Got told my size was "ok" at 8x5.6

[LONGERDICK7+]

Man if she reacted that way that implies she's been with a TON of guys...

Seriously she didn't insult you, she just outed herself as a slut.

an honest one,hahaha

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Ouch, man. That comment would have hurt me big time.
But whether a girl would tell me I'm big or small, I still would think she's lying to make her or me feel better.
So in the end it is probably just our own beliefs and egos that are in the way.

yeah can be a complete waste of time being worried about what those skunks can say about penis size,they have seen bigger,they have fucked bigger cocks....

Is a quite strange and confusing topic,we have to understand that we get bigger for ourselves,the rest will come in an easier simpler way...

 

[Aimingforthetop]

this is my perception of a womens reality. i suffer from what is called "hsp" hyper sensitive personality. which basicly means that emotions is stronger and alot more apparent to me.


Being that sensitive can be a bad idea sometimes,some people can be rude,unmindful,and unkind too.and hurt the feelings

i was very agressive and unstable when i was young because of this. luckily an old school martial artist taught me meditation which helped me focus my energy on the things worth focusing on.

my curse became a power

 

[kak03]

Like Aimingforthetop said she was just testing you. Like I said earlier if she said she has had bigger its because she thinks you´re big. Has she had bigger? Maybe. But most likely not. She saw your cock and she thinks its huge. She wanted to test you on it so she said she has had bigger. She doesnt want power over you. Shes just seeing if you will let her do it or not and see if you´re strong enough and confident enough to remain in control of your own emotions.

There is literally no other reason I can think of as to why she would suddenly say "I´ve had bigger" without you bringing it up first. If its average or small she wont say anything. She said it beacuse its big.

So dont worry about it.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Like Aimingforthetop said she was just testing you. Like I said earlier if she said she has had bigger its because she thinks you´re big. Has she had bigger? Maybe. But most likely not. She saw your cock and she thinks its huge. She wanted to test you on it so she said she has had bigger. She doesnt want power over you. Shes just seeing if you will let her do it or not and see if you´re strong enough and confident enough to remain in control of your own emotions.

There is literally no other reason I can think of as to why she would suddenly say "I´ve had bigger" without you bringing it up first. If its average or small she wont say anything. She said it beacuse its big.

So dont worry about it.

yeah maybe she has but most likely not,you got it all dont get stressed out..

 

[CokeCanCock]

i think alot of misunderstanding is going on in this thread. towards female in general.

women shit test you to see if you are for real..

im gonna try and explain it from a womens point of view (which will always be lagging of information as i am not a woman. i just pretend that i understand them)


but luckjy for me i have a device that can zoom in on females brain frequenzies so we can actually read what she thinks.
Monolog:
dancing in front of mirror telling myself im sexy. Check.
1 hour make up session. check.
taking all my clothes out. put them on the floor. don't know what to wear. call my girl to ask her. check.

meeting up with my girls, we are going clubbing dancing and drinking fancy margharitas.
and flirting with guys.

party is on. a couple of guys have flirted with me and i feel i get a big enough boost to my selfworth (and margharitas) that i can now have a conversation with a guy.

"a lightlyfried guy shows up"

alright so he is cute. he makes me laugh and i feel weak in my knees around him. he seems confident.
okay. so he is making me feeling all these emotions. i don't know how to deal with that!
is he this confident? is he this strong in his self confidence? around him i can just relax and be feminine. i feel like a woman right now.
no way there has to be something sticking under. he can't be this confident.

"things escalate and naughty things are happening. and now the scene is staged for a blowjob!"

alright he has shown me enough for me to be sexual with this man. i want him to take me. besides if i don't do it. that other bitch at the bar that looked at him certainly will! holy shit that is one big cock!

Lightlyfried: "ye baby do you like my big cock huh?"

hmm. he has a big cock. check.
and i am currently sucking on it?
why do he wants me to tell him he has a big cock?
i mean he is wearing pants. and he didn't ask me if i liked his pants?
im gonna test him to see if he is for real. or he has me bullshitted up to this point.

girl says: "well i have seen bigger!"

lightlyfried changes facial expression. it takes a women less that a second to see that the remark hit him where it hurts.

women inner dialog: "goddamnit. he didn't have the confidence i thought he would. i am literally offending his manhood while i have it in my mouth. and no reaction no play! no sexy punishment with a smirk smile. not enough self respect to tell me off that i am trying to offend him.

just another man not strong enough to handle me. just another man i can walk all over and wrap around my little finger after a couple of weeks. got damnit i thought i found a guy worth my time. well this fucking sucks. ohh huhu pun intended so am i.

hmm i wonder what maggie is doing right now. do i have milk at home right now? i should buy milk. but the skimmed one not that organic fat shit. im losing my figure. and i can't fit into my favorite jeans.

device loses connection

this is my perception of a womens reality. i suffer from what is called "hsp" hyper sensitive personality. which basicly means that emotions is stronger and alot more apparent to me.

which has always been my gift and curse.

and i seem to find women rather easy to figure out. if you understand what attracts them.

remember brother.

confidence is the fucking key to everything.

and confidence is the key to fucking everything

yes I think you are right

 

[CokeCanCock]

Like Aimingforthetop said she was just testing you. Like I said earlier if she said she has had bigger its because she thinks you´re big. Has she had bigger? Maybe. But most likely not. She saw your cock and she thinks its huge. She wanted to test you on it so she said she has had bigger. She doesnt want power over you. Shes just seeing if you will let her do it or not and see if you´re strong enough and confident enough to remain in control of your own emotions.

There is literally no other reason I can think of as to why she would suddenly say "I´ve had bigger" without you bringing it up first. If its average or small she wont say anything. She said it beacuse its big.

So dont worry about it.

What you said strikes residence, she was the first girl i've done something with since my ex and before her I was in a year long relationship, so this was the first, fuck and chuck scenario i'd been in for a while (sober). And I was shaking I was that nervous, I guess she won this one, but i've learnt from this experience ten fold.

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this is my perception of a womens reality. i suffer from what is called "hsp" hyper sensitive personality. which basicly means that emotions is stronger and alot more apparent to me.


Being that sensitive can be a bad idea sometimes,some people can be rude,unmindful,and unkind too.and hurt the feelings

I feel the same way sometimes

 

[CokeCanCock]

I was just thinking also, she was making digs to deflate my ego all night, but the penis one was the only one that struck residence, she had a shock reaction at my physique - saw it fueled my ego, and then quickly down played it

 

[Aimingforthetop]

not many guys are capable of getting laid whiule sober so respect for that!

i don't respect a man for his results but for his work (lets face it. results can be a lucky draw. hard work can't)

most guys are nervous in that situation. especially after a relationship so all the respect to you for taking action.

my advise is to take my technique in this situation.

for me personally when a girl starts shit testing me. i will get this big evil smile on my face "muhahahaha" it says.

why?

because in the last 3 years there has been a 9 out of 10 chance of me getting punani when a girl starts to shit test me.

ok so imagine these scenarios:

guy sits quitely in his own mind at a bar in a club. girl walks up to him: "hey sir you are fat and you rpobably have a small penis!"

guy walks up to a 10 year old boy: "yoh dog! you want some of this? you don't think i throw down? i can take you liuke right here! right now! im gonna go all beast mode on you!"

what is off here? what doesn't make sense?

let's take another scenario.


world champion walks down the boxing ring defending his title for the 15th time. a young contestant jumps up infront of him and starts screaming: "yo man i can take you! let's meet eachother in the ring!

and another one.

a nice good lucking confident guy is charming 3 girls at the same time. and he seem to do this effortless the girls are jigglish and having fun.
one of the girls look at him and laughs: "you are rich aren't you?"


these make a lot more sense don't they?

no one will challenge you to a fight if you're a 10 year old.

no one will comment on your physique when you are daydreaming in the bar.

however.

a person who has evidence of his/her value. will constantly be tested. (want to measure how much you have archived in life count the numbers of haters that you have)

a guy who seem confident will be tested constantly.



now stop and think for a second. what category are you?

for me personally when a girl starts to shit test me. i assume she is feeling so attracted to me that she is testing if what she see's is fake or real. because she considers to go for you.

if you want to buy a cool car for a low price. surely you want to check the service book to make sure that the car has been proper maintained. right?
now why are you doing this? because you don't want to buy the car?

no! because you already withdrew the money and you expect to drive home in it. you already imagined the trip on the highway and everything.

so let me ask you. the next time a girl who has your cock halfway down her throat starts to shit test you what do you do?

my answer in your case: "ohh you had bigger. then i guess deepthroating will be a breeze for you (starts forcing her head further down your cock. in a joking matter)

bonus info:

some girls love to be "put in their place" i need to emphacize how important it is to understand that you need to be very clear in you respecting her if you want this to work to your advantage. but as you force her head down on your cock. how does she react?

you might experience her actually getting into it just for a small second before she stops you (she needs to. you might think she is a slut and all)

if she does this. compliment her: "ohh a real woman who is in contact with her sexuality. i am surely going to enjoy this." "baby this is between the 2 of us. let's have fun. im still gonna respect you in the morning. but i would like to get freaky with you. and im pretty sure you want to aswell"

trust me on this. you will open pandoras box when you get to this point with girls. this is good or bad. not all guys are ready to hear the truth of what goes on in a womans mind.

but to name a few i have had girls inviting their girlfriends over for threesomes.

i have had girls who practiced deepthroating on me.

im into the kinky stuff so collar and handcuffs etc aswell.

when a woman realizes that she can live out her sexuality with you without you going all old testament on her ass.

man. you are in for a threat.

ohh and just for info. im 7 inches when im at my peak. and i am perceived as being big.

so stop questioning yourself. the only thing that went bad here was that she could poke through your confidence. but i believe that if you read this and understand this it will not happen again

 

[Threak-X]

You know this shit works both ways; tell a woman she's ok and you had better/hotter and her confidence will be challenged just as much...

 

[stillwantmore]

Bottom line, hell with that one.

 

[Aimingforthetop]

Bottom line, hell with that one.

nothing to loose. see if you can fuck her again

 

[CokeCanCock]

Lol, update on the situation, she just asked me to go around to hers, I could but i'd rather do the rest of my work and I have an early morning, plus had a hefty pump session so EQ would be bad. Looks like I can get my upper hand after all.

 

[Threak-X]

Lol, update on the situation, she just asked me to go around to hers, I could but i'd rather do the rest of my work and I have an early morning, plus had a hefty pump session so EQ would be bad. Looks like I can get my upper hand after all.

making yourself readily unavailable she'll want it even more...

 

[kak03]

Lol, update on the situation, she just asked me to go around to hers, I could but i'd rather do the rest of my work and I have an early morning, plus had a hefty pump session so EQ would be bad. Looks like I can get my upper hand after all.

Perfect. Seems like you´re in for some fun.

I´m not a party kind of guy and I dont hook up much. More of a relationship guy. but just remember if a girl is having lunch with you its because she wants to have sex with you. Otherwise she would just do lunch with one of her friends. If a girl talks to you at a bar its because she wants to have sex with you otherwise she would just chat with her friends. If a girl comes home with you its because she wants to have her brains fucked out otherwise she would be home watching netflix.

If shes there with you she wants you. If she´s taking jabs at you and trying to deflate your ego its because she wants to test if you´re man enough that she can feel sexually safe with you or if she should hold back. So next time just dont let it get to you. Its not true. She´s just testing you. So dont mind it at all. She says she had bigger? Only reason she would say that is because she thinks you´re huge and she wants to see if you can handle it when she tells you its not. So dont care about it. Just say something cocky back at her and grab the back of her head.

 

[CokeCanCock]

Perfect. Seems like you´re in for some fun.

I´m not a party kind of guy and I dont hook up much. More of a relationship guy. but just remember if a girl is having lunch with you its because she wants to have sex with you. Otherwise she would just do lunch with one of her friends. If a girl talks to you at a bar its because she wants to have sex with you otherwise she would just chat with her friends. If a girl comes home with you its because she wants to have her brains fucked out otherwise she would be home watching netflix.

If shes there with you she wants you. If she´s taking jabs at you and trying to deflate your ego its because she wants to test if you´re man enough that she can feel sexually safe with you or if she should hold back. So next time just dont let it get to you. Its not true. She´s just testing you. So dont mind it at all. She says she had bigger? Only reason she would say that is because she thinks you´re huge and she wants to see if you can handle it when she tells you its not. So dont care about it. Just say something cocky back at her and grab the back of her head.

We'll see how she reacts when her cervix meets my penis and see how cocky she is then muhahaha

 

[CokeCanCock]

making yourself readily unavailable she'll want it even more...

Every time I have a gf, girls become more interested in me, because i'm not interesting in perusing them, I become an object of desire.

 

[Phoenix7672]

We'll see how she reacts when her cervix meets my penis and see how cocky she is then muhahaha

LOL this. Sure, a girl can make a comment that you are small or she has had bigger/much bigger...but if you go 1/2-3/4 in and she yells ouch not so deep...it kind of takes any bite out of her previous comment.

 

[kak03]

Tell us how it goes man

 

[Threak-X]

We'll see how she reacts when her cervix meets my penis and see how cocky she is then muhahaha

Metaphorically or Figuratively... Using your cock as a battering-ram to bust-down her narcissistic arrogance.