Official 'How Much Do Women Care' Thread

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This has been discussed in a few threads recently, so I thought that perhaps it deserved its own conversation. Here's a few quick links I found googling to start things off:

http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/vanessa4.html

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/penissize.htm

http://www.weBathmated.com/content/pages/16/99333.htm

http://menshealth.about.com/od/sexualhealth/a/sex_satisfactio.htm

http://www.couplescompany.com/Jungle/Size/Size3.htm

So, if oyu checked those out, you'll notice that it's mostly anecdotal information, but most of the articles do seem to be written by women, which is useful.

I'm personally on the side that as long as you're within the normal range and the woman isn't a "size queen" (which most of the articles report as something of a rarity), then you're totally fine. That doesn't mean Penis Enlargement is a waste of time -- I look at it like fitness or bodybuilding, it's just an extra plus on your side and helps with self-confidence and overall body image more than actual sexual satisfaction.

And, another point I've considered is that several of the articles mention that women tend to buy the medium and average sized dildos for masturbation. Obviously these sizes are more than adequite for them to get themselves off with, so a man of similar stature should have no trouble doing the same so long as he's pushing the buttons the right way, right? At the very least, women aren't choosing enormous devices for their own pleasure, so there's no reason that they should require it for sex.

As the articles point out, of course size matters to women, but only to a degree, and all women are different. A lot of guys here seem to equate an 8X6 dick with a guarrantee of tremendous female pleasure every time. I think this is totally false and that there's no such thing as a 'skeleton key' penis that every woman is going to be thrilled with.

Any other opinons?
 
Penis size, in my opinion, is more of a mental fetish. Size talk is by large influenced by society and it is turn on\off due to the values the society has put on it. Physically speaking, even a small cock can do a good job.
 
They care, but not nearly as much as most people here seem to think. My own gains have had no effect on my interactions with women, other than slightly better sex.
 
I think that the actually shape of the penis has something to do with the pleasure, that can be giving to a women. For example the shape of Mandingo and how his internal structures are completely expressed.
 
There are so many ways to pleasure a woman other than with a big penis. Once they're really into it, you can use your tongue and lips and fingers as effectively as a big dick. I have pretty long fingers and I can get her, along with my lips and tongue, to climb the walls and multiple orgasms.

It's all about connection and method. Personally, I like to do it doggy style. She can take it all the way to the hilt. And she knows that's what gets me off the best.

She can also stimulate me manually, then back, off, then repeat it again and again until I"M climbing the wall. That's when I have these orgasms that can last a minute or more.

It all comes with practice and mutual respect. She's tuned in to what I like, and I"m tuned in to what she likes.

But I do miss a good blow job!!!

:P
 
A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
But every girl I have been with thinks its huge. And that makes my job all the easier, they are so turned on by it.

Also, its way easier to score a chick when she thinks your hung - because that reflects positively on your manliness OR vice versa. I mean, personally I think because I act like Im hung (bravado many girls call it) they just assume I am. Even in college one year I scored a chick and when she saw my cock she goes "so its true", turns out the girls had been guessing at who had the largest cock and they guessed me.

So, I am sure its not the size of the dick but how well you get inside her head. If your big I suppose that process is easier.

As for how much women care? They care enough to boast about their hung boyfriends.

Peace
 
pest said:
A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
But every girl I have been with thinks its huge. And that makes my job all the easier, they are so turned on by it.

Also, its way easier to score a chick when she thinks your hung - because that reflects positively on your manliness OR vice versa. I mean, personally I think because I act like Im hung (bravado many girls call it) they just assume I am. Even in college one year I scored a chick and when she saw my cock she goes "so its true", turns out the girls had been guessing at who had the largest cock and they guessed me.

So, I am sure its not the size of the dick but how well you get inside her head. If your big I suppose that process is easier.

As for how much women care? They care enough to boast about their hung boyfriends.

Peace
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That post is 100 % true in my opinion but i will say this


Women dont care much about your size, they're mature

Girls however ''jus wanna have fun''

hahaha But yeah women are more mature!

Also i have heard stories of women avoiding guys who were ''too big''

So i guess the perfect size lies in the 7-8 inch nbp range with like 5.5-6 inch girth
 
women do care about size, but just enough for a man to satisfy her. Most want a man to be more into "her" that "into" her. Yes, that you can fill her up helps, but what's a big dick that's a dick? One of my x gf's did not like my size prior to Penis Enlargement, but I am a good listener, so we were cool.
 
pest said:
A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
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Dude, that's a BIG cock. Is it a MONSTER cock? No.

Think of it like this

small
average
big
WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT

adult entertainment has really warped peoples minds.
 
I dont think on the whole woman give a shit like we do about cock size ... sure most hope for something 'decent' in size such as average or just over average, not so bad them wanting this as males can be funny with regards to breast size aswell.

Most females I have slept with or have allowed to suck my penis have been shocked at the size because it isnt the norm as I have Penis Enlargement'ed so hence they dont see it everyday or when they drop their knickers!!!!

Some have been shy with it, some kinda not into it and some very into it but my feelings are clear, that you dont need a massive cock for the woman ... get yourselves to average size or just above and your fine cos it really aint that much of an issue for woman as it is to ourselves.

Yes we hear woman talk about cock size but GUESS WHAT ... we talk allot about curves, tits and other shiet but it isnt the gospel fact of the matter ... each person is their own so dont fret.

To me having a bigger cock is great for confidence when your out on the pull cos it's like power to me when I get my pants off ... like I have the big cock and aint anything to be afraid of ... but thats my issue and not the womans, she whoever she is will be judgeing it from her experiences with other cocks, the mags she reads and whatever else is in her head and I can tell you it isnt like we think i.e bigger is better .. only heard a few odd woman say this and they were SLUTS and had twats wider than the channel tunnel and faces like rats ring pieces!!! So yea for whores its a ISSUE but for nice decent girls than its not so much an issue unless she has a pref for it like some men do for more shapely arses, bigger tits, pointy nipples etc etc.

Learn to master sex and how to pleasure a womans body ... how to kiss and touch a woman, plus massage is VERY IMPORTANT ... but most of all how to LICK A PUSSY and finger one ..... learn all these like I have and than master them and you can get any female to scream in ecstasy with or without a fuckin big dick ... take that from me as gospel cos I've not only done it when I was smaller albeit I suppose as the studys suggest above average but seen guys with small dicks do it while in groupies ... to me SEXUAL TECHNIQUE is more important to a woman than cock size and how long you can last ... remember these points ... remember them good cos woman ALWAYS ALWAYS remember the smaller details, and yes when you end things they remember that delicate touch, the way I used to smell their neck before slowly kissing them all over .... learn and master dont worry about being huge, average or above will do unless you want it FOR YOURSELF like me ... confidence.

Shitz I miss posting here ;)
 
Size is an issue, obviously we spend much of our free time here. Women, on the other hand, have no clue to what size really means (except the few size queens that may exist) A big penis is that of a man with big confidence...6" can seem like 10 with the right ego. The links that were given in this thread are all but manufactured and created to make money for the sites that post them. If you have any doubts about what I say please read the last post in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] BLOG. Size is very important to us as men...we are here to more to build confidence than a bigger penis. This is probably a poor post for someone who makes his money from Penis Enlargement but I have never pulled any punches. Women see size on a level that is hard to understand. When they feel as though we lack confidence it is an easy target to attack the penis and belittle us to a level that gives them more control. Size has only become an issue because we, as men, have made it an issue. I have never met a woman that has judged me on the size of my penis and I have been with more than 100 women. The times that I have felt intimidated by the thoughts of a woman were the times I felt most insecure about myself. Size is easy, we do it every day, we, as a group, have added many inches to our manhood and this has been only for our own confidence. Women only become critics of size when they are invited to give their opinion. With more than 95% of the men in this world with an average penis (5-6") I highly doubt many of these women interviewed have ever seen more than that. Their confused opinion lies in the confidence of the men who fucked them...plain and simple.
 
REDZULU2003 said:
I dont think on the whole woman give a shit like we do about cock size ... sure most hope for something 'decent' in size such as average or just over average, not so bad them wanting this as males can be funny with regards to breast size aswell.

Most females I have slept with or have allowed to suck my penis have been shocked at the size because it isnt the norm as I have Penis Enlargement'ed so hence they dont see it everyday or when they drop their knickers!!!!

Some have been shy with it, some kinda not into it and some very into it but my feelings are clear, that you dont need a massive cock for the woman ... get yourselves to average size or just above and your fine cos it really aint that much of an issue for woman as it is to ourselves.

Yes we hear woman talk about cock size but GUESS WHAT ... we talk allot about curves, tits and other shiet but it isnt the gospel fact of the matter ... each person is their own so dont fret.

To me having a bigger cock is great for confidence when your out on the pull cos it's like power to me when I get my pants off ... like I have the big cock and aint anything to be afraid of ... but thats my issue and not the womans, she whoever she is will be judgeing it from her experiences with other cocks, the mags she reads and whatever else is in her head and I can tell you it isnt like we think i.e bigger is better .. only heard a few odd woman say this and they were SLUTS and had twats wider than the channel tunnel and faces like rats ring pieces!!! So yea for whores its a ISSUE but for nice decent girls than its not so much an issue unless she has a pref for it like some men do for more shapely arses, bigger tits, pointy nipples etc etc.

Learn to master sex and how to pleasure a womans body ... how to kiss and touch a woman, plus massage is VERY IMPORTANT ... but most of all how to LICK A PUSSY and finger one ..... learn all these like I have and than master them and you can get any female to scream in ecstasy with or without a fuckin big dick ... take that from me as gospel cos I've not only done it when I was smaller albeit I suppose as the studys suggest above average but seen guys with small dicks do it while in groupies ... to me SEXUAL TECHNIQUE is more important to a woman than cock size and how long you can last ... remember these points ... remember them good cos woman ALWAYS ALWAYS remember the smaller details, and yes when you end things they remember that delicate touch, the way I used to smell their neck before slowly kissing them all over .... learn and master dont worry about being huge, average or above will do unless you want it FOR YOURSELF like me ... confidence.

Shitz I miss posting here ;)
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You would never go back to your pre Penis Enlargement size tho would you RED.
 
Exactly right mike, its the confidence in us men and hence thats why I feel much better now with my new size when out on the prowl ... its nothing to do with the woman but myself ... you worded it perfect in your observations that woman attack us in this whole size thing because of this low condifence ... the key is here, you hit the nail on the head with that!

If you want to place the boot on the other foot I suppose we could look at it from a female POV and say the whole issue around breast size and that 'some' woman feel very uneasy about their breast size because they 'think' it gets them more men and/or better attraction from the opposite sex when in fact they dont, only a small populaton of men really only want woman with large tits.

Yes mike, we can use the same observation you made on womans views on size because of our low confidence with the issue with mens views on breast size and womans confidence on that issue .... both sex's are in the sameboat on these issues and its only really now that both are getting hit harder than ever with media being freely available than it was say 50+ years back.

Why do woman spend 1000's of hard earned cash to get larger tits? because they feel the world WANTS THEM ... they feel that men want this more and they will go further with this when infact I dont agree. Its to patch the womans low confidence on the issue of her cup size and that is the SAME AS US MEN with our cocks ... some of us may very well spend in the future or have done 1000's on surgery and why? same reasons as the above ... confidence linked to the opposite sex .... when you ask the most IMPORTANT QUESTION HOWEVER for both parties ..... does size really matter [Cup and cock] the answer is NO IT DOES NOT .... to me average breast size or just above is fine .. if I love her and shes small than it has no bareing to me ... I think woman think the same.
 
Pandora said:
You would never go back to your pre Penis Enlargement size tho would you RED.
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No I wouldnt but that's because of my own confidence as I stated in the post and not what woman want from me ... do you understand? now like haveing a larger cock and it makes me feel powerful when pulkling the woman so its great but it doesnt make me more succesful at pulling woman or getting them off when its compared to before because as I said you must know what to do with your tongue, fingers and the sheets!!! rofl
 
Lot's of very good posts here. I really like Red's example of the fact that women only get breast enlargement because they percieve that to be the world's preference, even though many guys don't really give a shit if a woman is extremely busty or not.

DLD also weighs in very importantly on the confidence issue. Size is an issue when men make it an issue through insecurity and a certain mindset.

I think the best thing to take away from it is the general sentiment that you should pursue Penis Enlargement for your own confidence and self-image, not because you think you need it for some physiological or sexual reason. One of the reasons I created this thread is that I was seeing more and more posts where men seemed to feel that a big dick is a universal key to both attracting women and also providing sexual pleasure in any situation. I think after reading this thread most will see that this clearly isn't the case.

And, as Red pointed out, if you're good in the sack and confident, size is probably one of the least important factors. Unless the woman is a whore, has a huge vagina, or is some callous bitch, size is not going to be a significant factor so far as most women are concerned.
 
Women do care, but they care that you are big enough to satisfy them, so I guess that anything from 6 in and above should do the job with no problems.
 
pest said:
A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
But every girl I have been with thinks its huge. And that makes my job all the easier, they are so turned on by it.

Also, its way easier to score a chick when she thinks your hung - because that reflects positively on your manliness OR vice versa. I mean, personally I think because I act like Im hung (bravado many girls call it) they just assume I am. Even in college one year I scored a chick and when she saw my cock she goes "so its true", turns out the girls had been guessing at who had the largest cock and they guessed me.

So, I am sure its not the size of the dick but how well you get inside her head. If your big I suppose that process is easier.

As for how much women care? They care enough to boast about their hung boyfriends.

Peace
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Good post.
 
I understand these new points being raised i.e the girls in college and clubs going on about the huge cocks or bigger cocks, guessing with freinds etc BUT that in my mind isnt the norm with woman ... I dont want to piss on anyones parade or claim I know everything as I DO NOT and my views are my own based on my beliefs and experience with woman on this whole area and with this girls guessing stuff its usually them being slutty and can be compared to wild guys going on the pull eachnight in the clubs and shagging everything they can [I did when I was in my mid teens :) ] but now I want a nice decent lady and I have found many do not care much about size at all.

Hey maybe in college like the guys some go through a phase .. I mean think about it, they are together in groups and sex is always on the mind in them younger days so yea cocks will be talked about but I think its wrong to think that because of those actions by them 'girls' that its the view of the female species ... again this is just my 2 cents.

Someone else said woman care enough for size to satisfy them ... I agree to some extent ... average is always nice and should suffice for most woman but the most important ingedient of this cake - 'man' is is sexual method, how long can he last etc as I have talked over in a recent thread ... THIS MATTERS more than size and I can vouch for that being bigger now.

For the woman who get turned on by bigger cocks ... hey some men like fat woman and get turned on by them, I also have a mate who gets turned on by drinking his girls piss ... extreme examples I know but my point is each to their own it Isnt the view of the whole ... some woman care about size but most dont in my opinion ... what MOST do care about is how you perform in the sack ... master this and YOU WILL get more shags ... I have heard girls I have railroaded on one night stands boast by marathan sex sessions to their fellow sluts and hence I get threesomes and foursomes rofl its great but bo dougt some like the larger me but if I couldnt make them cum like I have done than they wouldnt be so fucking into haveing more ... you can have the best most powerful sports car in the world but in the hands of someone who cant handle its speed its useless .. same applies with men and their cocks but this is going onto another subject.

cheers
 
I go to a school with lots of "good girls". I know for a fact they don't discuss penis sizes amongst each other. You can question my knowing that, but why would you? A lot of them haven't seen more than 1 or 2 penises in their life. There are those who have, but most haven't. My GF, for example, has seen 1 and lucky for me it was a shorty (it was in a movie as well)!

I feel like the "Desperate Housewives" society is the minority.

I, however, can be very wrong.
 
qkeyboard, that sounds like the school I go to. Of course, the school is a Christian university in a southern state, and it has strict rules. Most of the girls don't even see one till their wedding night here. There are a few bad girls, but they mostly hang out with the football players that the school brings in to try and get a winning team.
 
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A Christian school in a southern state?

Would you mind telling which one?

Ours is much like that. Strict rules, etc. My girlfriend said she really doesn't even know what to expect. Which is good, I suppose. It kind've scares me though because I wouldn't want her unknown expectations to be higher than I can give.
 
pest;266666 said:
A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
But every girl I have been with thinks its huge. And that makes my job all the easier, they are so turned on by it.

Also, its way easier to score a chick when she thinks your hung - because that reflects positively on your manliness OR vice versa. I mean, personally I think because I act like Im hung (bravado many girls call it) they just assume I am. Even in college one year I scored a chick and when she saw my cock she goes "so its true", turns out the girls had been guessing at who had the largest cock and they guessed me.

So, I am sure its not the size of the dick but how well you get inside her head. If your big I suppose that process is easier.

As for how much women care? They care enough to boast about their hung boyfriends.

Peace
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so true how many stories have we heard of guys constantly getting bugged for sex in the workplace or wherever because a rumor goes around he has a big dick......girls r just as visual and as horny as men
 
my experience tells me that girls are into male behavior (unless they are lesbians, and even in some cases here they are still into male behavior)

If you hear about girls sex fantasies, some things goes through:

Big muscles,
raw attitude,
dominance,
alpha behavior.

When all comes down to it females are attracted to "real men"

the hardworking carpenter is hotter than the office guy and so on.

And 1 thing that i have seen with many girls is that dominance is something they love.

My girlfriend was studying for her exams, and she is trying to become an arkitect.

haven't seen her for 3 weeks because she is busy.

she calls me and ask if i got time to come over. and i sayd sure and came by,
now usually i "set the rules" she is from southern europe and for her it is important that i have the role of a male. and she gets pissed when i don't do my biddings in this case.
but as she is studying i didn't want her to focus on anything but her school so i kind of give her the power to make decisions.

so i came over to her place, and after 10 mins she started a fight. it wasn't an usual fight and something was weird about it, and i just snapped at some point and literally ripped her clothes off and fucked her silly, pulled her hair, spanked her, told her she was a slut. all these funny things.
after the sex (which lasted 15 mins)
she started fighting again. so i fucked her silly 1 more time (this time i think for like an hour)
afterwards she was dripping wet and it was all over me.
and i could see the smile in her face. what she needed was to be dominated, she needed to feel a man taking her sexually, she needed to feel wanted and she needed to feel the power taken away from her,
she needed to feel like a women who is taken by a man.

my point with this story? a women wants dominance, and it is just 1 part of how to become a good lover, but it is diffently a big one and upmost important.
and i can't think of many things that are more important than her seeing a big cock sliding into her pussy while she is hold down and gasping for air.

so i truly mean that size is important, but not as important as we try to make it.

as Redzulu says, learn your tricks! and know your battle field.
after reading a shitload of sex books and equally stuff i have now reached 14 orgasms from my girlfriend in 1 session.
she loves the sex and i can more than satisfy her, usually she is trying to catch her breath afterwards trying to tell me im amazing,

But no questions about it, with my own knowledge about sex with a bigger cock! i can give a better result.

Also sex doesn't start when the 2 of you gets naked. it starts when you sniff her hair in the morning, telling her how she makes you react and how much you want her.

when you give her texts during the day telling her what you wanna do to her.

Sex is way more than we think.

and for her to know that her little pussy has a hard time getting stretched out,,,,, will be a MAJOR turn on!!!!!
 
Aimingforthetop;386862 said:
my experience tells me that girls are into male behavior (unless they are lesbians, and even in some cases here they are still into male behavior)

If you hear about girls sex fantasies, some things goes through:

Big muscles,
raw attitude,
dominance,
alpha behavior.

When all comes down to it females are attracted to "real men"

the hardworking carpenter is hotter than the office guy and so on.

And 1 thing that i have seen with many girls is that dominance is something they love.

My girlfriend was studying for her exams, and she is trying to become an arkitect.

haven't seen her for 3 weeks because she is busy.

she calls me and ask if i got time to come over. and i sayd sure and came by,
now usually i "set the rules" she is from southern europe and for her it is important that i have the role of a male. and she gets pissed when i don't do my biddings in this case.
but as she is studying i didn't want her to focus on anything but her school so i kind of give her the power to make decisions.

so i came over to her place, and after 10 mins she started a fight. it wasn't an usual fight and something was weird about it, and i just snapped at some point and literally ripped her clothes off and fucked her silly, pulled her hair, spanked her, told her she was a slut. all these funny things.
after the sex (which lasted 15 mins)
she started fighting again. so i fucked her silly 1 more time (this time i think for like an hour)
afterwards she was dripping wet and it was all over me.
and i could see the smile in her face. what she needed was to be dominated, she needed to feel a man taking her sexually, she needed to feel wanted and she needed to feel the power taken away from her,
she needed to feel like a women who is taken by a man.

my point with this story? a women wants dominance, and it is just 1 part of how to become a good lover, but it is diffently a big one and upmost important.
and i can't think of many things that are more important than her seeing a big cock sliding into her pussy while she is hold down and gasping for air.

so i truly mean that size is important, but not as important as we try to make it.

as Redzulu says, learn your tricks! and know your battle field.
after reading a shitload of sex books and equally stuff i have now reached 14 orgasms from my girlfriend in 1 session.
she loves the sex and i can more than satisfy her, usually she is trying to catch her breath afterwards trying to tell me im amazing,

But no questions about it, with my own knowledge about sex with a bigger cock! i can give a better result.

Also sex doesn't start when the 2 of you gets naked. it starts when you sniff her hair in the morning, telling her how she makes you react and how much you want her.

when you give her texts during the day telling her what you wanna do to her.

Sex is way more than we think.

and for her to know that her little pussy has a hard time getting stretched out,,,,, will be a MAJOR turn on!!!!!
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Beautiful Post!
 
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