funny virgin 16yo problems with his parents HELP!

[pyro]

Ok, let me try to make this short..

my girlfriend lost her virginity to me, I have had sex with one other girl prior..which we only had sex ONE time that I would say was pretty decent..So im not very sexually experienced..

my problem is, my girlfriend now is really tight, she lost her virginity 2 me and was in a lot of pain..It still hurts her sometimes when I GO IN HER..she is timid and doesnt get loose in bed..she is stiff 2..basically, Im not the biggest guy in the world either.. flaccid im like 3 inches and erect im like 6' I dont know if its my penis size or what..at times I think it is..at times i think it isint because when I go in her deep it hurts her. Maybe she doesnt enjoy it bcuz I dont have enough GIRTH! I dont know what it is..sometimes I cum to quickly, cuz she is so stiff I feel like im having sex with her while she is running away/pulling...so I cannot satisfy her..only orally..I feel bad sometimes, I think its my size or I am just clueless..I wish I could last longer and make her enjoy sex...

we were having a chat at the beach with some of our friends and I over heard my girlfriends best friend saying how she recently lost her virginity and it was the BEST FEELING EVER...it makes me feel bad..I want my g/f to experience that 2 . any advice or comments..?

 

[pole]

had to shift it here, cause this is not Penis Enlargement related.

To your prob:

Obviously she's not excited enough and you enter to quickly!
Take more time to tease her with fingers/tongue and just start penetration when she's open and wet enough for you.
Most young girls need more time to relax fully and get ready for the act.
A little(!) alcohol can help a great deal too.

pole

I just see, that you talk about orally too. Was she able to climax from oral?

 

[pyro]

yea i can make her climax really fast orally..

 

[pole]

strange!

But I still think you should slow down a bit and maybe just insert your head(the one of your dick!) first and go a few minuts like this and when you see that she relax more go in half and so on.
This is best to do in a position like her lying on the bed close to the edge and your kneeing in front.
This position gives good G-point stimulation as well and you need only to be 2-3" inside to hit this spot.

Good luck!

pole

 

[DCDuro]

Don't be afraid to play in bed. Sex is absolutely the best when both people are having fun. When you are uptight because you think you aren't performing properly or she's uptight because she's inexperienced the sex will be stiff and uncomfortable. Stop and think...this woman is here with me, naked and willing to let me make love to her. WOW! Now forget about playing John Holmes and have fun with each other. Use lubes. Clit creams. Dildos. Vibrators. Cock rings. Take her shopping to the adult store and let her pick out her favorite toy. Let her pick the porno [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words] for the night. Role play. Sex is fun! Just enjoy it.

 

[pyro]

thanks fellas

 

[zeiofen]

Pyro - I don't have any advice for you but like to tell you I understand what you're going through.

My current girlfriend is the one that lost her virginity to me, which is probably the only reason I'm still with, she treats me like a king, almost to the point of worship. Usually I tend to be a little masochistic towards women, and use them and lose them.

We're about the same size dick, so the same thing happens with my girl it "hurts a little" when it first goes in, but THANK GOD she's got a really wet pussy and also she is a very loud one also, screaming and yelling, and for only being with ONE guy in her life, WOW. Along the lines of "OHHH MY GOD" and "IT'S HUGE BABY" and "YOU ARE SO FUCKING GOOD" but maybe that's because she's mixed black/white, so maybe that black in her is what is letting out the freak in her! I love it cuz she is thin like a white girl, but FAT where it counts (tits/ass) !!!

It really does boost your ego, and make your dick feel like the king, so all I have to say about the virgin girlfriend stuff, she was my first virgin, and so far the best lover I have had so far. And I have been with quite a few before, so I have other girls to compare her to, which makes her jealous, though I still tell her she is the finest and the best.

good luck man,
zeiofen

 

[ItsElectric]

Originally posted by pyro
thx bro, its gotten a little better with my girl..however she doesnt want to have sex becuz Im leaving to college and she thinks im going to get used to it and cheat on her.. LOL she is so funny, I really love her though..

I am seeing gains also..she is gonna freak when I come back for christmas break!

Hahahhaa, *pictures her seeing an 8 incher when you come back*

-ItsElectric

 

[MDC]

Originally posted by ItsElectric
Hahahhaa, *pictures her seeing an 8 incher when you come back*

-ItsElectric

Better yet, take a picture of her face!

On the subject matter. I think she just needs to relax and enjoy. Have her do Kegels. Doing Kegels helps you relax down there as well as squeeze. That's the reason they want pregnant women doing them.