The bathmate is giving me poor erections.

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theman6

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This is really irritating cause i recently just started getting sexual with a girl. And i have a hard time getting strong 100% erections now. I obviously would hate to stop doing the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] cause than my penis would remain skinny.
Any tips advice?
Yes i do a shit ton of kegels.
 
It's normal for me. My [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] transforms temporary erection and libido into long term size increase. After waterpumping the skin gets thicker - that alone makes the erection appear softer. Whether the overall erection is worse I can't really say. Strong erections come back when i don't pump during that specific day. However the erection should be good enough for sex at all times even after pumping.
 
I have noticed that my eq seems to drop when I get towards the end of the week but it returns over the weekend when I take 2 days off for rest.
 
theman6 how much are you masturbating or having sex? If you're masturbating and having sex maybe reducing/stopping the masturbation would help. Many hear have said edging without cumming at the end of the session helps EQ.

How often are you pumping, how long of sessions, and how intense?

Any changes in your life? Extra stress? Working too much? Change in diet or exercise? All of these can have an effect on EQ.
 
cladre60;761001 said:
theman6 how much are you masturbating or having sex? If you're masturbating and having sex maybe reducing/stopping the masturbation would help. Many hear have said edging without cumming at the end of the session helps EQ.

How often are you pumping, how long of sessions, and how intense?

Any changes in your life? Extra stress? Working too much? Change in diet or exercise? All of these can have an effect on EQ.
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These are very good questions you asked
 
I have to masterbate alot because I need to get hard in order to pump. And i think thats what is stressing me out. Whether its 15 min or 25 min, i have to spend all that time every day playing with my penis and chemicals and i think it is wearing my mind and penis out.

Can you pump the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] soft and still gain?
 
theman6;761015 said:
I have to masterbate alot because I need to get hard in order to pump. And i think thats what is stressing me out. Whether its 15 min or 25 min, i have to spend all that time every day playing with my penis and chemicals and i think it is wearing my mind and penis out.

Can you pump the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] soft and still gain?
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If you're just getting an erection to use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] and not having an orgasm from it that's exactly what you're supposed to do. You want a close to 100% EQ as possible for best results.

Break down your [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] sessions a little. Instead of doing a full 15 minutes do 2-3 rounds of jelqing or SSJs and then 5 minutes in the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words]. Jelqing and pumping improve blood flow which will improve EQ. If you're pumping too long you'll get that "hard flaccid" state where you're retaining a lot of water and appear to be nearly erect while pointing down. It can mess with your head and once you're stressed a little EQ can totally disappear.
 
I have never understood why you would need an erection in order to pump because at least in my case the vacuum makes the penis expand, not the erection. Sometimes an erection is helpful for entering the pump because it is easier to create the seal with a penis already erect.

I did edging without cumming for a long period of time, during the time of jelqing - back then I didn't have a pump. In the first week the erection can be better at times but over time it always became normal again. I think it is placebo and only appears to bring better erection when done for a short while.

But during that time I could edge seeing my pleasure level going through the roof, literally. I became extremely horny. I thought that masturbation was better than having sex. I understood that no woman could give me that pleasure. December 2016 was one of the last sessions that went like this. Later, for some reason, I couldn't go that far anymore. Before I hit these high levels of stimulation I have to cum. Somehow the start of my pumping career must have destroyed the skill. But it could be imagination. Still I can't stop pumping + I tried to reignite the extreme pleasure sessions after the summer break (where I didn't pump for 1.5 months) - still his never came back and I didn't experiment too long due to lack of patience. During that time also a shift in consciousness happened in which I lost my feeling of guilt for pornography.
 
Chaoskampf;761022 said:
I have never understood why you would need an erection in order to pump because at least in my case the vacuum makes the penis expand, not the erection. Sometimes an erection is helpful for entering the pump because it is easier to create the seal with a penis already erect.

I did edging without cumming for a long period of time, during the time of jelqing - back then I didn't have a pump. In the first week the erection can be better at times but over time it always became normal again. I think it is placebo and only appears to bring better erection when done for a short while.

But during that time I could edge seeing my pleasure level going through the roof, literally. I became extremely horny. I thought that masturbation was better than having sex. I understood that no woman could give me that pleasure. December 2016 was one of the last sessions that went like this. Later, for some reason, I couldn't go that far anymore. Before I hit these high levels of stimulation I have to cum. Somehow the start of my pumping career must have destroyed the skill. But it could be imagination. Still I can't stop pumping + I tried to reignite the extreme pleasure sessions after the summer break (where I didn't pump for 1.5 months) - still his never came back and I didn't experiment too long due to lack of patience. During that time also a shift in consciousness happened in which I lost my feeling of guilt for pornography.
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The idea is to go into the pump 100% erect and expect the EQ to drop into the 85-90% range. we want to be as close to our maximum girth because we want expansion beyond the norm. If someone is able to get 20% expansion and they are pumping at 80% erect there will be no expansion beyond normal size. If you train the same way at 90% you are nw getting 110% of your regular size and that is exactly what you want, a temporary girth that goes beyond your normal size.
 
To expand on what DLD said...

When you're fully erect you penis is full of blood. Staying as erect as possible helps to expand your penis allowing more blood to get in = larger and thicker. My best girth sessions are watching adult entertainment while pumping. I had 2 really good sessions without adult entertainment when my wife got in the shower with me. She doesn't like the whole PE thing though. Wish she'd get on board cause those we great sessions and then I used it in her to keep the massive erection going.
 
You guys clearly do not understand what I am saying. I apologize for maybe not being clear enough.

I have to obviously masterbate in order to get hard so i can get into the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words]. However the large ammounts of masterbation just to get into the pump is tiring out and desensitizing my penis. It is also weakening my erections.
I will not use adult entertainment as adult entertainment is damaging to the mind and Id actually prefer to not even masterbate and just have sex but I have to masterbate in order to pump. All this masterbation is messing with me.

I am a recovering adult entertainment and masterbation addict so masterbating 15-20 min a day just to get pumped and than see my temp gains go away in an hour is driving me mad. I cant stop because i have a skinny penis.

I dont understand cause it seems last week i was finally starting to gain. My penis was girthier, but this week im back to my original skinny penis.
 
I follow what you are saying TM6. If I were in your shoes and recovering from those addictions I would use my pump at whatever level of eq I had without doing anything. I rarely get fully erect when I do my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] sessions and I am still able to make gains. It may cause me to gain a little slower but a gain is a gain no matter what increments it comes in. Just my .02
 
Chaoskampf;761022 said:
I have never understood why you would need an erection in order to pump because at least in my case the vacuum makes the penis expand, not the erection. Sometimes an erection is helpful for entering the pump because it is easier to create the seal with a penis already erect.

I did edging without cumming for a long period of time, during the time of jelqing - back then I didn't have a pump. In the first week the erection can be better at times but over time it always became normal again. I think it is placebo and only appears to bring better erection when done for a short while.

But during that time I could edge seeing my pleasure level going through the roof, literally. I became extremely horny. I thought that masturbation was better than having sex. I understood that no woman could give me that pleasure. December 2016 was one of the last sessions that went like this. Later, for some reason, I couldn't go that far anymore. Before I hit these high levels of stimulation I have to cum. Somehow the start of my pumping career must have destroyed the skill. But it could be imagination. Still I can't stop pumping + I tried to reignite the extreme pleasure sessions after the summer break (where I didn't pump for 1.5 months) - still his never came back and I didn't experiment too long due to lack of patience. During that time also a shift in consciousness happened in which I lost my feeling of guilt for pornography.
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Do you mind if I ask what's your current girth size?
 
theman6;761093 said:
You guys clearly do not understand what I am saying. I apologize for maybe not being clear enough.

I have to obviously masterbate in order to get hard so i can get into the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words]. However the large ammounts of masterbation just to get into the pump is tiring out and desensitizing my penis. It is also weakening my erections.
I will not use adult entertainment as adult entertainment is damaging to the mind and Id actually prefer to not even masterbate and just have sex but I have to masterbate in order to pump. All this masterbation is messing with me.

I am a recovering adult entertainment and masterbation addict so masterbating 15-20 min a day just to get pumped and than see my temp gains go away in an hour is driving me mad. I cant stop because i have a skinny penis.

I dont understand cause it seems last week i was finally starting to gain. My penis was girthier, but this week im back to my original skinny penis.
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If you must masturbate daily, it has to be once in a day. I will suggest you don't masturbate daily because you need erection for girth work. You are the cause of your problems because you cannot control your masturbation habit.
 
Prob around 4.5-4.6
You do not understand what I am saying.

I do not masterbate, i only masterbate in order to get hard for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words].
 
theman6;761111 said:
Prob around 4.5-4.6
You do not understand what I am saying.

I do not masterbate, i only masterbate in order to get hard for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words].
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So you are probably using [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Hercules[/words] or [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]X20[/words] or [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]X30[/words].

I would go in flaccid, pump for two minutes. Take it out, then the expansion would already be better. Then you can go in one more time. As I said I don't need the erection for sealing. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] setup is having balls outside of the pump. Don't like that too much, always gives problems when the base of the penis isn't thick enough.

The temp gains go away quickly, that is normal. At some days however they stay for a couple of hours. Still the gains can already be there but can't be seen since they are very small.

Many people will report that they have trouble getting erect once they are in the shower. Maybe you have the same.


It's difficult sometimes. I think you will find the answer yourself after experimenting for some time. But I don't think that 4.5" girth is skinny so please clear your mind of this. I think this thought is more disturbing as the adult entertainment you refuse.
 
Chaoskampf;761144 said:
So you are probably using [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Hercules[/words] or [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]X20[/words] or [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]X30[/words].

I would go in flaccid, pump for two minutes. Take it out, then the expansion would already be better. Then you can go in one more time. As I said I don't need the erection for sealing. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] setup is having balls outside of the pump. Don't like that too much, always gives problems when the base of the penis isn't thick enough.

The temp gains go away quickly, that is normal. At some days however they stay for a couple of hours. Still the gains can already be there but can't be seen since they are very small.

Many people will report that they have trouble getting erect once they are in the shower. Maybe you have the same.


It's difficult sometimes. I think you will find the answer yourself after experimenting for some time. But I don't think that 4.5" girth is skinny so please clear your mind of this. I think this thought is more disturbing as the adult entertainment you refuse.
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Excellent advice and let me hit on the girth topic also. 4.5" of girth is just fine as it is in the normal range of average. I know that no one wants to be average but it is much better than believing you are below average. I also recommend a smaller pump to give less negative space. I know my Brother TheMan wants to gain more than anything so I hope he takes this advice and can capture that girth he desires. If he could gain 1/2" he would be .25" above average. 1/2" is easy, easy, easy....keep saying it! Mantra, easy easy easy!
 
theman6;761093 said:
You guys clearly do not understand what I am saying. I apologize for maybe not being clear enough.

I have to obviously masterbate in order to get hard so i can get into the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words]. However the large ammounts of masterbation just to get into the pump is tiring out and desensitizing my penis. It is also weakening my erections.
I will not use adult entertainment as adult entertainment is damaging to the mind and Id actually prefer to not even masterbate and just have sex but I have to masterbate in order to pump. All this masterbation is messing with me.

I am a recovering adult entertainment and masterbation addict so masterbating 15-20 min a day just to get pumped and than see my temp gains go away in an hour is driving me mad. I cant stop because i have a skinny penis.

I dont understand cause it seems last week i was finally starting to gain. My penis was girthier, but this week im back to my original skinny penis.
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We couldn't understand until this post. My heart goes out to you and I hope your recovery is going well. I personally can not imagine how hard that is to deal with.

My best advice is to do whatever you can SAFELY do to achieve a good EQ. Maybe some dry jelqs as wet ones would certainly spring up the urge to masturbate. I find dry jelqing to be far less pleasurable and almost painful if done slow and hard. My EQ goes up with them simply for the fact that I'm forcing blood into my penis.

You may also want to try a cock ring. If you're in a semi flaccid state the mechanics alone if it's use should slowly raise you to a decent EQ.

It is far more beneficial to enter the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] fully erect and stay that way but if that's a big issue I'd say get in however you can and pump. You may want to do [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] hardcore stretches as well. You get a dual workout and pull more blood into the penis to create expansion. I know I've done them with far less than 100% EQ and still came out huge.

Hope some of this helps and works for you.
 
I've also had mild erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation from adult entertainment in the past. Took a long time to fix but it gets better if you do things the right way.

The masturbation you do to get hard it probably not enough to tire out your penis or your pelvic floor muscles and since its also not connected to adult entertainment or sex but rather just a means to getting hard it shouldnt be a problem for your recovery (I've been there)

If there is nothing wrong physically with your penis or your pelvic floor muscles or blood flow then EQ mostly comes down to mental issues and an overall physical state.

First off the physical. Eat a healthy diet. Sleep enough (very important). Exercise.

For the mental part you probably suffer from the same shit I used to have. To get better you really need to abstain from adult entertainment 100%. You also seriously need to get a girlfriend. Cuddling, intimacy and sex are the most important tools you got to fix your situation. Without a girlfriend or someone you can cuddle, be intimate with and have sex with on a daily basis your recovery will be very slow.

Masturbation is also an important tool. In this case you need to make sure it is purely physical stimulation. No adult entertainment and no imagination. You need to teach yourself to feel the physical sensation without a mental stimulus.

Hope this helps :)
 
theman6;761111 said:
Prob around 4.5-4.6
You do not understand what I am saying.

I do not masterbate, i only masterbate in order to get hard for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words].
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Just change positions when you do girth work to know what works best for you. I always lay on the bed during my girth session
 
kak03;761175 said:
I've also had mild erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation from adult entertainment in the past. Took a long time to fix but it gets better if you do things the right way.

The masturbation you do to get hard it probably not enough to tire out your penis or your pelvic floor muscles and since its also not connected to adult entertainment or sex but rather just a means to getting hard it shouldnt be a problem for your recovery (I've been there)

If there is nothing wrong physically with your penis or your pelvic floor muscles or blood flow then EQ mostly comes down to mental issues and an overall physical state.

First off the physical. Eat a healthy diet. Sleep enough (very important). Exercise.

For the mental part you probably suffer from the same shit I used to have. To get better you really need to abstain from adult entertainment 100%. You also seriously need to get a girlfriend. Cuddling, intimacy and sex are the most important tools you got to fix your situation. Without a girlfriend or someone you can cuddle, be intimate with and have sex with on a daily basis your recovery will be very slow.

Masturbation is also an important tool. In this case you need to make sure it is purely physical stimulation. No adult entertainment and no imagination. You need to teach yourself to feel the physical sensation without a mental stimulus.

Hope this helps :)
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Incredible Advice! Especially the part about self stimulation.
 
Thank you. This was a big problem for me so its something I want to help with.
 
kak03;761329 said:
Thank you. This was a big problem for me so its something I want to help with.
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I wish more Brothers would give their views on so many topics, the more Brothers give the more t helps others Brothers. So many men are looking on from the outskirts of the Brotherhood, watching us, listening to us, we should always set a proper example and always look to help in any way we can.
 
doublelongdaddy;761497 said:
I wish more Brothers would give their views on so many topics, the more Brothers give the more t helps others Brothers. So many men are looking on from the outskirts of the Brotherhood, watching us, listening to us, we should always set a proper example and always look to help in any way we can.
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I believe the amount of people viewing this forum as a guest is more than the registered members
 
huge-girth;761583 said:
I believe the amount of people viewing this forum as a guest is more than the registered members
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Always, there are always 100's unregistered looking at our work.
 
doublelongdaddy;761815 said:
Always, there are always 100's unregistered looking at our work.
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So funny because I used to be like them back in 2011 until I registered in 2013.
 
huge-girth;761853 said:
So funny because I used to be like them back in 2011 until I registered in 2013.
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Yup, it takes some men time to become a Brother. But something gets them to come out.
 
doublelongdaddy;761914 said:
Yup, it takes some men time to become a Brother. But something gets them to come out.
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I'm surprised I'm yet to see any registered member from my country. They lack this type of PE info. It's a pity.
 
huge-girth;761965 said:
I'm surprised I'm yet to see any registered member from my country. They lack this type of PE info. It's a pity.
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Tell them, give them the url, tell them to join!
 
doublelongdaddy;762055 said:
Tell them, give them the url, tell them to join!
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I will do an advert here like I discussed with you last month. Just give me some time.
 
huge-girth;762102 said:
I will do an advert here like I discussed with you last month. Just give me some time.
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We need it my Brother!
 
huge-girth;762102 said:
I will do an advert here like I discussed with you last month. Just give me some time.
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If I was still in college I'd leave flyers around for [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. "Want to be the biggest and best that sorority slut ever had? Want to be the envy of everyone in the locker room? Come to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]! Be the biggest and best you can! MEN ONLY!" The men only part would make them more curious.
 
cladre60;762315 said:
If I was still in college I'd leave flyers around for [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. "Want to be the biggest and best that sorority slut ever had? Want to be the envy of everyone in the locker room? Come to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]! Be the biggest and best you can! MEN ONLY!" The men only part would make them more curious.
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You are a man with some many ideas.
 
I don't know. I like if certain things make us individuals. I certainly wouldn't want many people to do PE.

There is a saying once you are ready for something it will come to you or you will more or less accidentally find your way to it.

And ideas are good. Implementation of these ideas is the crucial part though - I have to remind me of that.
 
Chaoskampf;762391 said:
I don't know. I like if certain things make us individuals. I certainly wouldn't want many people to do PE.

There is a saying once you are ready for something it will come to you or you will more or less accidentally find your way to it.

And ideas are good. Implementation of these ideas is the crucial part though - I have to remind me of that.
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Thing is you could tell 10,000 people about PE and only a handful would actually do it.
 
Chaoskampf;762391 said:
I don't know. I like if certain things make us individuals. I certainly wouldn't want many people to do PE.

There is a saying once you are ready for something it will come to you or you will more or less accidentally find your way to it.

And ideas are good. Implementation of these ideas is the crucial part though - I have to remind me of that.
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Even if everyone know about PE, only a few can do it because PE is life style just like washing your teeth daily
 
huge-girth;762424 said:
Even if everyone know about PE, only a few can do it because PE is life style just like washing your teeth daily
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Most can not commits themselves to the work that PE requires. They may start with a blast but many fizzle out after a few weeks. PE requires a commitment to an indefinite amount of time to acquire what they want. If you want a half inch your stay could be 3 months, if you want 3" your stay will be in the years. This is a total life change and that is what most can not handle.
 
doublelongdaddy;762449 said:
Most can not commits themselves to the work that PE requires. They may start with a blast but many fizzle out after a few weeks. PE requires a commitment to an indefinite amount of time to acquire what they want. If you want a half inch your stay could be 3 months, if you want 3" your stay will be in the years. This is a total life change and that is what most can not handle.
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IMO, staying committed to PE will require you to reduce the amount of time you spend with people. Those who can't do without spend most of their time with people are going to find it difficult to do PE.
 
huge-girth;762516 said:
IMO, staying committed to PE will require you to reduce the amount of time you spend with people. Those who can't do without spend most of their time with people are going to find it difficult to do PE.
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A big chunk of the day is taken up by PE, that time needs to be carved out to make time for PE. If someone really wants to gain they will make the time. Get up and hour early, go to bed an hour later, whatever it takes. But your desire to be bigger needs to strong enough that you are willing to do this otherwise it is a waste pf time.
 
doublelongdaddy;762573 said:
A big chunk of the day is taken up by PE, that time needs to be carved out to make time for PE. If someone really wants to gain they will make the time. Get up and hour early, go to bed an hour later, whatever it takes. But your desire to be bigger needs to strong enough that you are willing to do this otherwise it is a waste pf time.
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It's like any hobby or fitness goal. Tomorrow I need to get up much earlier than I'd like so I can get in a run (30-40 minutes with stretching), PE (30-40 minutes), shower (probably 15 minutes with getting dressed if I rush), then make it to an appt (10 minutes each way and an hour long), then turn around and get ready for work. If I don't want to literally be running everywhere all morning I'll be up far far earlier than I want.

It's for a larger penis though so I'll do what I need to do.
 
cladre60;762612 said:
It's like any hobby or fitness goal. Tomorrow I need to get up much earlier than I'd like so I can get in a run (30-40 minutes with stretching), PE (30-40 minutes), shower (probably 15 minutes with getting dressed if I rush), then make it to an appt (10 minutes each way and an hour long), then turn around and get ready for work. If I don't want to literally be running everywhere all morning I'll be up far far earlier than I want.

It's for a larger penis though so I'll do what I need to do.
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I see you are making the best use of your time. I am following your progress log to encourage you as much as I can
 
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