My wife never could get her mouth open enough to really give me a good BJ at 8 x 6.5 She attempts and starts on me flaccid but by the time I would get hard, she couldn’t get much more than the head plus an inch or so then had to use her hand to stoke the shaft.

So when I started stretching and pumping regimens she loved the size increases for sex but not for having to give blow jobs. She said it broke her jaw.

Unfortunately I’ve recently had my prostate removed due to cancer and had a lot of reduction in length and girth. 6 x 5.5 and difficulty at times getting fully erect. Great now for blow jobs because she can get it in her mouth but I’ve been fighting to get my length and girth back thru using this site for recommendations of how to get back to where I used to be.

Truly sorry to hear what you went through and still going through. When you are comfortable enough to discuss on a specific plan after providing us the necessary info, we'll gladly work with you on various levels to get things back to their intended sizes.
 
Sorry to hear about your cancer. I will pray for you and your wife. That's a tough thing to go through and takes a little bit of time to heal. So for now, take advantage of your size allowing blow jobs. Your attitude it's so positive i'm jealous
The thing is the doctors don’t tell you all of the side effects you will encounter after surgery before you have the surgery. Obviously they are more concerned with getting the cancer out of you than they are your self esteem and sexual confidence after the fact.

One thing that they did tell me was after the surgery I would no longer be able to ejaculate. I’d still have the same sensation but nothing would come out. I didn’t realize how much that would affect me mentally. Sounds odd but that lack of sperm production has really affected my sexual confidence. Just hard to explain unless you’ve been thru it.

But the reduction in size has been the biggest issue. I have just naturally been on the larger side and have always enjoyed the fruits of that with my wife as well as other women prior. One thing they don’t talk to you about is the psychological effects it has on you losing your size and a feeling of being a lesser man than what you once were. I’m 19 months post op now and have just started to look into methods to get my size back again.

I apologize to all the guys down the line for throwing a wet blanket on this post that’s meant to be fun. I’m open to chat with anyone that thinks they can offer some real help with my size loss issues as well as anyone that might be on the pre op side of having prostate cancer and wanting to know more about what really happens to your body after surgery.
 
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The thing is the doctors don’t tell you all of the side effects you will encounter after surgery before you have the surgery. Obviously they are more concerned with getting the cancer out of you than they are your self esteem and sexual confidence after the fact.

One thing that they did tell me was after the surgery I would no longer be able to ejaculate. I’d still have the same sensation but nothing would come out. I didn’t realize how much that would affect me mentally. Sounds odd but that lack of sperm production has really affected my sexual confidence. Just hard to explain unless you’ve been thru it.

But the reduction in size has been the biggest issue. I have just naturally been on the larger side and have always enjoyed the fruits of that with my wife as well as other women prior. One thing they don’t talk to you about is the psychological effects it has on you losing your size and a feeling of being a lesser man than what you once were. I’m 19 months post op now and have just started to look into methods to get my size back again.

I apologize to all the guys down the line for throwing a wet blanket on this post that’s meant to be fun. I’m open to chat with anyone that thinks they can offer some real help with my size loss issues as well as anyone that might be on the pre op side of having prostate cancer and wanting to know more about what really happens to your body after surgery.

Brother, sorry about your situation, I believe you can grow the lost size back through PE. I remember a guy who did penis girth surgery. After the surgery, he didn't wait for the recommended time before having sex. He ended up losing around 2 inches of penis length.

He did PE and got some of the lost size back and he is still gaining. I believe, you can get back the lost size within 1 year of serious PE. There is 100% possibility brother.

Be strong and keep a positive mindset at all times.
 
I understand my brother and I can't put myself in your shoes but I can advise you that whatever the doctor says it's not always truth. And you may be able to ejaculate in the future through PE practices.

We can get you back to your old size with some creative workouts. What is the size decrease in both girth and length?
 
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