Stripeee;740212 said:Exactly I don't want to dive in to anything, just want to start talking again really just to build a bridge so to speak. I kinda get the impression that she doesn't seem that interested tho...
Lookn4girth;740301 said:I have always tried to go with what my gut tells me. If yours is telling you that it may not be good for the long term. I also know that the friend zone is not a bad place to be either, never know what might happen down the road. Best thing to do is keep your head up and looking forward because you would not want to miss it if the girl of your dreams came by and was interested
Stripeee;740674 said:Definitely an outlook I hadn't thought of tbh
Lookn4girth;740301 said:I have always tried to go with what my gut tells me. If yours is telling you that it may not be good for the long term. I also know that the friend zone is not a bad place to be either, never know what might happen down the road.
Big Schwanz Acht;740768 said:You're essentially her Eunuch
doublelongdaddy;740894 said:laughed my ass off out loud so everyone heard!
rocky1243;741043 said:However being a fuckboy... thats the sweet spot..
Big Schwanz Acht;741044 said:you found the 'Golden Ticket'
rocky1243;741048 said:The fucked up thing is that they break up and get back together with the same dude... and those guys dont even know i exist.
Big Schwanz Acht;740768 said:Time for some tough-love...the 'friend-zone' is the absolute worst-place for any man. You're essentially her Eunuch to talk to and go on 'safe' dates with. Your attractiveness to her will wane and that 'one-day' will never come. Ask yourself what benefit you receive by being her friend. Companionship? Get a dog, they're far more loyal and loving. The only reason you're giving her all your power is the mis-guided thinking that she'll 'come-around' cuz you're 'there for her'...this is not going to happen. Sack-up and don't return her calls/texts for a few days...go be busy doing stuff that YOU like to do. Once you're able to be your own man and not her puppy, she will possibly see you as 'mate-material'
Sorry bro, you know I only want what's best for you
rocky1243;741043 said:Being a "friend" sucks unless she really is a friend and throws all her friends on you. Thats rare, but it is possible and some girls do look out for her guy friends. But she really has to be a friend it can't be a "lets just be friends" type situation.
However being a fuckboy... thats the sweet spot. I am fuckboy for like two/three different girls, everytime they break up with their boyfriends they fuck me, they get back together I leave. I can deal with that.
rocky1243;741043 said:Being a "friend" sucks unless she really is a friend and throws all her friends on you. Thats rare, but it is possible and some girls do look out for her guy friends. But she really has to be a friend it can't be a "lets just be friends" type situation.
However being a fuckboy... thats the sweet spot. I am fuckboy for like two/three different girls, everytime they break up with their boyfriends they fuck me, they get back together I leave. I can deal with that.
Stripeee;741319 said:Messaged her today to see how things are going....she didn’t reply.
Stripeee;741319 said:Messaged her today to see how things are going....she didn’t reply.