I have been wondering about incorporating a cock ring into my life as well. I like the metal ones, especially the alchemy ones (for looks) but I'm kind of afraid of not being able to get it off (like if an erection won't go away). If I did go with the alchemy, there are several different ones on the nysexshop website...is the best one the wide one? I think the 1.5" diameter is like .5" wide. And what is your guys opinion on silicon and neoprene cock rings? Are they somewhat durable? What about ones with metal beads...any good? Are the ones with bumps comfortable or do they just get in the way? Thanks in advance!