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I'm starting my Penis Enlargement journey mostly in order to conquer performance anxiety. My first 3 attempts at having sex were miserable failures, so now I am trying my best to get myself in the mood for bonin'. At 20, I'm pretty sure I don't have ED, so how can I reverse this?

I get caught up in my head way too much when having sex. I have had encounters with several women that I am attracted to, but my penis game was just not cutting it. I felt the passion in the foreplay and the tingle and the excitement as we start shedding clothes, but when it comes down to below the waist, that's when I have the worst amount of trouble.

I try to think of the emotions I felt when I had an erection that was stark, ultra sensitive (in a good way) and completely engorged and how powerful I felt but nothing happens. I deep breathe, let go all of my performance anxiety and still...limpdick.

What do you all do to get yourself in the mood better, relax, and get blood flow pumpin?
I prefer to hear something that isn't a pill or supplement.
 
Well ���� in general will help get that blood moving but be sure not to shoot off too early. I like to keep the ���� going and only look when I am faltering in EQ. I used to do my girth work in a public bathroom so I would tape a handful of sexy images around me, when I needed some blood flow I would look at them.
 
I had my daughter all natural no drugs before or after and it wasn't that bad. She is my first but some advice I can offer is that, just remember that what you are going through is to meet your beautiful little baby that is what I did and listened to my husband words of encouragement and it went by fast and honestly the hardest part was not pushing when I had the urge to push the nurses kept telling me to blow short breaths like I was blowing out candles on a cake and once I started pushing it's a huge relief! and once the head is out there is a huge release of pressure and it is a breeze from there! Just remember that you are doing this for you baby and that is what got me through it all!

Bottom Line Breathe Deeply
 
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Kalebleo;398768 said:
I had my daughter all natural no drugs before or after and it wasn't that bad. She is my first but some advice I can offer is that, just remember that what you are going through is to meet your beautiful little baby that is what I did and listened to my husband words of encouragement and it went by fast and honestly the hardest part was not pushing when I had the urge to push the nurses kept telling me to blow short breaths like I was blowing out candles on a cake and once I started pushing it's a huge relief! and once the head is out there is a huge release of pressure and it is a breeze from there! Just remember that you are doing this for you baby and that is what got me through it all!

wtf. I am not sure this person read the thread starter.

anyway. does she get you hard during oral? do you achieve a chubby during foreplay? I would try to find the point in foreplay that has you most excited. and after you get naked, do that again.
 
You can get better wood with supplements although you dont want to hear that. You can do a lot of different methods to achieve arousal. Try eating her out, making out and when you get hard try and get her to start sucking you while youre still in an aroused state. Try eating healthy and exercising that will also help with blood flow. Also getting to know her may be exactly what you need for your first time. The first time I got a bj I couldn't get hard. It took us more than one time to get it. Once we got it I would get hard EVERY time with her because my penis knew what he was in for. I never knew about size or any of that I just knew she would suck me until I got hard and then I thought it felt so good I would just get hard automatically.Maybe try telling her about it? If you connect with her well enough.
 
Breathing slowly and deeply can help you relax in any situation. Try it when you are next in a stressful situation - it is almost impossible to feel stressed whilst breathing slowly and deeply.

In a sexual sitiation it is very important to focus on your partner, not on yourself. If you do this, you will remove all the pressure on yourself, and please them immensely with you kind and giving sexual ways. They will become very aroused by this, and if you continue to focus on them, so will you in response!
 
JonRhodesUK;406845 said:
Breathing slowly and deeply can help you relax in any situation. Try it when you are next in a stressful situation - it is almost impossible to feel stressed whilst breathing slowly and deeply.

In a sexual sitiation it is very important to focus on your partner, not on yourself. If you do this, you will remove all the pressure on yourself, and please them immensely with you kind and giving sexual ways. They will become very aroused by this, and if you continue to focus on them, so will you in response!


This is a great way to work through premature ejaculation. Most men, who have premature ejaculation think too much about their own feelings during sex and this is usually the reason they lose it. Change your thoughts, change the outcome (or in-cum:))
 
Yep. Steady breaths like your jogging. In through the nose out through the mouth with pursed lips. Started doing this with my gf and I was amazed at how much more control I had. I highly suggest it.
 
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