fleshlight "problem"

[wannagrow4real]

Hi guys,

Since a month or so I'm the owner of a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words], and I must say it realy I did a great purchase. I'm mainly using it to inrease my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words]. Whenever I'm stroking manualy I can easily last for 20 minutes or so, but whenever I'm placing it between my matras or hold it down on the table or something and begin to "fuck" it like I'd be doing a real pussy....I come in less than a few minutes. 3 minutes tops, most of the time even less.

I haven't had real sex for a few years now and I'm starting to get worried when in comes to the real thing I'm going to have the same problem.

Does anyone know what makes me last longer while manualy stroke and why I come almost instantly while fucking the damn thing?

Thnx in advance!

 

[C-Guy]

Sounds like your penis has grown accustomed to you jerking off as the only form of release. Since you say it has been a couple of years with no intercourse you are probably just feeling like a teenager when he does it the first few times. as your penis gets used to this form of release you should begin to last longer. Good luck.

 

[Deon]

yeah you most likely have my problem..I am one of those guys that just doing kegals does not work when it comes to lasting longer n bed...I have to be sexually active...When I am active like having sex at least once a day my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] naturally increases..My tolerance goes up, but when I don't have sex for like a month or more and then I go back to it BAM I am shooting off quick..just one of those things I guess..lol

Viagra gives me crazy endurance though..lol

 

[wannagrow4real]

Sounds like your penis has grown accustomed to you jerking off as the only form of release. Since you say it has been a couple of years with no intercourse you are probably just feeling like a teenager when he does it the first few times. as your penis gets used to this form of release you should begin to last longer. Good luck.

Sounds pausible, but I'm still trying to figure out what the difference is between the "jerking off methode" with the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] and the "fucking methode"

But thanks for your reply

 

[BDS]

Hmm, well.. for me, being uncut, I've found that I blow my load way faster when fucking than jerking off. When you're jerking off, you're basically moving your foreskin up and down (if your intact). But when fucking your glans is getting more stimulation, especially if the pussy is tight, thus you're prone to come much faster. That's what I think..

 

[Deon]

good point tight pussy forget about it i explode quick...anybody have a clamper...when my wife has an orgasm her dam pussy clamps down on my dick I hate that because it gets tight and it make me shoot off!!

 

[wannagrow4real]

good point tight pussy forget about it i explode quick...anybody have a clamper...when my wife has an orgasm her dam pussy clamps down on my dick I hate that because it gets tight and it make me shoot off!!

:S it's been so long ago now, I've even forgotten how that feels :S

 

[wohoo19m]

Learn your levels of arousal and train your PC. Then it's just about training. Your body will get used to it.

 

[WoodieLong]

Hi guys,

Since a month or so I'm the owner of a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words], and I must say it realy I did a great purchase. I'm mainly using it to inrease my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words]. Whenever I'm stroking manualy I can easily last for 20 minutes or so, but whenever I'm placing it between my matras or hold it down on the table or something and begin to "fuck" it like I'd be doing a real pussy....I come in less than a few minutes. 3 minutes tops, most of the time even less.

I haven't had real sex for a few years now and I'm starting to get worried when in comes to the real thing I'm going to have the same problem.

Does anyone know what makes me last longer while manualy stroke and why I come almost instantly while fucking the damn thing?

Thnx in advance!

Edging. Slow down or stop when you get the first feelings of cumming. Don't let yourself get to the point of no return. Don't just stick your dick in and pump like a bunny. Slow down, take your time and pull out if you need to. Make it last. Slower strokes. Shallower strokes. Train yourself to have sex, no to cum. When you can do that, you can cum when you want.

When I was in college, I edged for hours and got a rush like a drug. I would just stay on the edge of orgasm. Very intense and addictive. When I was with woman, I could last as long as I wanted because I had trained myself to last as long as I wanted to. You can do it too.

Hope this helps.

 

[BIG COCKED HERO]

well guys it better to cum quick than last long. I have grown my foreskin back and since i have done that i cum normally just a few minutes. when circumsized i lost a lot of sensitivity and could fuck a women for 1 hour without cumming, the girl just got bored and told me to get off. so, you see guys its better to cum quicker, this also ensures that your thrusts are quicker too and more exciting for the female form.

 

[theoblivious]

im 19 at the moment, and I had this problem earlier in my high school years. Id come after some girl jerking me off for less than a minute. I just got done with my girlfriend and i had to force my self to come while having sex, lasted well over an hour.

In all honesty, its just getting past that initial feeling of insertion, like the first 5 or so minutes where you feel on edge. I take it slow and I thrust minimally during this. I believe that is the key, taking it slow in the beginning, cause damn, the feeling is overwhelming and its all bout bringing your mind and body back down and relaxing.

Also, when your masturbating, just take it slow, if you feel like coming, hold back the urge and stop a moment if you need to. whatever you do, dont come. What i usually did (do) is jerk off to some adult entertainment and when i feel like im going to climax, i stop jerking off completely and dont even come at all. Wait a few minutes and have my erection go down. when its fully down, I bring it back up and do my adult entertainment watching session again. Usually, i feel like i could last forever.

Remember this is 100 percent mental. Dont treat the advice given as a sure way and of achieving your goals. Heck, it shouldnt even be goals! These ideas should not be work at all because thinking about it as a chore just gets you even more tensed up. Relax, stay cool and just enjoy the moment, slow down if you need to, just figure out what works best for you and how your body responds. Remember these are all just tips, so find what works best for you and stick with it.

...sorry for the long post, i havent had any sexual fun with my girlfriend for 2 months...though it was well worth the wait haha. those long distance relationships i tell ya.

 

[wannagrow4real]

thnx for all your replies. I'm sure as hell going to try some of your tips.

 

[blackice]

Edging. Slow down or stop when you get the first feelings of cumming. Don't let yourself get to the point of no return. Don't just stick your dick in and pump like a bunny. Slow down, take your time and pull out if you need to. Make it last. Slower strokes. Shallower strokes. Train yourself to have sex, no to cum. When you can do that, you can cum when you want.

When I was in college, I edged for hours and got a rush like a drug. I would just stay on the edge of orgasm. Very intense and addictive. When I was with woman, I could last as long as I wanted because I had trained myself to last as long as I wanted to. You can do it too.

Hope this helps.

This sounds awsome, it that the true purpose of edging?? How long, or how many months do you think it took you to master this control? How many times did you edge in a single session, most of use aren't gonna edge for hours on end.

 

[WoodieLong]

This sounds awsome, it that the true purpose of edging?? How long, or how many months do you think it took you to master this control? How many times did you edge in a single session, most of use aren't gonna edge for hours on end.

Not sure anyone else used it for this purpose, but I did. I would lay on my bed on a pillow, and put my penis between the pillow and the sheets and slowly pump it like a pussy. My sheets were a very soft cotton, so it was very soft. I would watch adult entertainment and edge for hours. The endorphins released for hours was more addictive than coke. It was not a matter of times, since I would stay on the edge the entire time. Just get right up to the point of orgasm, and stop or barely stroke to let the sheets keep you right on the edge without going over.

I enjoyed edging more than cumming. I could make edging last indefinitley, and cumming lasted only a minute or so.

 

[blackice]

sounds like fun na good looks on the re-ply. How is your [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] in bed, can you basically do the same thing.

 

[GashKing]

Dude,

are those "FleshLights" really worth it ? What do they cost ? Where did you get yours.

Regarding "throwing your load too quick", you gotta take some advice from my wife and I. Practice your kegeling and over time you will be able to hold your load for a longer time. I am at the point that when my orgasm cums, my PC/BC muscles are sooo strong that I cannot unload my full load (if that seems reasonable ?).

You cant get dissapointed and discouraged. Many of anything that has to do with Penis Enlargement "doesnt happen overnight" and many guys get frustrated and quit ?

Deon:

I know you said that kegels dont work for you and your wife clamps the hell outta your cock. My wife does the same and it is real painful and tooooo tight. Feels like someone is actually gripping and squeezing your cock; she is even better with her asshole muscles. I usually bet alot of the guys that think that they can outlast my wife at the club, she then uses her skills and they all usually lose the bet. The are in shock and cant believe it (that she has such excellent control over her pussy / asshole muscles. When her and I fuck, she usually fucks with me and squeezes then releases, sqeazes, then releases and on and on - this really fucken screws up my orgasm as I dont know whether to cum or not, I mean ya get the feeling then when she releases, you lose your rythem. She can actually squeeze my cock outta her asshole being that she has soooooo much control over her asshole muscles.

But the moral of the story is to practice your kegels to the point where you can actually feel the difference and control your ejaculations ("shooting the load").

Try the dildo/ viberator in your asshole training routine. Check out my post.

You have to get some pussy to man. My wife and I belong to a Swingers Club and I have had alot of pussy and still do get more than enough, and at times I have had alot of "sloppy , loose, wet, juicy, relaxed pussy" to the point that I could not cum because of the pussy being fucked, and fucked with dildo's, viberators, huge cocks and they were all stretched out after hours of fucking. So this may help you also. Find some babe with a real loose pussy that is used and abused (alot of older women are stretched, even their assholes) and you may be able to ram for a longer time and train yourself to hold your load longer ?

Good luck Du and Keep us apprised of your journey.

 

[marcodian]

Is there a way for you to hire a hooker or escort?

By the way, I am not joking. I think if you haven't had sex in years you are now creating scenarios in your head that might not exist in the real world. Maybe they do, I don't know. But I would for sure want to find out!

 

[DLD]

Dude,

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