I don't see how enjoying sex equates to lack of self respect. Maybe it is because of the way I was raised. My mom and dad were both kind of flower children, and I was raised in an enviroment that was open and honest about sex, so sex is not something dirty and shameful to me. I have had many sexual partners in my life. I was not a playa. I did and still have a lot of self-respect. My wife has had more than a couple lovers herself. I don't see what the big deal is. We are both good people. We were both very careful in choosing our partners. Neither of us have had any STDs. We have been married 10 years and neither of us have strayed. If you want a woman that has never been touched, never felt any emotion for another man and never desired to experience pleasure or love, then you can find her right on aisle 3 of your local adult entertainment shop. She comes in a big box that says Inflatable Annie.
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Then you have done very well in your lives and have managed not to experience any of the negative consequences that often come with a LARGE NUMBER of partners. Personally, I would consider you the exception to the rule. Hats off to you. I know from getting to know you on this forum that you seem to have a good marriage and genuine feelings for your wife.
I do not need Inflatable Annie, just someone that has made good decisions with her circumstances and keeps the current relationship in the proper perspective.
It might be argued that a woman who sleeps around quite a bit is more likely to have certain undesirable personality traits in a man's experience as well. Anecdotal as it may be, the most promiscuous women I have known tended to have other character traits in common. Chiefly among these were unreliability, immaturity, and serious insecurity. Also, study after study has shown that women have the most satisfying sex in committed relationships with the same partner over a long period of time. Simple horniness doesn't really explain sleeping around a whole lot.
If I may be so bold as to suggest simple biology - men are apt to sleep around as we naturally desire to proliferate our genetics as far and wide as possible. It is in a woman's best interest to have a stable provider for her offspring, hence their natural preferance for relationships. Of course it's all much more complciated than that once you get into it, but the underlying structure is fairly concrete. Frankly I am not particularly impressed when I meet a woman that's really been around, political correctness and sensitivity be damned.
Just as it is their preferance to sleep with lots of men outside of committed relationships, it's my preferance to not want to have anything to do with them. There is also something to be said for the fact that women acting in this manner are somewhat frowned upon by society at large, and yet they still do so. To me it often is a sign of attention seeking or a person that somebody else described as 'in love with being in love.' The unquenchable desire for male adoration and frequent, shrill emotional episodes are both qualities that send me running, and you can bet that many a promiscuous woman manifests them in varying, but nonetheless annoying degrees. I'm really no moral prude, but in this day and age if I understand that an adult woman sleeps around a good deal, I don't hesitate that she's probably dealing with some issues I'd really rather have nothing to do with her. So far this hasn't been a problem, as the most attractive and intelligent women I've encountered tend to agree with me on the issue, at least so much as is reflected by their conduct. It's generally the 'looser' crowd that I find can't hold much of a conversation and don't take care of themselves.
If I may be so bold as to suggest simple biology - men are apt to sleep around as we naturally desire to proliferate our genetics as far and wide as possible. It is in a woman's best interest to have a stable provider for her offspring, hence their natural preferance for relationships. Of course it's all much more complciated than that once you get into it, but the underlying structure is fairly concrete. Frankly I am not particularly impressed when I meet a woman that's really been around, political correctness and sensitivity be damned.
Just as it is their preferance to sleep with lots of men outside of committed relationships, it's my preferance to not want to have anything to do with them. There is also something to be said for the fact that women acting in this manner are somewhat frowned upon by society at large, and yet they still do so. To me it often is a sign of attention seeking or a person that somebody else described as 'in love with being in love.' The unquenchable desire for male adoration and frequent, shrill emotional episodes are both qualities that send me running, and you can bet that many a promiscuous woman manifests them in varying, but nonetheless annoying degrees. I'm really no moral prude, but in this day and age if I understand that an adult woman sleeps around a good deal, I don't hesitate that she's probably dealing with some issues I'd really rather have nothing to do with her. So far this hasn't been a problem, as the most attractive and intelligent women I've encountered tend to agree with me on the issue, at least so much as is reflected by their conduct. It's generally the 'looser' crowd that I find can't hold much of a conversation and don't take care of themselves.
I think Swank nailed this one.
I'm not denying the double standard, but the biological aspects he brought up are very much relevant. Men and women typically think different on their views of promiscuity, because they typically have different ideas on their roles in life. It may not be politically correct and it may indeed be a double standard, but it is as undeniable as the law of gravity.
I'm not denying the double standard, but the biological aspects he brought up are very much relevant. Men and women typically think different on their views of promiscuity, because they typically have different ideas on their roles in life. It may not be politically correct and it may indeed be a double standard, but it is as undeniable as the law of gravity.
If wishes were horses, I won't be with any woman who's body count is more than 2. It's either I'm the first, second or third man she slept with. Anything past 3 becomes a problem for me.
Body counts. Sheesh. Those ladies must be black widows.
What makes you think they might be black widows?
The phrase "body count" when you talk about women. It's similar to how many male black widow spiders are consumed when a female black widow try to get pounded. Once the male spider got their fun, she eats him. So, how many male spiders will the female spider eats trying to have fun with her.
I wish I read the books from Alan and Barbara Peace when I was 20!!
Men are from mars, woman from Venus too... And others - its a rabbit hole of information.
At +40 I finally understood how little the penis size, the sex (the physical part of it) means for a woman compared to what it means for a man.
Bodycounts:
I look at this like if looking at insurance for a new car, it does not bother me but if she has a high number i KNOW there should never be shared economy and also knoe the risk of cheating/chaos is much higher...it simply means less to her and she will use it against you.
I have a friend, she is a fitness model, party girl and super hot. Her body count is around 150, and it really just made her unattractive when I found out. Like instant loss of interest.
She ended up pregnant with a bad lover, not the biggest cock she had for sure and shes a mess... Sad but true...
So: Low body count = high level of control = high value to me.
Men are from mars, woman from Venus too... And others - its a rabbit hole of information.
At +40 I finally understood how little the penis size, the sex (the physical part of it) means for a woman compared to what it means for a man.
Bodycounts:
I look at this like if looking at insurance for a new car, it does not bother me but if she has a high number i KNOW there should never be shared economy and also knoe the risk of cheating/chaos is much higher...it simply means less to her and she will use it against you.
I have a friend, she is a fitness model, party girl and super hot. Her body count is around 150, and it really just made her unattractive when I found out. Like instant loss of interest.
She ended up pregnant with a bad lover, not the biggest cock she had for sure and shes a mess... Sad but true...
So: Low body count = high level of control = high value to me.
Very interesting post.
It sure is an interesting subject, even I am not a doctor I have talked with a couple of woman describing the sex as also good even no orgasm. For them it correlated with the books/studies, and it was the feeling of being wanted over the physical orgasm utself (unlike me/men)
Size is a fetish (very big cocks), and no woman ever told me I was hung (ca 18cm/14.5cm).
Long story short: I want a bigger cock because of my own mission, not to compete
It sure is an interesting subject, even I am not a doctor I have talked with a couple of woman describing the sex as also good even no orgasm. For them it correlated with the books/studies, and it was the feeling of being wanted over the physical orgasm utself (unlike me/men)
Size is a fetish (very big cocks), and no woman ever told me I was hung (ca 18cm/14.5cm).
Long story short: I want a bigger cock because of my own mission, not to compete
I will do anything to get to 7 inches girth as that will be my method of consoling myself. The high body count of women is one of many reasons why I want that girth. No matter their body count, I will likely be the thickest. This is a sad reality brother.
I totally understand, and really... For the sexual only, I dont care about her bodycount at all... Here I would love to present her a huge cock too
. Like being unforgettable lolI totally understand, and really... For the sexual only, I dont care about her bodycount at all... Here I would love to present her a huge cock too
We are in this together, training resumes today.
I've used my temporary expansion from the bathmate on many women in the past so I know the power of such massive girth. Girth commands too much respect and loyalty from women. They will even spend on you due to the constant stretching down there.
Sounds fantastic, and the huge girth you have developed is wild. Need to get started up for real, i think my baseline is a good starting point.
Unfortunately I cant tell many stories from the dating world, Im married and far from use my cock enough
Sounds fantastic, and the huge girth you have developed is wild. Need to get started up for real, i think my baseline is a good starting point.
Unfortunately I cant tell many stories from the dating world, Im married and far from use my cock enough
I'm now in a committed relationship at this time but I don't plan to get married anytime soon. I've become somewhat faithful for the past 3 years and I noticed it has reduced my willingness and zeal to train. Once in a while, I will get sex outside after all, I'm not married and will never be caught cheating due to my ways lol.
Well, i never cheated yet.... Yet... But its getting closer
. And also why I started PE, need to be ready lolWell, i never cheated yet.... Yet... But its getting closer
There is absolutely no way I'm going to be faithful to one woman once I get that 7 inches girth. I must enjoy pounding several women. It's so much fun
