Got told my size was "ok" at 8x5.6

[CokeCanCock]

I got a blowjob off some girl last night. Her first comment was "well... i've seen bigger" and then afterwards I asked "What did you think" she shrugged her shoulders and was like "it's okay". This has sent me down a spiral of paranoia, albeit I didn't have the best EQ and I had a pump session earlier that day, but at around that EQ my erection would of been a minimum of 7/7.5.

This experience has made me question everything about my penis, am I actually 8x5.6? what is that average? would 8x6 even be big? would 9x7 be big? But fuck that slut, I think she just said it to have power over me.

 

[Aimingforthetop]

I got a blowjob off some girl last night. Her first comment was "well... i've seen bigger" and then afterwards I asked "What did you think" she shrugged her shoulders and was like "it's okay". This has sent me down a spiral of paranoia, albeit I didn't have the best EQ and I had a pump session earlier that day, but at around that EQ my erection would of been a minimum of 7/7.5.

This experience has made me question everything about my penis, am I actually 8x5.6? what is that average? would 8x6 even be big? would 9x7 be big? But fuck that slut, I think she just said it to have power over me.

well. if that was her goal. i think she won. i mean she got to your head with 1 comment. and you asking her afterwards. reassured her that she had the power.

think about this:

having a fit body with a sixpack. is nice. but if you need a fit body to have confidence. then it can be taken away from you.

having your ego attached to the size of your cock. can have the same reaction.

solution:

find confidence in you being you.

now a book could be read on this subject (and plenty books are talking about this subject)

this is a journey you have to take for yourself if you choose to do so.



for the fun of it i can share a similar story.

dated a girl who had a thing for black guys.

she started talking about this huge ass hulk type of guy with a donkey dick.

my response: "yeah i once dated this chinese chick. i literally had bruises on my cock after fuck sessions. crazy stuff. sowhat where you saying about that big guy?"

never did i hear anything about some huge guy ever again.

the fact is that for a girl to need to have you grabbed by the balls. is in reality evidence that she lacks alot of confidence herself.



a girl friend of mine explained how this huge ass bodybuilder driving a huge mercedes drove down to the gym to open the door for her because she had forgot her gym card (24/7 gym with card access)

she knew he wanted her.

and she used him.

he is literally 2 m tall. and he is build like a beast.

and she playes around with him. why?

he lacks confidence.

confidence doesn't show up in how much you have archived or how big you are.

it basicly shows up in this simply concept.

do you react to the world?

or does the world react to you?

if a woman can make you go crazy like this with 1 comment.

then you are in reaction.

and you have been defeated.

you went in expecting to get a certain reaction from her ("wauw your penis is so big") and you didn't get it. so you reacted to her. she won!

you need to cut your selfworth off from other peoples opinions.

and trust me on this.

when a chick shit tests you (which she basically did) and you pass the test.

you will see girls surrender to you faster than the french

 

[CokeCanCock]

well. if that was her goal. i think she won. i mean she got to your head with 1 comment. and you asking her afterwards. reassured her that she had the power.

think about this:

having a fit body with a sixpack. is nice. but if you need a fit body to have confidence. then it can be taken away from you.

having your ego attached to the size of your cock. can have the same reaction.

solution:

find confidence in you being you.

now a book could be read on this subject (and plenty books are talking about this subject)

this is a journey you have to take for yourself if you choose to do so.



for the fun of it i can share a similar story.

dated a girl who had a thing for black guys.

she started talking about this huge ass hulk type of guy with a donkey dick.

my response: "yeah i once dated this chinese chick. i literally had bruises on my cock after fuck sessions. crazy stuff. sowhat where you saying about that big guy?"

never did i hear anything about some huge guy ever again.

the fact is that for a girl to need to have you grabbed by the balls. is in reality evidence that she lacks alot of confidence herself.



a girl friend of mine explained how this huge ass bodybuilder driving a huge mercedes drove down to the gym to open the door for her because she had forgot her gym card (24/7 gym with card access)

she knew he wanted her.

and she used him.

he is literally 2 m tall. and he is build like a beast.

and she playes around with him. why?

he lacks confidence.

confidence doesn't show up in how much you have archived or how big you are.

it basicly shows up in this simply concept.

do you react to the world?

or does the world react to you?

if a woman can make you go crazy like this with 1 comment.

then you are in reaction.

and you have been defeated.

you went in expecting to get a certain reaction from her ("wauw your penis is so big") and you didn't get it. so you reacted to her. she won!

you need to cut your selfworth off from other peoples opinions.

and trust me on this.

when a chick shit tests you (which she basically did) and you pass the test.

you will see girls surrender to you faster than the french

Thank you for taking the time to give me such a detailed reply, I think you are 100% right and I need to take from this situation and learn from it. It was kind of ironic as me and my friend were talking about how women love when guys take control, but they never allow men an opportunity to do that, with social media and things, women always have the power in conversation.

 

[Munto]

Ouch, man. That comment would have hurt me big time.
But whether a girl would tell me I'm big or small, I still would think she's lying to make her or me feel better.
So in the end it is probably just our own beliefs and egos that are in the way.

 

[CokeCanCock]

Ouch, man. That comment would have hurt me big time.
But whether a girl would tell me I'm big or small, I still would think she's lying to make her or me feel better.
So in the end it is probably just our own beliefs and egos that are in the way.

well she's going to be disappointed by the amount of "okay" cocks she's going to have

 

[acromegaly]

well she's going to be disappointed by the amount of "okay" cocks she's going to have

lol true

 

[MoreThanLuck]

Yeah it sounds like she was trying to kill your ego. I have no doubt that she's 'seen' bigger. Everyones seen bigger. You can jump on the net and type in "monster cock" all day and you'd find at least 1 that appears bigger. Now has she even been with a dude your size or bigger? I highly doubt that. I think we have a Perception vs. Reality problem on her side.

Has she had any kids yet? If she hasn't go ahead and have sex with her then ask her if she's had a kid or two cause it feels much looser than you're normally use to feeling, but reassure her that you find her very attractive despite her obvious gaping flaw. 😂

 

[CokeCanCock]

Yeah it sounds like she was trying to kill your ego. I have no doubt that she's 'seen' bigger. Everyones seen bigger. You can jump on the net and type in "monster cock" all day and you'd find at least 1 that appears bigger. Now has she even been with a dude your size or bigger? I highly doubt that. I think we have a Perception vs. Reality problem on her side.

Has she had any kids yet? If she hasn't go ahead and have sex with her then ask her if she's had a kid or two cause it feels much looser than you're normally use to feeling, but reassure her that you find her very attractive despite her obvious gaping flaw. 😂

Nah we're both 19, I have no interest in pursuing her, I think the entire thing was just an act of horniness, left a kind of sickly feeling in my mouth (metaphorically)

 

[kak03]

If that is the first thing she said without you bringing size up before then it is obvious she did it to take you down a peg. "Oh my god thats big. He´s probably super cocky about it I should say I´ve had bigger so he doesnt think hes better than me". If she said that without you bringing up the size then its obvious that she saw it was big. If it was normal or small she wouldnt have said anything.

 

[CokeCanCock]

If that is the first thing she said without you bringing size up before then it is obvious she did it to take you down a peg. "Oh my god thats big. He´s probably super cocky about it I should say I´ve had bigger so he doesnt think hes better than me". If she said that without you bringing up the size then its obvious that she saw it was big. If it was normal or small she wouldnt have said anything.

Hmm good point, she definitely the sort of girl who wants the power, it was a mistake on my part to give it to her.

 

[Munto]

Nah we're both 19, I have no interest in pursuing her, I think the entire thing was just an act of horniness, left a kind of sickly feeling in my mouth (metaphorically)

At first I read "sTicky feeling in my mouth"
lol

 

[gnome2]

Man if she reacted that way that implies she's been with a TON of guys...

Seriously she didn't insult you, she just outed herself as a slut.

 

[Munto]

I think the word slut is so misused and it should be dropped like a bad habit.
There are at least as many male-sluts as there are female-sluts.
Remember, for every girl who has ONS you need at least one more guy.

And besides... maybe it was her first or second ONS and the past two or three guys were long-term relationships (whatever long-term could mean when you're "only" in your teens.) and they might have been well endowed.

 

[CokeCanCock]

Man if she reacted that way that implies she's been with a TON of guys...

Seriously she didn't insult you, she just outed herself as a slut.

Nah she isn't in double digits yet, she said the biggest she had, she thinks was 7, but i'm not pursuing this girl in anyway, it was literally purely sexual release

 

[gnome2]

I think the word slut is so misused and it should be dropped like a bad habit.

I like never use the word. To me, and it appears I was mistaken - anyone who thought OP's size was nothing special, demographically would have had to have seen quite a few.

But again as I said, it appears I was incorrect.

 

[mahoney1234]

Nah we're both 19, I have no interest in pursuing her, I think the entire thing was just an act of horniness, left a kind of sickly feeling in my mouth (metaphorically)

DO NOT let this affect you. Considering you are young as hell you have to understand something, by the time you're 25 there's a chance you will run through more girls than you can imagine(unless you are the relationship type) and you must realize that girls have a very bad perception on sex in general. I have been told numerous times they've had bigger dicks than mine, yet they never had an orgasm or squirted, until I come along with my mediocre average penis and change their world. Know what you have, your mind can change anything to what you want it to be. You have an inch of length on me and I can promise you I will please any girl way better than you could(not being a dick or bragging) because I just know I will. Confidence and ego can only be built or weakened through yourself, there should be not one outside factor that plays a role in determining your confidence.
And before you know it, you'll forget all about it. Keep your head up kiddo

 

[CokeCanCock]

DO NOT let this affect you. Considering you are young as hell you have to understand something, by the time you're 25 there's a chance you will run through more girls than you can imagine(unless you are the relationship type) and you must realize that girls have a very bad perception on sex in general. I have been told numerous times they've had bigger dicks than mine, yet they never had an orgasm or squirted, until I come along with my mediocre average penis and change their world. Know what you have, your mind can change anything to what you want it to be. You have an inch of length on me and I can promise you I will please any girl way better than you could(not being a dick or bragging) because I just know I will. Confidence and ego can only be built or weakened through yourself, there should be not one outside factor that plays a role in determining your confidence.
And before you know it, you'll forget all about it. Keep your head up kiddo

Yeah, experiences like this lead me to being the relationship type. Atleast I can constantly try to improve my self, and I have pe to make sure I can give a good shot at being the best and biggest ;P

 

[Aimingforthetop]

Thank you for taking the time to give me such a detailed reply, I think you are 100% right and I need to take from this situation and learn from it. It was kind of ironic as me and my friend were talking about how women love when guys take control, but they never allow men an opportunity to do that, with social media and things, women always have the power in conversation.

i think alot of misunderstanding is going on in this thread. towards female in general.

women shit test you to see if you are for real..

im gonna try and explain it from a womens point of view (which will always be lagging of information as i am not a woman. i just pretend that i understand them)


but luckjy for me i have a device that can zoom in on females brain frequenzies so we can actually read what she thinks.
Monolog:
dancing in front of mirror telling myself im sexy. Check.
1 hour make up session. check.
taking all my clothes out. put them on the floor. don't know what to wear. call my girl to ask her. check.

meeting up with my girls, we are going clubbing dancing and drinking fancy margharitas.
and flirting with guys.

party is on. a couple of guys have flirted with me and i feel i get a big enough boost to my selfworth (and margharitas) that i can now have a conversation with a guy.

"a lightlyfried guy shows up"

alright so he is cute. he makes me laugh and i feel weak in my knees around him. he seems confident.
okay. so he is making me feeling all these emotions. i don't know how to deal with that!
is he this confident? is he this strong in his self confidence? around him i can just relax and be feminine. i feel like a woman right now.
no way there has to be something sticking under. he can't be this confident.

"things escalate and naughty things are happening. and now the scene is staged for a blowjob!"

alright he has shown me enough for me to be sexual with this man. i want him to take me. besides if i don't do it. that other bitch at the bar that looked at him certainly will! holy shit that is one big cock!

Lightlyfried: "ye baby do you like my big cock huh?"

hmm. he has a big cock. check.
and i am currently sucking on it?
why do he wants me to tell him he has a big cock?
i mean he is wearing pants. and he didn't ask me if i liked his pants?
im gonna test him to see if he is for real. or he has me bullshitted up to this point.

girl says: "well i have seen bigger!"

lightlyfried changes facial expression. it takes a women less that a second to see that the remark hit him where it hurts.

women inner dialog: "goddamnit. he didn't have the confidence i thought he would. i am literally offending his manhood while i have it in my mouth. and no reaction no play! no sexy punishment with a smirk smile. not enough self respect to tell me off that i am trying to offend him.

just another man not strong enough to handle me. just another man i can walk all over and wrap around my little finger after a couple of weeks. got damnit i thought i found a guy worth my time. well this fucking sucks. ohh huhu pun intended so am i.

hmm i wonder what maggie is doing right now. do i have milk at home right now? i should buy milk. but the skimmed one not that organic fat shit. im losing my figure. and i can't fit into my favorite jeans.

device loses connection

this is my perception of a womens reality. i suffer from what is called "hsp" hyper sensitive personality. which basicly means that emotions is stronger and alot more apparent to me.

which has always been my gift and curse.

and i seem to find women rather easy to figure out. if you understand what attracts them.

remember brother.

confidence is the fucking key to everything.

and confidence is the key to fucking everything

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

I got a blowjob off some girl last night. Her first comment was "well... i've seen bigger" and then afterwards I asked "What did you think" she shrugged her shoulders and was like "it's okay". This has sent me down a spiral of paranoia, albeit I didn't have the best EQ and I had a pump session earlier that day, but at around that EQ my erection would of been a minimum of 7/7.5.

This experience has made me question everything about my penis, am I actually 8x5.6? what is that average? would 8x6 even be big? would 9x7 be big? But fuck that slut, I think she just said it to have power over me.

7 inches a few have seen that and 8 is a bit harder still,she was trying to make you feel inadequte and insecure...

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

this is my perception of a womens reality. i suffer from what is called "hsp" hyper sensitive personality. which basicly means that emotions is stronger and alot more apparent to me.


Being that sensitive can be a bad idea sometimes,some people can be rude,unmindful,and unkind too.and hurt the feelings