning methods used by devout Catholic, Orthodox, and others that do not accept artificial birth control. If done right with all the stuff, it's pretty effective. My old roommate is a super devout Catholic (should be the Pope's successor) and him and his wife fuck like rabbits. They haven't had a pregnancy in like 6 years or so.

Anything combined with the pill will greatly add to its effectiveness, which is pretty good as it is. If the rubber bothers you and you have no STD concerns, there is absolutely no good reason for wearing one.
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You can do that by using an ovulation calender to predict when her fertile period is.
 
Ok, we just had sex again today. This time without a condom. I hadn't beaten off in about 12 hours(fuck, I was too horny to resist, I was high and horny, I didn't want to beat off, but that's like not eating when great food is around you when you're high).

This time I didn't really warm her up much, I just sucked on her body a little, no fingering or anything. It was SOOOOO tight, I could just stick the head in and it was like doing a "wall fuck" clamp exercise for girth. So I kept my head in there while I sucked on her neck, played with her tits, and she got excited. The whole time the thing really was pretty damned tight(still not HAND tight, but I guess it isn't supposed to be).

I noticed that when I did doggy position with her than when I was inserting my dick slowly that my dick head all of a sudden hit something and it hurt my head. It felt like a sharp bump. I thought this was the cervix so I started rubbing it gently with my cockhead and she said, "Oh, that realllllly feel good." Was this what "bottoming out" feels like? Or was I not to the cervix yet?

Also, it seems I can never fully get my cock in. Like when I do missionary I can get all but about 1" in. Is there any way to get ALL of your cock, at least NBP, in?
 
10 inch,

It's bad enough your still able to bang virgins (At my age there are not any left) now your here rubbing it in our faces. LOL

Your probably hitting bottom if you cant get it all the way in. If it's hurting her when you try to push it in hard I know your hitting bottom but some women like it when a guy hits bottom. So you will not know until your with a few more women and learn the feel yourself.

Also I could never have sex with a condom and still have a hard time with it. Glad my wife has her tubes tied so I don't have to worry about it.

LUCKY BASTARD:) >:( :)
 
try this stuff. With or without a condom. I dont wear condoms and after this stuff is inside herm it has a very warm feeling. We've used it for almost 6 years and no babies. No she isnt on any other b/c either.

http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=328550&deptid=2609&catid=2614&subcatid=2617&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/shelf?deptid=2609^catid=2614^subcatid=2617
 
Threak said:
I had another GF who did Kegals regularly and she could actually grip my cock at will. I didn't even have to thrust with her, it was like getting a Blo-Job from a pussy.

Answer to your question ... "Slippery when wet."
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WOW..

is doin kegels the same way for women as it is for men?

if not, how did u explain how to do it?
 
chads said:
try this stuff. With or without a condom. I dont wear condoms and after this stuff is inside herm it has a very warm feeling. We've used it for almost 6 years and no babies. No she isnt on any other b/c either.

http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=328550&deptid=2609&catid=2614&subcatid=2617&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/shelf?deptid=2609^catid=2614^subcatid=2617
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just use some fresh lemon juice. the acidity of the lemon juice will kill n e sperm, and as an added bonus, will eliminate any odor she may have. (lemons r natural deoderizerrs)
 
Troutwine said:
just use some fresh lemon juice... will eliminate any odor she may have. (lemons r natural deoderizerrs)
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Just place an entire Lemon in her vagina as an Air-Fresher.

Troutwine said:
is doin kegels the same way for women as it is for men?
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I don't have a Vagina to tell you that ... check this http://www.kegelsrus.com/guide.html Do a Internet Search for Women Kegels you'll find it ... The information is out there, you just have to go get it.
 
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