What is the size women consider the dick BIG?

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Sitting in here in front of PC and wondering, what is the size women actually see the dick BIG? We all know their perception of seeing the size of a dick which is 8x6 like when we see the dick 9x6.5. So anybody ever "digged" more to find out the true answer?
P.S I'm sorry if anybody talked on this topic before, if such thread exists I'm apologizing for opening new one.
Stay cheeki breeki
 
Depending on the body fat...i would say 7x5.5 is considered big.As far as you're a lean guy,no ( or close to no ) belly fat , you will impress a woman with a 7x5.5 dick.Anything above that,she will see you as a monster.
 
2slow;721900 said:
And you speak for all woman? Are you gay and just have experience with the cock? A guy cant answer this question uless hes gay and takes the cock so i dont understand why all the time a guy on here ask the same question over and over again to guys that stretch there cocks. Lol..what do you think there gonna say? Hey woman love a 9" dick. Of course they wont. Lol..if you wanna know GO ASK A WOMAN THATS THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT THE TRUE ANSWER NOT A BUNCH OF GUYS ON A DICK BOARD..
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The reason he's asked this question is because he wants an answer...no need to berate him. There are many men here, (myself included) that are curious as to what women consider S/M/L/XL. I have enough experience with the women I've had sex with to get a general idea, but the more anecdotal information shared the better the results.

This is only my experience...before PE I was a tad shy of 6.50" BPEL and 5.375" MSEG and every partner I had was satisfied, but not overwhelmed. Most said it was 'big' but never 'huge'. In the last year I've been hovering around 7.75"-7.875" and 6.75"-6.875" and every girl has been like 'omg, that's huge'. My current GF has no idea about my PE activities, but I think she has an idea that something might be going-on 'down there' cuz she's made a few comments when we're together...I usually just tell her that 'it's been missing you' or 'it's excited to be inside you' or something along those lines.

So in conclusion, I'd say if you're 6.50" with decent girth, you'll definitely be considered big, anything over 7.50" and you're in the huge category...beyond that, you'll start getting into 'legendary' status. If you're a younger guy, (in your 20's) it seems that the 'size' topic is not as taboo as it once was, so women speak almost openly about it w/their GF's...as noted above, if you have any female friends, buy them a few drinks and see if you can get any candid answers.

As an aside, the more people that chime-in to this topic that have 'real world' experience will allow us a greater cross-section from which to determine these long, sought-out answers
 
Yes, asking a woman is the "answer", but even that will vary in correlation! Individuality comes in to play, hard I might say. Some are better at guessing a size from a picture or from a live situation, but miscalculations are common.

I'd say be careful what you ask, regarding size ... While some opinions can calm you, I think there are several times a woman will shit test you and comment on a decent size cock being small or something. That is if you'll ask a female.
BSA said it quite well, very thoughtful post, regarding the common consensus about big size.
An old thread is here; http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/the-female-influence/60828-what-is-the-most-likely-size-women-class-huge-as.html
Have a look and see if you find something interesting.

Overall, do PE for yourself. When the pants drop, it's always different ... And remember, good self-confidence plays a big part! You can have a big or huge penis, but if your confidence isn't on par, it'll show.
 
2slow;721900 said:
And you speak for all woman? Are you gay and just have experience with the cock? A guy cant answer this question uless hes gay and takes the cock so i dont understand why all the time a guy on here ask the same question over and over again to guys that stretch there cocks. Lol..what do you think there gonna say? Hey woman love a 9" dick. Of course they wont. Lol..if you wanna know GO ASK A WOMAN THATS THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT THE TRUE ANSWER NOT A BUNCH OF GUYS ON A DICK BOARD..
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Well, we all have a penis, far as we know. However, not all members are as "straight" as you Mr Slow. Take it easy.

I've heard I was huge or big since I was 5"x5" then again, some of those same women said I was small or the worst sex they ever had when I was no longer Mr of The Moment.
 
Many of us have these specific interactions with women that they can impart to this thread. There must be a reason this topic comes-up so often...
 
an inch above what is considered average (in either length or girth) in your country would make you an extreme outlier. i feel like i ahve to answer this scientifically since somebody is getting butt blasted for no reason
 
stillwantmore2;721915 said:
Well, we all have a penis, far as we know. However, not all members are as "straight" as you Mr Slow. Take it easy.

I've heard I was huge or big since I was 5"x5" then again, some of those same women said I was small or the worst sex they ever had when I was no longer Mr of The Moment.
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yep when the crowd changes its ''mind'' for a reason Mr of the moment is not the cool guy anymore LOL hahadamn people
 
acromegaly;721924 said:
an inch above what is considered average (in either length or girth) in your country would make you an extreme outlier. i feel like i ahve to answer this scientifically since somebody is getting butt blasted for no reason
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mmm im starting to think that comparing is a waste of time
 
ChilDsh;721898 said:
Depending on the body fat...i would say 7x5.5 is considered big.As far as you're a lean guy,no ( or close to no ) belly fat , you will impress a woman with a 7x5.5 dick.Anything above that,she will see you as a monster.
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I'm trying to gain girth! I'm already 7.5-7.75" BPEL need 0.5" more on girth, hope this [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine workss :)
 
This is a question that most guys want an answer to so they can compare how they measure up. If the true answer could ever be given most of us on here would set it as a goal size so we know for sure we fit onto that big or huge category and if anyone was bigger then it would be a nice ego boost.
When it comes to what is considered big or huge from a woman's perspective it all depends on what her sexual history is. Let's say for arguments sake that you meet a nice woman around your age and she's a virgin ( I know I know but it's for arguments sake 😂) and you have an average cock of 5.5x5 , that is the size she will base size on and she will be happy with your size because she doesn't have a comparison. Now let's say you are her second lover but her first was well above average at 6.5x5.5 ! Then she may consider you as small but she could still enjoy sex with you. If you enjoy sleeping with your woman and she enjoys sleeping with you then you are big enough for her.
Sometimes our own fragile minds and ego want us to be the biggest and best the woman we are sleeping with has ever had and thinking like that can sometimes be our downfall.
 
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kyomoto;721938 said:
I'm trying to gain girth! I'm already 7.5-7.75" BPEL need 0.5" more on girth, hope this [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine workss :)
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When you are ready to gain girth, stop length work and concentrate mainly on girth.
 
beardedbaldy;721940 said:
This is a question that most guys want an answer to so they can compare how they measure up. If the true answer could ever be given most of us on here would set it as a goal size so we know for sure we fit onto that big or huge category and if anyone was bigger then it would be a nice ego boost.
When it comes to what is considered big or huge from a woman's perspective it all depends on what her sexual history is. Let's say for arguments sake that you meet a nice woman around your age and she's a virgin ( I know I know but it's for arguments sake 😂) and you have an average cock of 5.5x5 , that is the size she will base size on and she will be happy with your size because she doesn't have a comparison. Now let's say you are her second lover but her first was well above average at 6.5x5.5 ! Then she may consider you as small but she could still enjoy sex with you. If you enjoy sleeping with your woman and she enjoys sleeping with you then you are big enough for her.
Sometimes our own fragile minds and ego want us to be the biggest and best the woman we are sleeping with has ever had and thinking like that can sometimes be our downfall.
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With this answer you provided, it is fair to say the question on the size women consider as huge has been answered.

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ChilDsh;721898 said:
Depending on the body fat...i would say 7x5.5 is considered big.As far as you're a lean guy,no ( or close to no ) belly fat , you will impress a woman with a 7x5.5 dick.Anything above that,she will see you as a monster.
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Welcome back bro, longest time.
 
IAmSpartacus71;721907 said:
DLD said once (and I agree with him) that for a woman 6.5"x5" is big. It is actually bigger than what most men have so it is big.
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Yup, everything above that is cream!
 
2slow;721900 said:
And you speak for all woman? Are you gay and just have experience with the cock? A guy cant answer this question uless hes gay and takes the cock so i dont understand why all the time a guy on here ask the same question over and over again to guys that stretch there cocks. Lol..what do you think there gonna say? Hey woman love a 9" dick. Of course they wont. Lol..if you wanna know GO ASK A WOMAN THATS THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT THE TRUE ANSWER NOT A BUNCH OF GUYS ON A DICK BOARD..
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Okay, you have not enough REPUTATION power to post such posts, alright? Go some place else and unleash your anger, you have 208 posts written, joined July 2016 and you think you can write posts like this, okay you are tough on keyboard fuckin asshole!!!
 
arkailija;721908 said:
Yes, asking a woman is the "answer", but even that will vary in correlation! Individuality comes in to play, hard I might say. Some are better at guessing a size from a picture or from a live situation, but miscalculations are common.

I'd say be careful what you ask, regarding size ... While some opinions can calm you, I think there are several times a woman will shit test you and comment on a decent size cock being small or something. That is if you'll ask a female.
BSA said it quite well, very thoughtful post, regarding the common consensus about big size.
An old thread is here; http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/the-female-influence/60828-what-is-the-most-likely-size-women-class-huge-as.html
Have a look and see if you find something interesting.

Overall, do PE for yourself. When the pants drop, it's always different ... And remember, good self-confidence plays a big part! You can have a big or huge penis, but if your confidence isn't on par, it'll show.
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Yeah, agreed totally...about woman lie to ya you have small and actually you have decent, arka you opened my eyes now, thanks bruh
 
the process of getting bigger and the people testing our organs..lol they are the ones that can ""let us know whts up"" LOL

Being obsessed whit penis size can be a nightmare better grab it engorge it stretch it,and find the guinea pigs to test it.. LOL


Not big,too big average etc etc is irrelevant, whatever they say ,if you feel that you have reached your desird size their words gotta be meaningless to u:cool:


But above all we should have fun in the process
 
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Women will say 8 inches or more, and don't really consider the number for girth like we do. Some might say 7. Most likely though the big ones they had were probably not really 8 inches or more.
 
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LONGERDICK7+;722026 said:
the process of getting bigger and the people testing our organs..lol they are the ones that can ""let us know whts up"" LOL

Being obsessed whit penis size can be a nightmare better grab it engorge it stretch it,and find the guinea pigs to test it.. LOL


Not big,too big average etc etc is irrelevant, whatever they say ,if you feel that you have reached your desird size their words gotta be meaningless to u:cool:


But above all we should have fun in the process
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Women seems to be confused whenever they are thrown this question. In my opinion, I'm already huge with my over 7 length and 5.5 girth. A male friend of mine saw my penis yesterday and screamed girth wise. I've been with a girl and the moment I took off my boxers she screamed saying its thick, last year. But she trash talked me later in presence of my male friend and two other girls. She said I can fuck but my penis is average. Trust me, they are confused people.
 
ChilDsh;721898 said:
Depending on the body fat...i would say 7x5.5 is considered big.As far as you're a lean guy,no ( or close to no ) belly fat , you will impress a woman with a 7x5.5 dick.Anything above that,she will see you as a monster.
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I pretty much agree with this...in talking with a few members of the fairer sex, they all seem to put around 7" in the big-to-huge category (or at least the border between big to huge). 5.5" MEG would also be at the top-end of what 'large' condoms in North America are designed for, so likely anything thicker than that could be problematic for some, so it should be seen as big (likely 5.75" or larger would be seen as huge girth).

Also based on that one study with 3D printed dildos, it seemed most put one around 6.4"x5" as 'good for a one night stand, but not all the time', which to most of us here, would see as average or even sort of small.
 
at 6.5 x 4.75 I never received anything but a compliment on how big I was. Today, well today is a different story. The ideal size for most women surveyed in a popular sutrvey of very sexually active women done by Lightning showed that women prefer a penis that is in the area of 7 x 5 respectively.
 
doublelongdaddy;722064 said:
at 6.5 x 4.75 I never received anything but a compliment on how big I was. Today, well today is a different story. The ideal size for most women surveyed in a popular sutrvey of very sexually active women done by Lightning showed that women prefer a penis that is in the area of 7 x 5 respectively.
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Seems it may be time to resurrect this 'study'...who's in? I'll start gathering empirical data (from women) and report back :)
 
Juggers;722042 said:
Women will say 8 inches or, and don't really consider the number for girth like we do. Some might say 7. Most likely though the big ones they had were probably not really 8 inches or more.
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women dont consider girth? lol ok whatever you say
 
acromegaly;722078 said:
women dont consider girth? lol ok whatever you say
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I don't want to speak for Juggers, but what I ascertained from that comment was that women can't conceptualize the dimensions of girth...anything they can't get their thumb and middle finger around would be something their brain wouldn't be able to compute
 
doublelongdaddy;722064 said:
at 6.5 x 4.75 I never received anything but a compliment on how big I was. Today, well today is a different story. The ideal size for most women surveyed in a popular sutrvey of very sexually active women done by Lightning showed that women prefer a penis that is in the area of 7 x 5 respectively.
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6.5x4.75 is still ok..
 
Phoenix7672;722056 said:
I pretty much agree with this...in talking with a few members of the fairer sex, they all seem to put around 7" in the big-to-huge category (or at least the border between big to huge). 5.5" MEG would also be at the top-end of what 'large' condoms in North America are designed for, so likely anything thicker than that could be problematic for some, so it should be seen as big (likely 5.75" or larger would be seen as huge girth).

Also based on that one study with 3D printed dildos, it seemed most put one around 6.4"x5" as 'good for a one night stand, but not all the time', which to most of us here, would see as average or even sort of small.
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For me, I think 6.4x5 is small. Anything from 7 in length is huge. You can even tell when you look at your penis.
 
huge-girth;722130 said:
For me, I think 6.4x5 is small. Anything from 7 in length is huge. You can even tell when you look at your penis.
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So only a 0.6" difference between 'small' and 'huge'? I'm not completely disagreeing with you, but your numbers seem a little off. Personally I think the ranges for the three sizes would be more around the ballpark of 4.5"-5.5" is small, 5.5"-6.5" is average, 6.5"-7.5" is big, and 7.5"+ is huge.

That said, to my own male eyes, even being significantly over 7" and pushing the fat pad in, it still doesn't really look that big to me...even sort of small at times, although I know that is just my mind playing tricks on me.

doublelongdaddy;722064 said:
at 6.5 x 4.75 I never received anything but a compliment on how big I was. Today, well today is a different story. The ideal size for most women surveyed in a popular sutrvey of very sexually active women done by Lightning showed that women prefer a penis that is in the area of 7 x 5 respectively.
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Any links for that survey? I don't recall ever seeing it personally.
 
Phoenix7672;722140 said:
Personally I think the ranges for the three sizes would be more around the ballpark of 4.5"-5.5" is small, 5.5"-6.5" is average, 6.5"-7.5" is big, and 7.5"+ is huge.
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Length:
4.5"-5" is below average.
5"-6" is average.
6"-6.5" is above average.
6.5"-7.5" is big.
7.5"-8.5" is huge.
Above 8.5" is monstrous.

Girth:
4.75" is average.
5" is above average.
5.5" is big.
6" is huge.
6.5" is monstrous.

That's it. No more misconceptions.
 
acromegaly;722078 said:
women dont consider girth? lol ok whatever you say
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Ask 10 women what they consider big and they will not quote you a number for girth, only length. The farthest they might go is say "thick" or "wide". They will consider girth, just not in numbers like length. I've asked hundreds and 8 inches is quoted 99% of the time, and only on a few occasions did any say 7, some even thought 7 was average.
 
IAmSpartacus71;722144 said:
Length:
4.5"-5" is below average.
5"-6" is average.
6"-6.5" is above average.
6.5"-7.5" is big.
7.5"-8.5" is huge.
Above 8.5" is monstrous.

Girth:
4.75" is average.
5" is above average.
5.5" is big.
6" is huge.
6.5" is monstrous.

That's it. No more misconceptions.
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That's actually a very great summary. Thanks
 
Phoenix7672;722140 said:
So only a 0.6" difference between 'small' and 'huge'? I'm not completely disagreeing with you, but your numbers seem a little off. Personally I think the ranges for the three sizes would be more around the ballpark of 4.5"-5.5" is small, 5.5"-6.5" is average, 6.5"-7.5" is big, and 7.5"+ is huge.

That said, to my own male eyes, even being significantly over 7" and pushing the fat pad in, it still doesn't really look that big to me...even sort of small at times, although I know that is just my mind playing tricks on me.



Any links for that survey? I don't recall ever seeing it personally.
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I'm a little over 7 in length with a 5.5 girth. Some times it looks big to me.
 
women don't actually know whats big from whats not until they see is,and " get in contact with it". most of them have no idea whats the difference between 6 and 9 inch, or so have been told. but most of them feel that the bigger the better.the small portion that have sexual experience know what they want or what the difference between the sizes.
 
huge-girth;722205 said:
I'm a little over 7 in length with a 5.5 girth. Some times it looks big to me.
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You have what you wanted Huge, i know u want to continue whit your PE career tough..
 
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megamike;722209 said:
women don't actually know whats big from whats not until they see is,and " get in contact with it". most of them have no idea whats the difference between 6 and 9 inch, or so have been told. but most of them feel that the bigger the better.the small portion that have sexual experience know what they want or what the difference between the sizes.
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true.The experienced ones IMHO:)
 
LONGERDICK7+;722235 said:
You have what you wanted Huge, i know u want to continue whit your PE career tough..
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I want 7 inches mid shaft. When I resume training girth, I will be doing so mainly in the shower as I have come to the conclusion that those doing girth work with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] while standing in the shower have a higher chance of gaining length when compared to those doing it while sitting.
 
huge-girth;722251 said:
I want 7 inches mid shaft. When I resume training girth, I will be doing so mainly in the shower as I have come to the conclusion that those doing girth work with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] while standing in the shower have a higher chance of gaining length when compared to those doing it while sitting.
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yep is virtually impposible for me to have a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] sess in no other place but in the bathroom

7 inches midshaft is going to be a quite amazing goal to get if you can get that no doubt,yep hope i get to a more "decent" girth too..Good luck
 
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Perspective also plays a roll. I had an ex tell me she'd been with a guy who was as long as her forearm and thicker than her wrist. We had sex for the first time and suddenly my 6"x5.5 (at the time) is bigger than him. Before I measured in front of her to show her how off she was, she thought I had to have "at least nine inches!".
Hence the old joke about women making poor carpenters.
 
stillwantmore2;722257 said:
Perspective also plays a roll. I had an ex tell me she'd been with a guy who was as long as her forearm and thicker than her wrist. We had sex for the first time and suddenly my 6"x5.5 (at the time) is bigger than him. Before I measured in front of her to show her how off she was, she thought I had to have "at least nine inches!".
Hence the old joke about women making poor carpenters.
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rofl
 
LONGERDICK7+;722254 said:
yep is virtually impposible for me to have a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] sess in no other place but in the bathroom

7 inches midshaft is going to be a quite amazing goal to get if you can get that no doubt,yep hope i get to a more "decent" girth too..Good luck
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As long as I am on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and training I will get to my girth goal no doubt about that.
 
Anything that is beyond 6.5 x 5 is big. Everything beyond is huge. The perfect place to land is 8.5 x 6.
 
doublelongdaddy;759792 said:
Anything that is beyond 6.5 x 5 is big. Everything beyond is huge. The perfect place to land is 8.5 x 6.
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In my personal world 8.5 x 7 is the real deal
 
huge-girth;759860 said:
In my personal world 8.5 x 7 is the real deal
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That is an inch over, be careful you may need to pay for episiotomy's after every sexual episode!
 
doublelongdaddy;759913 said:
That is an inch over, be careful you may need to pay for episiotomy's after every sexual episode!
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Big Antz ain't paying for that and shane diesel too including acromegaly and Red zulu
 
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