Confidence improvement

doublelongdaddy;662935 said:
Indeed, praise the Lord! I am in a similar place, I was a really good man for my ex, I worked, I provided, I was a good man and she seriously broke my heard when she left. The fucked up thing is she traded me in for a piece of shit, a creep, a broke ass racist piece of garbage. The same happened with my Ex-wife. I will never get my head around those types of women, they seem to love to be treated like shit. I am patient and I know when the time is right Jesus will bring the right one to me.
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One thing I always work on with guys I counsel prior to marriage, is that you have to remember that no woman belongs to you. You have the opportunity to be entrusted as her steward while you are here on this earth. She belongs to God. If you want the kind of woman who pursues Him and is a Godly woman, you need to be the kind of man that He can entrust to be a steward of her heart. Be that man, work towards being that man, pray that you will be that man. Pray for her as well, and know that out there, there is a woman praying for the same in return and wait for the opportunity that God will bring you together.
 
doublelongdaddy;662935 said:
Indeed, praise the Lord! I am in a similar place, I was a really good man for my ex, I worked, I provided, I was a good man and she seriously broke my heard when she left. The fucked up thing is she traded me in for a piece of shit, a creep, a broke ass racist piece of garbage. The same happened with my Ex-wife. I will never get my head around those types of women, they seem to love to be treated like shit. I am patient and I know when the time is right Jesus will bring the right one to me.
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Yeah brahs i know she still likes me because she's all shy, and doesn't meet my eyes when we talk. I really wish I had done things different we'd be very happy, but for now I'm just sorting out my life so I can really be a catch to...somebody else<:( XD.
 
templnite;663045 said:
Yeah brahs i know she still likes me because she's all shy, and doesn't meet my eyes when we talk. I really wish I had done things different we'd be very happy, but for now I'm just sorting out my life so I can really be a catch to...somebody else<:( XD.
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I wish I did many things different as I do my ex but it is done, the past is the past. Today I pray for someone who will complete me, someone who will inspire and push me to be a better man. I know she is out there, I just know it!:)
 
pradox;660400 said:
Good to see you in the right track, man! One year ago, you were down...and I mean down. To the point of hating on your dick like it was satan...lol

Shorty, keep on going! There're still inches of success to be achived;););)
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This should be highlighted! Shortdick its nice to see a possitive man taking it one step at the time.

And remember. Being down is where you will grow personally. Basically its the feeling of your person being stretched :)
 
too true. if life has become more difficult it just means you've leveled up. I've been feeling so depressed this week unable to train due to my injury. P.E is more than just self improvement or a hobby, it's therapy :D
 
Aimingforthetop;667318 said:
. Being down is where you will grow personally. :)
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1corinthians 5:5
hand this man over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord
1corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
 
templnite;667336 said:
1corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
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Very powerful verse and one that all Brothers should take to heart. We have a gracious, loving but most of all forgiving Father that will love us no matter what. So being done, depressed, in the dumps may feel like a personal hell but if looked at from a new perspective you may see it as a gift. There are some that hear, some that see, some that preach, the Lord gives us a true talent, a gift, something only you have. It is our job to find this gift and use it to the best of our ability. I see the Brotherhood in this same light, we have created something powerful in the eyes of God.
 
doublelongdaddy;667417 said:
. I see the Brotherhood in this same light, we have created something powerful in the eyes of God.
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Proverbs 20:24
Man's steps are ordained by the LORD, How then can man understand his way?

Oh mike I don't even want to look up to the heavens because I think god will just spit in my face<:(. That's what I would do to a unfaithful person like me
 
templnite;667674 said:
Proverbs 20:24
Man's steps are ordained by the LORD, How then can man understand his way?

Oh mike I don't even want to look up to the heavens because I think god will just spit in my face<:(. That's what I would do to a unfaithful person like me
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No my Brother, this is so far from the truth! Jesus loves you, he loves you even more when you have sinned and speak forgiveness. The whole reason God suffered and died for us was for our sins. I love you and I want you to know that the Lord love you too. I would not be the man I am today if I were not a great sinner at one time. And today, I still sin but I go to Christ for his Mercy, freely given to all who go to him!

"He was delivered over to death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification."
— Romans 4:25

"The reason Jesus had to die for our sins was so that we could be forgiven and go to be with the Lord."
 
templnite;668527 said:
Thanks mike that really touches my heart
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Thank you my Brother! You are always in my prayers.
 
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