Might I assume that you try to refrain from having sex with anyone other than a serious relationship? If so then your points will be much more credible. If this is one of those...men can do it but women can't deals....well then.....LMAO
 
AC'sGirl said:
Might I assume that you try to refrain from having sex with anyone other than a serious relationship? If so then your points will be much more credible. If this is one of those...men can do it but women can't deals....well then.....LMAO
I've had one sexual partner in the past, who I was in a long-term relationship to that point. I thought the term would be much longer, but she had other ideas.
 
I understand....I am just getting out of a 6 year relationship and would never thought about cheating. I appreciate what you are saying. The guys dogging on women that have slept around, but think it is OK for them to do it...that's what bugs me.
 
I dated a gal once who simply wouldn't tell me how many guys she had slept with. I had seen a few by looking through her photo albums, but was led to believe that that was only the tip of the iceberg. Needless to say, that relationship did not last long.
 
ok,well i never actually myself said its ok for guys to bed women and not the other way around.
id prefer to not get into a women and men equality issue cause to me it almost sounded like it was goin that way.lol

look,i personally have friends that sleep around a whole lot and whereas i dont respect their choice of it,i respect their right to do that.

the whole issue is that alot of men have a problem being with someone that 20 or so guys have been up in.
its part of the past maybe or just societies conditioning that women should accept that men sleep around a fair amount.

there are women that would never be with a guy that is a dog and in light of that i think its just part of some human nature that some of us have problems sharing our partners,be it a happening of the past or present.just my thoughts
 
I knew a girl like the ones being described here, She was always with a new guy, she'd date him for a few weeks, screw his brains out then dump him. She was a really beautiful woman and guys just fell for her. She even came on to me several times but I wasn't having any of that. Problem is she really had it bad for me for the reason that I wouldn't go out with her. (And I'm not the best looking guy in the room for sure) She even tried to get me drunk on night and had me over her house; one of her 'boyfriends'
came over (I think he was jealous) and I was able to slip out.

But the thing I noticed about her was that she was in love with being in love. What I mean is she was addicted to the excitement that comes with a new relationship. But after the excitement wore off...she needed to move on to a new relationship to get the excitement back. And yes, there are plenty of guys out there with baggage. I had to listen to all her escapades at work every day and a lot of the guys she dated were such losers. The funny thing was, the better looking the guy, the more baggage/problems he had. The same seems to be true of woman that I've met. If she's built like a ���� star...watch out!
 
We all knew a girl like this or a guy that used to do that. So what? Why are we labeling people? All beautiful women are whores. All hot dudes are shallow players. If she is built like a ���� star it just means that she has a great body. That's it. It has nothing to do with her personality. I was a lingerie model for many years and worked with many very beautiful women. Many of whom I consider my closest friends. None of these women are shallow, slutty, insecure women with baggage/problems.
 
AC'sGirl said:
I was a lingerie model for many years and worked with many very beautiful women. Many of whom I consider my closest friends. None of these women are shallow, slutty, insecure women with baggage/problems.

This starting to sound like a late night CINEMAX adult movie...please go on:)
 
and one night while we were all drinking wine, Kelly suggests we all get into the hot tub. I can't I said...I don't have any panties on...... LMAO
 
AC'sGirl said:
and one night while we were all drinking wine, Kelly suggests we all get into the hot tub. I can't I said...I don't have any panties on...... LMAO

Yummy:D
 
wesb said:
Sex is arguably the greatest pleasure we can have in this life - it's foolish to think that once a woman discovers this pleasure she wouldn't want to engage in it at every opportunity ;)

wesb

There are better things than sex beleive it or not ;)
 
AC'sGirl said:
We all knew a girl like this or a guy that used to do that. So what? Why are we labeling people? All beautiful women are whores. All hot dudes are shallow players. If she is built like a ���� star it just means that she has a great body. That's it. It has nothing to do with her personality. I was a lingerie model for many years and worked with many very beautiful women. Many of whom I consider my closest friends. None of these women are shallow, slutty, insecure women with baggage/problems.
I agree with the sentiment. I've known coyote uglies that would take all comers (no pun intended), hotties that were very chaste, and vice versa. Some might take advantage of their looks when on the prowl, but I think alot of other factors, of the girl's own choosing, come before it.
 
AC'sGirl said:
and one night while we were all drinking wine, Kelly suggests we all get into the hot tub. I can't I said...I don't have any panties on...... LMAO

Dang it! I never got a call-back for the roll of horny pizza delivery guy >:(
 
wants9 said:
I agree with the sentiment. I've known coyote uglies that would take all comers (no pun intended), hotties that were very chaste, and vice versa. Some might take advantage of their looks when on the prowl, but I think alot of other factors, of the girl's own choosing, come before it.

yeah,agreed
:)
 
If you're insecure, it will bother you. If you are secure, it won't. Don't blame her because you're afraid you don't "measure up". That's what this whole thing boils down to. "Gee, if she's slept with 20 guys, some of them must have had big weiners, and then she'll know my shameful secret!" I've been there. Before Penis Enlargement, I was insecure myself and would get crazy if my wife ever talked about ex boyfriends. Now I am happy with myself and it doesn't bother me all that much. Bottom line: the only thing you should really worry about with a partner who's been around is STD's.
 
I disagree, kong. For me, it's about respect, both of herself and of me. If she lets herself get passed around like a roach at a Phish concert, how cheap must she consider both the act and romantic relationships in general?
 
AC'sGirl said:
It's so odd/sad seeing guys talk like this. A woman that loves sex can still be a loyal and trustworthy partner. A woman that has had a fun past doesn't make her trash. It could just mean that she is very horny.

Well, the chick that I was referring to didn't learn anything from her experiences with assholes. She is with a much bigger asshole now.

As for your above comment, I see your point, but sex has consequences and that is just the reality of it. Humans are jealous creatures and they will often be unable to keep from questioning how they measure up to other partners and if their partner is truly faithful to them.
 
AC'sGirl said:
The guys dogging on women that have slept around, but think it is OK for them to do it...that's what bugs me.

Believe me, I understand your frustration at the idea. It is hypocritical. However, I think it stems from the general tendency that men are out for sex and women are out for love. Therefore, it is out of place for a woman to seek a one-night stand or casual relationship.

I actually think the general stereotype here is true. Women are more geared towards relationships. Men are more geared towards a quick piece of ass. There are exceptions and people that think/live outside the norm. It doesn't mean they're bad people, but they do get hit with disapproval from society.
 
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