Ok, Women and Penis Size
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Do you guys actually expect them to remain virgins until the magical day that you decide to have sex with them? Women like sex as much as men do. They maybe do not know how to accurately judge size because, for the most part, they don't care as long as it is big enough to get them off. After 10 years of marriage, I am finally starting to get some maturity about this issue. Who cares if she had 20 lovers before you? She's with you, and if she decides to keep you around, you must be doing something right!
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I'm not saying that I expect a woman to remain a virgin till marriage, I'm not. I had my wild times, and I've changed my view point and grown as an adult. There are women who are saving themselves for one man, and some of them are absolutely beautiful women, but they are waiting for that one man to spend the rest of theirr lives with and to them I say congratulations, and to the men as well. It's hard because the body and mind enjoy pleasure to such an extent that sometimes it can lead to that being the one and only desire of the heart, and that can be applied to food, sex, alcohol, driving fast cars, buying stuff, etc. A woman should not face judgement from me or anyone else for her sexual past, or of her past in general, that's what happens when this life is over, and I'm not qualified to pass judgement on anyone. Holla
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Yeah, I do my best to not think on the subject, could cause problems.....I happen to be close to some of them, and it's hard to be "good". It does make it easier to see women as human beings, as opposed to simply wanting sex, and to get to know them for who they are. Some guys would call that wussy, but I enjoy being the good guy/hero. I know what I stand for, and these women respect that and I have their confidence and trust which means a lot to me. Holla
stillwantmore said:Who the hell wants to be with a MAN who has been with 20++ people??Double standards guys.
Amen SWM, this really is bullshit. It swings both ways, but I think that women are being put down here. In general, a "ladie's man" with a reputation for sleeping around is generally looked on as being desirable, while a woman who does is considered a slut. Really sad IMHO ... such as on the recent "Bachelor" show, the guy admitted to having one night stands....but most of the girls still wanted him. Yet, one of the girls spoke candidly about the number & type of lovers she'd had, and the other <i>girls</i> dogged her out about it, implying that she was a slut. I think the number was 30 or so. She was maybe 28, IIRC - if she became sexually active at 18, that would mean 3 different partners per year on average. I'm sorry, but I just don't consider that being a slut.
I tend to believe that this is a big reason most women lie about their experiences. Sex is arguably the greatest pleasure we can have in this life - it's foolish to think that once a woman discovers this pleasure she wouldn't want to engage in it at every opportunity
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regularwhiteguy said:
When it comes to woman and penis size 6 inches is 9 inches. When it comes to men these exaggerations are taken to heart. A perpetual web of lies and delusions. In the end men are convinced they are 3" longer than they really are and woman start seeing rulers as yard sticks.
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Good....we do have some modern thinking men here.
If a woman is single she should enjoy her single life doing what she desires. When she is in a committed relationship she should only be desiring her man. That goes for men as well. It's really that simple. :s
If a woman is single she should enjoy her single life doing what she desires. When she is in a committed relationship she should only be desiring her man. That goes for men as well. It's really that simple. :s
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millionman said:
being the good guy/hero is alright to a certain extent,as long as you dont think any of that transfers into you getting laid.
alot of times youll find out that youve been an emotional tampon and were never getting anywhere near her panties.
youre one of her girlfriends,if you want nothing with her than no problem.
otherwise just draggin your balls through a field of razor wire would be shorter and less painful :D
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AC'sGirl said:Good....we do have some modern thinking men here.
If a woman is single she should enjoy her single life doing what she desires. When she is in a committed relationship she should only be desiring her man. That goes for men as well. It's really that simple. :s
very true.although i would hope most women would value themselves more than to spread it around like some sort of airborne virus
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Poonologist....You're right, as you call it an emotional tampon. Sure if that's how you see it. When it comes down to it I have no interest in simply having sex with a girl just to have sex with someone. It's real easy for me to hook up with chicks, I've done that already, and it wasn't very fulfilling, cause what I'm after is much more than that. And truly is there anything wrong with being a girl's friend. I don't have a problem with it, and some of these girls would like to either jump in bed with me or go out....and I'm just not in a position right now where I can have a girlfriend or would want anything physical. Sex means something to me, and it has a lot of value in a relationship, there are too many people screwing each other up by saying ohh it's just a friend thing, happened to two of my closest friends, one wanted more and one wanted it the way it was, ended that friendship to say the least. It complicates things, and I don't need my life being anymore complicated than it is. And as I will continue to say, what's wrong with being patient and waiting on the Lord who has your best interests at heart. Holla
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Yeah...I agree with the above but I would just exchange the word "women" for "men" AGAIN...IT GOES BOTH WAYS!!!!poonologist said:very true.although i would hope most women would value themselves more than to spread it around like some sort of airborne virus
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Hehe i always try to make me seem smaller then i am. ==)doublelongdaddy said:
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Can, yes, but I think the odds go down significantly. It goes beyond sex, too. How someone behaves in that area resonates in actions in other parts of life.AC'sGirl said:
I take a different view. If I decide to keep a woman around, one of the prices for admision is not having slept around in the past. That shows to me that she's doing something right.kong1971 said:
Hey, everyone's a virgin at one time. I'd rather she learn with me than with a bunch of previous "tutors".AC'sGirl said:I bet they would be a blast in bed :s
Actions have consequences, even if they're far in the future. A woman can use her body as she see's fit, but she has no authority how others view her, including men she might want a long-term relationship with, because of those uses.AC'sGirl said:
