Girlfriend "Why do you want a bigger penis?"

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Today my girlfriend asked me that ?:(

Confusing to me....Im not huge and I Penis Enlargement to keep my penis healthy as well as gains. I think that question is like asking the someone at the gym "why do you want to get into better shape?" or asking someone who bust their ass at there job "Why do you want a raise?"

I told her I Penis Enlargement for me but I think she looks at it as somewhat negative ?:(

Not just me wanting a bigger one for the bedroom but call me shallow but I think my penis looks small for my body. I think if you can physically change something, you should. And when the outcome is positive, I dont get why you wouldnt.

We are a VERY open couple....we had clamped sex yesterday for pete sakes LOL, But im not sure whats her beef is with Penis Enlargement?
 
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It goes without saying that I am doing Penis Enlargement to get a larger penis, but there are other reasons. I understand that it can give me more confidence in any situation, which I really need more of! Another thing is it allows me to appreciate myself by becoming much more involved with my body. I'm already quite involved in other kinds of exercises, and doing any of these kinds of things helps reinforce that there is never a reason to be ashamed of who I am, at least to me it does. It's not like I have body dismorphia or anything, but the I like to push my body to the limit for a kind of glory of my own accomplishment.
In addition, I want to shock my partners, and hopefully please them. Still, like I recently said, I'm doing this for myself. If people aren't okay with what I end up with that's their issue. Some say selfishness is bad, but this kind of selfishness isn't harmful, it's empowering.

By the way, if your gf does think you are shallow, I'd ask her what a shallow person actually is. To me a shallow person only invests in endeavors that are ultimately pointless, and pretty much nothing else. I think it's pretty clear you can have good reasons for doing Penis Enlargement. Noticing that MLK jr quote in your signature, I imagine you care about a lot more important things, so you shouldn't be shallow for any other reason.
 
My wife said the same thing.

I said it was for my ego and confidence.

I can't change my height, but I can make my dick bigger.

Now with a .5 EL gain and a girth at 6.25 she said keep doing it. :)

Wait till she feels the results.
 
Hydromaxmm.

Well I don't think I can give a direct answer either.

It initially came from my penis being too thin. 4.5" girth is bordering on thinner than average and I wanted to be able to impress and pleasure a girl.
I probs would have accepted it but when I found that I could make my dick bigger I jumped at the opportunity. Now my dick is 5" girth.
lol, maybe I should actually have sex before I get any bigger.
A bigger penis makes me look better. And it gives me more confidence. Bulging is a sport. Making sure my bulge looks right is as important as styling my hair.

So yeah. It mainly started out as a means of looking better in front of a girl. Now its about ego and confidence, to take the words from powersnake12.
 
neckercube;477741 said:
It goes without saying that I am doing Penis Enlargement to get a larger penis, but there are other reasons. I understand that it can give me more confidence in any situation, which I really need more of! Another thing is it allows me to appreciate myself by becoming much more involved with my body. I'm already quite involved in other kinds of exercises, and doing any of these kinds of things helps reinforce that there is never a reason to be ashamed of who I am, at least to me it does. It's not like I have body dismorphia or anything, but the I like to push my body to the limit for a kind of glory of my own accomplishment.
In addition, I want to shock my partners, and hopefully please them. Still, like I recently said, I'm doing this for myself. If people aren't okay with what I end up with that's their issue. Some say selfishness is bad, but this kind of selfishness isn't harmful, it's empowering.

By the way, if your gf does think you are shallow, I'd ask her what a shallow person actually is. To me a shallow person only invests in endeavors that are ultimately pointless, and pretty much nothing else. I think it's pretty clear you can have good reasons for doing Penis Enlargement. Noticing that MLK jr quote in your signature, I imagine you care about a lot more important things, so you shouldn't be shallow for any other reason.
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This post took the words right outta my mouth. I agree with everything you said.
 
Hammer,

I too find it odd that your girlfriend would question or have trouble with you performing Penis Enlargement exercises. I don't know what the downside would be for either of you. I would guess, and I admit that it is highly speculative, that perhaps there might be a psychological explanation.

I would think that you doing something that makes your feel better and potentially make her and you enjoy sex more would be a win-win proposition. Could it be that she might be slightly afraid that you will take your "improved" penis elsewhere??? Even if subconsciously? I would try to reassure her, directly or indirectly, that you participating in Penis Enlargement is for both you and her and nobody else. Just my two cents...

Tom
 
I brought it back up to her, She knows I clamp, as I already mentioned having clamped sex :)

She said she doesnt want me breaking anything which is understandable. She also thought I was "obsessed" because I knew so much about Penis Enlargement. She is very open minded but maybe its still taboo to here. She just said not to over-do it and break my magic stick LOL
 
That sounds cool. Yeah, just reassure her that what you are doing is safe and healthy, as even she said, you "knew so much about Penis Enlargement". :D Maybe let her peruse some of the threads around her to get here more comfortable about the idea. It is not like there are too many horror stories around here about people "breaking their magic stick". LOL She'll come around sooner or later. She loves you, and Penis Enlargement is part of who you are. :D
 
I'll let you guys know what my girlfriend thinks of it when I get back from visiting her this upcoming weekend. She hasn't seen me since my starting length/girth. She knows what I'm doing, and thinks its a little unusual that I do it, but she supports me. However, she did say "Well, don't get too thick or you won't be able to fit in my mouth." LOL. Which doesn't look like it will be a problem for me right now haha.
 
:) Can't make any guarantees. I've been deprived for months! It's time to unleash the beast! Haha
 
It's a reasonable question. I've never shared my Penis Enlargement with girlfriends. I figure it's my secret and she just gets to see the result. Or is that feel the result.
 
AdmiralLongDong;478422 said:
It's a reasonable question. I've never shared my Penis Enlargement with girlfriends. I figure it's my secret and she just gets to see the result. Or is that feel the result.
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Keeping the secret may have kept my relationship:) SOmething to think about from a guy who has lived this shit for 10 years:)
 
was drinking the other night and sent a photo with tape measure showing my GF am 7.5bpel now but now thinking maybe i should have waited till i get to over 8 lol havnt told her about my Penis Enlargement but have made some decent gains in the past month or so.
 
When I told Jen about my Penis Enlargement she was so awesome about it. She wanted to watch and be involved as much as she could. She was really motivational and appreciative. As time progressed her attitude changed and she started to become negative about it. In the end it was a big reason she left...women can be pretty crazy in the head.
 
Sup Bros! Just thought of this, what if the reason women may like it at first because she sees that your getting bigger but when time goes on and you get bigger and bigger... In her mind if you keep going it may lead to you either leaving her for someone else or fucking random bitches. Something like that.
 
ryan62468;483797 said:
Sup Bros! Just thought of this, what if the reason women may like it at first because she sees that your getting bigger but when time goes on and you get bigger and bigger... In her mind if you keep going it may lead to you either leaving her for someone else or fucking random bitches. Something like that.
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Classic Penis Enlargement

Penis Envy:)
 
Dld its been a minute since i heard you talk about Jen, i remember in the beginning how into the pe she was, even had her own pics section in the pay site, & i remember when those were taken down, do you guys still speak?
 
Probably best not to talk about it. Women do this no matter what you want to do btw.

"I want to lift weights and gain muscles" - why do you want to do that?

"I want to make my penis bigger" - why do you want to do that

"I'm thinking about starting a business" - why do you want to do that

Guys do this too. You don't know how many guys have asked me as a formerly bone skinny guy why do you want to get bigger/stronger when the advantages are so fucking obvious.
 
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