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Masturbating causes setback in life.  
Posted Apr 2, 2023 at 4:16 PM
For me it comes in waves. At points my libido is high and most other times low.
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 8:48 AM
You ask....so lets go.... 👉 I agree with this. I feel more clear in my head, and my thought patterns are more positive when I do not masturbate all the time. I also believe if you masturbate to much, you drain yourself of your sexual energy (ejaclations drains you), and if you add �naked people movies� watching to this, this is even worse. You can get depressed, when you drain you brain on Dopamine all the time.

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that's supposed to work for us so we accomplish goals in real life. But If we already for example, have all those beutiful woman on the the screen (Watching: �naked people movies�; Your brain can't separate girls/woman on a screen and in real life). Only masturbation, also taps into this reward system in the brain, and drains you if you overuse it.

Then: Why would the brain make you do anything I real life. It's the same with overusage of smartphone and social media. Your brain gets depleted. Have you seen people that can't take their eyes of the screen and they are stuck in the "doomscrolling". Negativity stimulates the brain really good, that's why people gets stuck in the negativity on social media and so on...

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After you have "doomscrolled" you are depleted. You feel empty in your brain and you get so tired. I believe it's the same with to much masturbation and to much �naked people movies� watching.

You can recover from this, but if you do this all the time, I think you can get into a state where you do not want to do anything, or accomplish anything in real life.

I did an experiment of NoFap for 3 weeks. At the end of the last week I could not focus on anything, my energy was not focused, it was defused and I was really stressed out/anxiety. I also experienced my perception of women changed for the better, when I did not use �naked people movies� as a masturbation aid. But there was a time before this happened, where I was extremely present to the moment and super focused. So a balanced way of approaching masturbation is probably for the best.

I have also realized that when I do not masturbate my primal instincts come back as well. It can be bad in some situations. One time I just stared at a womans breasts for no reson at all, I could not stop it. So some masturbation in today's society is good, to not appear like a creep, if you have a tendency to become extremely horny.

For me, masturbating daily is draining one's life force but masturbating once or twice a week is fine. If I don't masturbate at all, I will likely do something stupid like carrying an escort. So masturbation when done properly helps to keep the balance. If men weren't able to masturbate, women will walk over us and ruin us completely.
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 9:34 AM
If men weren't able to masturbate, women will walk over us and ruin us completely.
Probably true. There are men that chase women their entire life, they forget themselves in the process. I think this is a true statement for these men. It's sad to see...
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 9:43 AM
For me, masturbating daily is draining one's life force but masturbating once or twice a week is fine. If I don't masturbate at all, I will likely do something stupid like carrying an escort. So masturbation when done properly helps to keep the balance. If men weren't able to masturbate, women will walk over us and ruin us completely.
Balance is important.
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 10:09 AM
Probably true. There are men that chase women their entire life, they forget themselves in the process. I think this is a true statement for these men. It's sad to see...

A lot of men spend their time chasing women. It is very common with men who don't masturbate.
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 10:12 AM
A lot of men spend their time chasing women. It is very common with men who don't masturbate.
Haven't thought about it from that perspective before. Sounds like it would be correct.
3 weeks with no masturbation, and I thought I would almost explode, just by seeing a beautiful woman.
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 10:17 AM
Haven't thought about it from that perspective before. Sounds like it would be correct.
3 weeks with no masturbation, and I thought I would almost explode, just by seeing a beautiful woman.

If I abstain for that long, I will start calling my toxic exes on the phone. Once or twice a week is what I will be doing.
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 10:20 AM
If I abstain for that long, I will start calling my toxic exes on the phone. Once or twice a week is what I will be doing.
It was a good experience for me. I know where my limit is at.
 

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Posted Apr 3, 2023 at 4:27 PM
It us certainly a challenge. I have no woman so I expect this to be a struggle
 
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