I'm Lost! Need help from DLD, REDZULU and all the masters!

Okay, i'm goin to give a brief summary of my story.

My story started when I was 16 years old and my buddies and I decided to go to a whorehouse to have sex for the first time. The girls and us were all in the same room, each on of us had a whore and everyone started to fuck. Except for me. She sucked my cock and everything, but i was so nervous by the fact that everyone was in the same room, that my cock didn't even become hard. I felt the adrenaline flow through my body and I couldn't get hard.

My buddies laughed at me, and for a period of months made jokes about it. One year later, I started dating a very hot girl. I was scared to have my first time with her, so this time, I paid a very expensive, hot, VIP slut to have sex with me. It all went very well, and this time I got an erection (but I ejaculated very fast, I guess it is normal on the first time).

Now, I was ready to have sex with my girl, but I was still nervous. So i bought a viagra, and used it on the night that we were going to fuck. It all went perfectly, and we were in love. The problem was, that everytime that I knew that we were going to fuck, I was paranoid thinking that my cock wouldn't work, and used viagra.

The few times that I gathered courage and tried to have sex with her without it the viagra, my cock didn't get hard. So, for the next year, I only had sex under the effect of the medicine. Another problem was that, everytime we fucked, I couldn't give her an orgasm because I would cum too fast (about 5-10 min). And this went on for a whole year.

Now I'm 18 years old, and cannot have sex without viagra. So i dont even bother trying it, I just use it. I am sure this is a psychological problem and not a physical one. I know that the crap is inside my head, but I don't know how to get rid of it. That is why i'm coming to you guys for help.


Now, here goes my measurements:
NBPenis EnlargementL: 14 cm / 5.5 in
BASE GIRTH: 12cm / 4.75 in
MID GIRTH: 11.5 / 4.5 in

As you can see, my cock is pretty small, and i'm very frustrated and lost.
I'm 18 years old, cannot have sex witout viagra, and still, even using viagra I ejaculate very quickly.
I feel like i'm alone in the world.

I am doing the newbie routine for a week now, by the way. Please DLD, REDZULU, KINGSNAKE, and all the masters, help me.

Sad regards,

Dorsay.

if it's a problem in your head there is nothing anyone can do to help you except yourself.

yes, but HOW?

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Might be physical aswel after that viagra abuse and the whorehouse thing with 16? lol? Can't believe that. They would be so fucking fucked if that comes out.

Probably you turned the psychological problem in a physical one too.

Consult an andrologist first...

I assure you that it isnt anything physical. I have morning hardons, and it works perfectly when i masturbate.

Dorsay;375378 said:

yes, but HOW?

=C

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How? start thinking! For the love of god what's wrong with people? Maybe it's just me having a bad day, but seriously get a grip man! You need more confidence that's all... and get rid of that viagra crap and never ever meet whores again is my suggestion. There are so many diseases out there. It made me happy to read that you met a girl, but you my friend need to talk to her and tell her about the problem so you can get rid of the viagra and so she can help you get a boner. And once again I say it..you need more confidence..you can gain it in so many ways, just open your eyes.

Sounds like a mental addiction and the only way you will be able to beat it is by stopping the Viagra and giving yourself a chance to perform naturally. Talk with your girl, let her help you and you will beat it.

Sorry to hear about this situation but its very common and nothing to be ashamed about. Read my Penis Enlargement Sanctuary thread HERE You may wish to print it out and memorize it. Learn it by heart but lets alter it slightly. Instead of visualising the penis stuff in that thread, you are going to visualise yourself throwing those viagra pills down the toilet. The toilet will be in that inner sanctuary that you will create and you will get the viagra pills from out your pocket (In your meditation state) and than go to the toilet and throw them right down and flush the fuckers away.

Now you will tell yourself that you dont need those, they are just a prop for when times were hard but now times are great and your penis is a rod of fucking steel and has lightning bolts comming out of it .. FEEL THE POWER. Than in your sanctuary see your penis getting more and more erect, getting larger and you having no problems. See you and the girl getting down and dirty with you being fully erect and lasting for 30 minutes .. lets make small changes first. Keep 30 minutes in your head and tell yourself over and over you do, you can and you will last in bed for 30 minutes without ejaculating and that your penis is a rod of steel and you do not need viagra. Repeat that everyday when you wake-up slowly in your head, with a clear mind 7 times.

This isnt going to happen over night, but TRUST me if you make the effort and it has to be YOU ... build the sanctuary and perform what's needed to reprogramme the mind ,than you will AMAZE yourself and nextime we can go for 45 minutes. This is what I used to do and now I can last my maximum 4 1/2 hours without cumming once.

If you need help ask

but guys, I broke up with her a long time ago. And if I get a new girl, i'll not have the intimacy level to tell her my problem, it will creep her out!

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Thank you very much REDZULU, I'll read your post right now, and put it into practice!

just one question:

tell yourself over and over you do, you can and you will last in bed for 30 minutes without ejaculating and that your penis is a rod of steel and you do not need viagra.

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I heard somewhere that affirmations have to be positive. So don't you think that, by saying,"I don't need viagra" will create a negative outcome? Instead, shouldn't I say another thing that doesn't directly involves the word "viagra"?
Peace

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Dorsay;375402 said:

Thank you very much REDZULU, I'll read your post right now, and put it into practice!

just one question:



I heard somewhere that affirmations have to be positive. So don't you think that, by saying,"I don't need viagra" will create a negative outcome? Instead, shouldn't I say another thing that doesn't directly involves the word "viagra"?
Peace

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The word viagra is used as thats the seed to this negativity you have and the words before that emphasize a positive outcome ''I'' which focuses on YOU ... ''Don't'' which is saying it isn't needed, the Viagra wont be needed but you could replace Don't with Do Not which is more powerful ... ''Need'' as in you have it in your possessions or for it to be so.

Red, I just read your thread about the sanctuary thing, and I found it amazing. I will definatelly try it tonight, and post the results tomorrow!

See you and the girl getting down and dirty with you being fully erect and lasting for 30 minutes .. lets make small changes first. Keep 30 minutes in your head

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So, you are suggesting that, after i've created my sanctuary, I imagine myself, there, in one of the rooms, fucking a girl and lasting for 30 minutes, right? Should I really picture the whole sex? like, for 30 minutes in real life, i'll be having sex in my mind? that is what i understood. tell me if I'm correct.

doublelongdaddy;375385 said:

Sounds like a mental addiction and the only way you will be able to beat it is by stopping the Viagra and giving yourself a chance to perform naturally. Talk with your girl, let her help you and you will beat it.

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Heh, he said beat it.

Some sound advice, I might add. It sounds like you are psyching yourself out and just getting too nervous. I hope all goes well.

Atlween;375406 said:

Heh, he said beat it.

Some sound advice, I might add. It sounds like you are psyching yourself out and just getting too nervous. I hope all goes well.

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The mind is really that powerful. Whether you believe you are able to manifest or not, you can and you do it all the time. Changing sticking thinking is the first part of getting the things you truly desire.

dorsay, be patient man. you came to the right place, and you and all of us are so lucky to have this forum and so many great guys willing to help each other.

what i mean by be patient is, you said you are going to do some Penis Enlargement for a week right? why not make it a month, and really stick to your routine. every day, total devotion. i guarantee at the end of the month you will see some very exciting and promising changes to your penis.

funny to say, it just might change your life, the new confidence you will have will spill over into every area of your life, and this, in a roundabout way, will instill the sexual confidence you seek, which will definitely increase your stamina. cheers!

Dorsay;375405 said:

Red, I just read your thread about the sanctuary thing, and I found it amazing. I will definatelly try it tonight, and post the results tomorrow!



So, you are suggesting that, after i've created my sanctuary, I imagine myself, there, in one of the rooms, fucking a girl and lasting for 30 minutes, right? Should I really picture the whole sex? like, for 30 minutes in real life, i'll be having sex in my mind? that is what i understood. tell me if I'm correct.

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You can go for the whole 30 mins or just concentrate on the parts that you need more work on, the lasting longer.

It is awesome that you are open to this being a psychological issue and this awareness will allow these spiritual practices to help you.

Thank you very much all the advices guys! you guys are being great!

Red, yesterday i fell asleep while I was creating my sanctuary, so today in school, I started to create it in my mind and draw it on paper. So when I imagine at night, everything will already be in place. Is that ok?

Also, DLD, I heard you mention in one of your videos that you already suffered from ED and ejaculation problems, is that right? what have you done to get over it?

Another thing... i feel that my girth is too small. Is there any extra workout besides jelqing that I can do to increase girth?

Thanks again!

Anyone?