online pre ejac help

[Castor]

there are 2 online programs that i have come across, Recovery Center, and Sexual Ressearch. both professional groups claiming they can cure pre ejac with their techniques. Im so desperate for answers right now, my pre ejac is fucking up my realtionship with my girl of over a year now, and i have a feeling she is going to look elsewhere. im just wondering if anyone has tried these programs before and if they are worth the $.
heres the link: http://www.menhealthinfo.us/

 

[Threak]

Castor don't shell out any money on these programs. The information is great on that site. I had the same issue 20 years ago and found a book on Taoist Sex Practices at the time (still have that book). Basically it was in my head and my masturbating technique. I was masturabating and ejaculating within 5 minutes and had condition my body to so whether I wanted it to or not.

I would watch adult entertainment to increase the excitement and masturbate. When felt the urge to cum I withdrew and let it subside and resume masturbating until I couldn't stand it anymore. I stated first with 10 minutes and increase it every other day 5 minutes and worked my way up to 2 hours. Also I would practice this technique during sex. Since then I had been nick-named Marathon-Man from several women. Sometimes the women I have been involved with stated they can't figure how to make me cum at first. They thought there was something wrong with themselves. From my experiences, I found women find it satisfying to make there man cum, but never sooner than 15 - 20 minutes into sex. I'm gonna be 49 next week and date mostly women in their late 20's to late 30's and they are amazed at my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] and claim I torn 'em up and wore 'em out.

I still practice that technique because it works for me and the orgasms are incredible when you finally release. DLD's kegal program will help with your issue also.

 

[Castor]

i guess i should try lasting longer during masturbation. i usually just get it over with within 5minutes cuz i get bored. the problem is i dont have hours to sit and masturbate, but i guess im gunna have to do what it takes. is it necessary to watch adult entertainment, or can i just imagine my girl? and lube or no?

 

[Castor]

i found an eBook online on the taoists thoery of ending premature ejac. it is about the same price of the online programs ($40) is it worth it? or do they all basically say that i should just try masturbating longer?

 

[Threak]

No you don't have to spend hours masturbating. I just relayed my experiece and technique. Its about building up your PC muscle which blocks the contractions that produces the ejaculation. The kegal exercises will help immersely giving you the ability to control the ejaculatory reflex.

When I practiced that technique at first, I would stroke that thing and hold back as long as possible, stop and resume. I remember my glutes use to be sore the next day and still get that way today sometimes. I discovered later on I was actually doing kegals without knowing it during that time. Also, I did tell my GF at the time I was so turned-on by her I couldn't control myself and have to stop a moment or two before continueing. I use to see the smile on her face grow when I told her that. All in all it's about being aware of you body and having control of it.

Do your kegals every day... its an exercise you can practically do anywhere without anyone knowing.
I sit on the bus and do'em all the way home from work at times ... and that's an hour ride. Do'em watching TV with your GF, she'll never know otherwise.

 

[Threak]

i found an eBook online on the taoists thoery of ending premature ejac. it is about the same price of the online programs ($40) is it worth it? or do they all basically say that i should just try masturbating longer?

No ... don't waste the money right now. the information is free on this site.
Kegal Kegal Kegal ... build a stronger PC muscle.

Try that first and let us know how it works out for you.
We'll all here to help one another

 

[Castor]

thanks man i really do appreciate it. this is something that has plagued my sex life for quite some time. how do i know when my pc muscle is strong enough? and am i supposed to kegel hard when i feel close to climax, or throughout the whole process?

 

[Threak]

You may want to start slow and build from there:
Kegal hold for a slow 3 count
Rest 2 count
set - 25

Do one set and then another a few hours later through-out your day and build from there. But Kegal when you can and that P.C. muscle will be in shape and you will have ejaculation control like a adult entertainment star in no time. Also, you will be able to go again right after cumming and begin having multiple orgasms and shoot your load across the room. Talk about a turn-on for a woman, I had a few women just give me a hand job so they could watch me shoot my load

Push yourself to the next level when you get comfortable and it's feel too easy to accomplish the set. By increasing the sets and hold counts. You will know when, long as you stay aware and listen to your body.

I usually stop the sexual stimulation(don't wait too long at first) and held the kegal several seconds sometimes longer until the feeling of ejaculation subsides and resume the sexual stimualtion. I repeat this 10-15 times during sex some times. And I use the line, "Girl you got me so excited I can't control myself and have to stop for a moment so I don't cum too soon" Also, "I want to take care of you first before I come". Most of all be secure in your statements.

You need to learn to relax and control it. After a while it becomes 2nd natural in your thinking and you dont even notice you're doing it. All of this takes time, practice and most of all patience. She'll love you for it once you learn to conquer it. She can't faulter you if you are making an honest enough to correct it.

Become the master of you own body... learn to control it and don't let it control you.

Identifying the P.C. Muscle
The key is learning how to isolate the P.C. Muscle and exercise it correctly on a regular basis. Exercise the right muscle correctly in order to achieve an optimal beneficial effect from exercise. Just like any exercise, ease into it and become familiar with it. Then push your self a little more over time and do them on a regular basis.

When you urinate, try to stop-start the flow of urine by squeezing your P.C. Muscle.
Also, another way you can make sure is when you have a semi-erection, it is the muscle that makes it "jump."

Do not tighten the muscles in your abdomen, buttocks, or thighs; also, do not hold your breath.

Hopeful this is not too much to digest ...

 

[Threak]

I ran across some of your posts and it seems you had this issue for quite some time now...

A very good read is the following link which DLD has several techniques to try
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18611

 

[Pandora]

A quick fix is Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms mixed with Viagra but plenty of kegel exercises is a must

 

[Castor]

i just bought some durex performax condoms, went to try em out and couldnt even get em on my cock. magnum should come out with a climax control condom damnit.

 

[Pandora]

i just bought some durex performax condoms, went to try em out and couldnt even get em on my cock. magnum should come out with a climax control condom damnit.

You need these ones in this box the other ones don't fit me.

the ones in this box are wider for some reason.

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http://www.undercovercondoms.com/Condoms/Trojan/29/Extended-Pleasure-Lubricated.html

 

[Threak]

Pandora's condom suggestion is an excellent one ... don't know about the Viagra part. I don't believe in taking medication for myself. I suffered from chronic depression, high-blood pressure at one time. And now I suffer from chronic Back-Pain from a severe auto-accident 4 years ago that put in the hospital for weeks and couldn't walk for 2 years. I kicked the first 2 issues without medication and manage the 3rd through changing my mind-set, life-style with regular exercising and diet.

I'm not saying don't take medication, it has it place. Some people have a chemical imbalance and definitely need it. Just be aware with and without it and use good judgement. Also, I have a co-worker who swears by Viagra and now can't perform without it. He tries to convince to use it and I'll be amazed with the results. I just laugh and tell him I don't really have a issue in that area to be using it. Besides, with my present [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] I probably have her begging me to stop after the 3rd hour of sex (LOL).

Most importantly, with or without the condom and viagra did you start a Kegal program?