The girl at the gym.

Haha, i don't even know why i'm posting this really as nothing really happened and i probably saw it from the wrong angle as i'm so hyped up.

Recently i've just put girls aside. I'm trying not to get involved with anyone and i'm just enjoying not having anyone right now. My pubes are a bush etc because i've not needed to shave for anyone etc. But i think I may well shave tonight after today.

Basically I got so hyped up in the gym locker room i pretty much ran out of the locker room and up the stairs and this new girl who works as a personal trainer came down the stairs and i kinda got in her way, but we made eyes and smiled. (I looked pretty shitty tbh, i had thrown up earlier this morning after starting the Insanity Workout, if you don't know it, check it. And yeah, usually i'll do my hair etc before going to the gym incase there's some eye candy, but today i didn't as i was exhausted). She was really attractive though and being a personal trainer, she was in great shape and her body looked so tight. She had brown hair, my favourite and blue eyes, also my favourite. She had great teeth and a great smile too, we're talking goddess right here.

Anyway, i was so hyped i was just smashing out sets. Then she came over to me and started asking how i was, mid-set. So i stopped and was a bit taken a back but replied and asked her the same thing. Then we just kept talking and she knew a few people i knew etc. I just felt there was chemistry. I know another girl that works there and i mentioned her and this girl replied 'Oh is that your girlfriend?' and said 'No i'm single' and she gave me this smile that i felt just said 'score'. You know how when you ask a girl if shes single and when she says 'Yes' your mind just goes 'Fuck yeah'. It was kinda like that i felt.

She told me when she's working tomorrow so i told her i'd come then and see her tomorrow and she smiled and said 'I'll see you tomorrow then' and then I left.

I know it's not a happy ending kinda story but i just felt there was little things she did that told me she wanted it. We never really lost eye contact and she had this sparkle in here eyes. I saw her name badge which her hair was kinda covering but it was still clear to read. So i said 'Your names (She can remain nameless) then?' and she flicked her hair off her chest and she just pointed at it and told me her name, after I clearly already read her name correctly. It seemed like she wanted to direct my attentions to her chest. She did have a very nice chest.

Considering I focus on form, she can't have been wanting to speak to me to correct my form. Maybe she just saw my big ole dick through my pants and she just wanted it.

Whatever it was, she seemed pretty eager to talk to me, considering i had both headphones in, had a game face on and i was mid-set. I'm going to wake up early tomorrow, hit Insanity, hit the Bathmate, get a trim at the hairdressers and then hit the gym and i'll chat to her again.

Sounds a great day tomorrow!

so you do a workout before you go to the gym?

Well i'm gonna tweak it tomorrow and do it earlier, but yeah. Cardio before gym in the shape of Insanity and then at the gym i'll just do weights on a specific body part.

Wow you're crazy! I can't do anything for the rest of the day after the Insanity Workout! Good luck with that chick dude.

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Bapify, Insanity just made me feel unstoppable, even if i kinda fucked it by going too fast at the start trying to keep up with Shaun T's pace and throwing up and then going at half the pace for the last bits of it. I felt great!

@DLD, i'll do that. I don't fancy a kid though, but if we did have kids they'd be good looking as she's an absolute stunner. I'm gonna hit a good strong clamp session tonight to bulk up that thickness. You know girls love a big fat dick.

Cool that you met a nice chick in the gym, wish I could also do that. As a matter of fact there are some hot girls here in the gym, but when I do my heavy squats I can't concentrate on them but I now they're there LOL .

Haha, yeah. Big day today, i have to leave my mark on her.

While it's fun being "hardcore" with fitness, keep the little voice in the back of your head aware of the real danger associated with these "high intensity" training programs. One potential danger can and has killed people.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/puBathmateedhealth/PMH0001505/

You should ask the coordinator of this program if they are aware of the risk of Rhabdomyolysis (do YOU know what it is??) and what sort of preventative strategies they have in place to help reduce the risks.

Ugh. So i went to the gym, did half a workout and she waved at me, so i went over. We spoke for 45 minutes, which was decent talk. By that point i didn't feel like finishing my work out, so i said i was going to go and i asked her for her number... she shook her head and said she had a boyfriend while smiling. I honestly couldnt believe it. I was waiting for those digits to roll off her tongue.

I haven't 'chased' anyone in ages because i was in a 2 year relationship and after that i just fucked around with an ex for a few months, but my chase game was always on point. I never really got rejected like I was today and it feels like shit. Plus it was a long walk home too which made it worse.

Things i don't get
-She smiled and laughed constantly both times we spoke, and it was a proper smile too.
-She basically asked me if i had a girlfriend.
-She said at one point 'I'm hungry, i'm just gonna get my banana'. (We were standing by the staff room) Within like seconds she came out and she had clearly eaten something, but it seemed like she stuffed it in her mouth. You know how girls get funny eating around guys they like? I felt it was like that rather than her just eating super quickly.
-She said talking to me makes the time go really quickly, which it did as it was pretty good conversation.

And for about an hours talk over 2 days, i think they are fairly good signs. I know i should have asked if she had a boyfriend first, but i was just so sure she was single. I think i made it worse by retreating loads and saying 'I wish i didn't ask that now'. I still smiled and she waved at me when i left, i waved back.

I'm sure i'll still speak to her but yeah, really gutted. Especially as she was so hot, but i guess that's a sign she's unavailable, isn't it?

I shall transfer this frustration into my penis as per usual. Manual, Bathmate, Manual, SizeGen, Manual, Bathmate, Clamping. If she decides her boyfriend isn't the right guy and wants to give me a shot, the longer she waits, the bigger my dick gets. So i'm not too fussed. The longer she waits, the bigger the gasp when she finally sees it.

Sounds like your classic case of a flirt. A lot of people don't know how to not flirt and flirt back every chance they get. Some things to consider though: She may "have a boyfriend" ...or that could be a what they call in sales "objection". In other words, she likes you, but wants to know you better before giving in. Have you seen her boyfriend? Case in point. He may exist, or he may just be something she SAYS she has to keep guys at bay. Attractive people often KNOW they are attractive. It sounds better than "no" or "sorry I don't give it out to everyone who asks". If she does have a boyfriend maybe he's not "mr right" but "mr right now". A LOT of people are in those types of relationships. They're convenient for the time being for any number of reasons. Money, good sex, "he's SO SWEET!", a car, etc. I wouldn't give up just yet if you're that interested in her. Give it a little time for the infatuation phase you're currently in to pass and then see how you feel. Ask her how her "boyfriend" is doing. LOL. A line I occasionally used to "test the waters" with a girl I was interested in if I didn't know much about her relationship status was basically "so does your boyfriend know you're such a flirt?".

Not seen her boyfriend as i've only known her two days. It was sudden me asking for her number but like... when i said i was gonna go she said 'oh, alright then...' and there was just like a moment. I felt inclined. It's annoying as i'm usually much calmer but she just clouded my judgement and made me get excited.

I'll see how i feel. Im sure i'll still like her. She seems the kinda girl it's hard to not like.

One thing any guy who's looking for a "yes" has to be prepared for is a "no". It sucks, but it's also just part of the game.
One way to avoid getting crushed is ya just gotta remember that you can't get emotionally invested in an outcome which you can't control.
If you look at a potential gal as just that then if she says no...just move on to the next one.

Women themselves got no idea just what makes 'em say yes or no, how should you be expected to know?

That's true. I just feel if i said something like 'Well, i'm not looking for a girlfriend either' it would have been fine.

I just said like 'Oh, i wish i didn't ask that now... I'll still talk to you, i'm not just spending 45 minutes talking to you just because you're attractive. I thought you were single though as you asked me if Claire was my girlfriend. Nevermind'.

I just feel it was just the wrong thing to say which made everything awkward.

"That's cool, some other time then. I'll see you around."

Very non-committal, leaves your options open and really conveys the feeling that when you two do get together (not if) it'll be because of a mutual attraction.
Also the connotation could be seen as you being quite confident enough that the random "no" not only doesn't, but can't, phase you at all.
Maybe you could keep something like that handy for future reference.

I used this approach with a gal I useta work with who was just startin' in on her divorce. She was hot and had some H-U-G-E knockers. It was kind of a slow motion game of "Chase me!" and she'd run and giggle and we'd flirt and shit. But when it came down to actually knockin' boots I knew she had a little too much baggage to throw herself with the wanton sluttiness I knew I'd want.

So I finally told her that I'd keep after her until she was either screaming in orgasm on my moustache...or taking out a restraining order.

Coupla weeks before I retired, just before knock-off, I was takin' care of last minute paperwork when she popped into the office sayin' "Cold in here, ain't it?" And flashed me those lovely hooters with some nips you could cut bulletproof glass with.
"If I don't see ya, it HAS been fun!"

Never had an opportunity to get any farther, but that was fun in itself. And it reminded me of how many times I coulda blown havin' a sweet pair of jugs in my face as a goin' away present.

So...like pool; always get ready to set up yer next shot.

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Or, as Caesar would say "Vidi, vice, veni" ("I saw, I conqured, I came")

Fuck what Max said. Next time you see this girl, break down in tears, fall to your knees grabbing around her shins and beg for her phone number. Works every time!

Man! I'm all warm and fuzzy from de love!

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Fuck what Max said. Next time you see this girl, break down in tears, fall to your knees grabbing around her shins and beg for her phone number. Works every time!

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Yeah, Max you raise a good point. Usually i'm smoother but hey, i've not been chasing girls for about 3 years. Back then I was in my prime. I just need to practice again to get back to that level. I just wished there were some girls i didn't care about that i practiced on before hand so i could test the water, rather than jumping in at the deep end with both feet..

Any progress?

My suggestion if not is wear something that really reveals you cock (assuming your near that goal) and aim it in her direction and then perhaps be quite forward "come for a drink Friday". Act like the boyfriend does not exist, if she comes then hes either not important to her really or non existent or even just magically broke up with her.