An "Edge" brand shaving gel can is my minimum, long term girth goal. It's right at 6.75" . You guys comparing to a woman's wrist, should start measuring their wrists. I dated a girl once who loved to talk about "this one guy" she had sex with (once of course), who was supposedly "at least 9"! and "as thick as my (her) wrist!!!"
When she saw my cock the first time, she swore I was bigger! Lol. I measured right in front of her. I was around 6" long non bone pressed and 5.75" in shaft girth. I also measured her wrist. It was around 5.25" around. I know some of you guys date/are with some real heffers, but most women's wrists are smaller than they, or you realize.
I guess my moral of my story is, don't let a woman's words play with your head. They are on the up close and personal/in your face side of viewing a penis, while most of us are usually a couple feet away from our penises. BIG difference when it comes to a size perspective.