no support from other half

[thenewguy]

yeah, im in a pretty serious relationship thats been going on for about 3 years. i recently found Penis Enlargement and discussed it with my girl, but oddly enough she is totally against it.

at first she was like whatever, but once i started wanting to clamp, and use an [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words], i could really see that she didn't care for it.

she says that she loves me the way i am (i say im average, but she doesn't) and that she didn't support it.

anyone else's "partner" like that? i know a lot of you don't say anything, but i didn't care and still don't if she knew or not.

i can still do it, but it is just so strange as to see her act so boldly about not wanting me to get any bigger... ?

weird huh?

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

my gf loves it

 

[pepepe]

yeah, im in a pretty serious relationship thats been going on for about 3 years. i recently found Penis Enlargement and discussed it with my girl, but oddly enough she is totally against it.

at first she was like whatever, but once i started wanting to clamp, and use an [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words], i could really see that she didn't care for it.

she says that she loves me the way i am (i say im average, but she doesn't) and that she didn't support it.

anyone else's "partner" like that? i know a lot of you don't say anything, but i didn't care and still don't if she knew or not.

i can still do it, but it is just so strange as to see her act so boldly about not wanting me to get any bigger... ?

weird huh?

Why is she so against it? she's supposed to support you in your decisions.

 

[thenewguy]

true to the above, and she knows that my thing consumes me a lot of the time. i love and am thankful for what i have, but every second i think about it i just want to improve it just a little bit.

she does support what i want and desire, but she just doesn't like Penis Enlargement for some reason. she isn't too fond of her body and has to learn to accept it and i guess she thinks i need to do the same. she loves me that much to where she thinks im perfect (in that sense).

??? strange when i think about it, but i guess im lucky!

 

[prince Albert]

I think most women don't understand why a man would want to do pe but they could accept a man doing pe exercises,stretching jelqing but once you start clamping,hanging ect. it most come across as a bit weird almost bondage like.

My wife regularily see's me hanging but still thinks its strange,the comparison i make is that she got a boob job because she was unhappy with the size of her breasts and i'm doing what i have to to get to the size i want.

 

[drew21]

I would be affraid to tell my gf, which is kinda sad i guess

 

[thenewguy]

idk. it seems like i don't want to tell people that i am unhappy with my current size and i want more so im "working out" my penis to make it bigger, but with her i guess we just have this bond.

i guess im not the only male whose looked at negatively (at all) for doing pe...

 

[Chi]

Keep at it, just be carefull, and after a few months she will start loving the results.

 

[harmonic169]

You know, this brings up a question I've been meaning to ask: I'm dating this girl right now, and she knows I Penis Enlargement. As with the above, she doesn't 'get' it, but I'm not sure most women do.

Anyhow, my thing is, if she and I break up, I'm going to meet a new girl, of course. So when she says "Wow, that thing is fucking massive!" (Should be about 16"x10" by then.) What should I say? Think I should tell her that I spent x number of years pulling on my cock, or just pretend it's what I was born with?

Hmm.... thoughts?

 

[thenewguy]

i think with a fresh relationship and a massive tool i wouldn't just come out and be like "yeah i Penis Enlargement.", i wouldn't say much until things became more comfortable.

either way it wouldn't matter. you should be proud of what you did for yourself and if you tell the new one that made it that big i don't think anything bad will come out of it... she will probably be impressed with you and you reaching your goals.

so i guess if the time if right and you feel up to it, tell her.

 

[brittney_sue]

i was the same way as your girl for awhile. then i thought about it and bdj explained it to me more and i realized i need to support him in his decisions and recognize that when i try and work for things i want he doesn't get angry with me.and eventually I've come to love it.

 

[Mr. Nine]

I hate it for you man, support from the woman is so good to have. I hope it works out for you.

 

[crazyed27]

Why is she so against it? she's supposed to support you in your decisions.

I almost bet, since she is uncomfortable with herself, she thinks that since you Penis Enlargement you are tring to make your dick bigger so you can go around and stuff your huge cock in other girls just to see there reaction. Which IMO is cool as hell! But not in are girlfiends opinion!

My girl sometimes says that she is feeling like this, in very negative ways!

 

[sikdogg]

My wife was indifferent wheni first told her about Penis Enlargement... but after noticing the girth increases, she was much more supportive.

 

[nystrongstroke2]

yeah a while back my lady told me that if i get any bigger that she wouldnt fuck me anymore--this is when i was at my prime and started slackin on my daily routine-so i slowed it down.My advice to you is keep it a secret-trust me we're talking about women here.One min its this way the next its that way,u got into pe for urself--keep doing what ya doing dont let nobody discourage ya.

 

[chads]

my wife accually helps me with my Penis Enlargement. She was against it at first and told me she doesnt want it any other way. But I explained to her it was not only enlargement, but was to maintain a healthy penis.She said " sex till we are 100" She's helped ever since.Try to explain to her hat the benefits are.
hope this helps

 

[quijjiboo]

Maybe some girls just aren't comfortable being with a guy who does something as seemingly crazy as Penis Enlargement. Let her get used to it, it will probably wear off.

 

[drew21]

Yeah i would definatley pretend i was born with it.

 

[bigcatlionII]

I briefly mentioned it to my wife and she was totally against it. She started thinking I was some sort of freak and pervert. I tried to explain to herthat it is no different than her boobjob, going to the gym, tattooed eyeliner, and her wanting to drop 10lbs. It seems to be a freeak'n double standard for us guys. Just beacause I want an above average penis size and that I am willing to Penis Enlargement it there, even with noticeable results, now her husband and father of our children is a perve. I am not, I just want to better myself and feel better about myself. After noticeable lenghth and girth siez; I feel more confident at work and in the sack. So, I do Penis Enlargement in stealth mode and so far she is clueless; except tp the fact that she omitted some positions beacause it hurts too much and that she seems to enjoy bj more often. The best part is my flaccid length has increased and I do not attempt to cover up like I used to. I used to have a small flaccid size, but with an above average erected cock. It is nicer to have a larger flaccid hang. I am still amazed by the changes in permanent flaccid length.

 

[thenewguy]

if nothing else i can definately see how much she cares for me and what i was born with. she has never made reference to wanting anything more than me and i really think we fit together. me being a male (normal) and wanting to better myself for my, and my girl's sake and no other womans is still and always will be alright to me, so i will continue... just not so openly.

 

[PR69]

i dont want to sound negative in anyway, but maybe she WOULD like you to have a bigger penis but she doesnt want to say it because shes afraid it will make u feel bad about urself or somthing if she did. And also, if she did agree with you she might think that you would think that you arent satisfying her.
Just my oppinion.

 

[brittney_sue]

that makes complete sense when i started to love the fact bdj did it i was scared he would think its because I'm not happy with his current size. she just needs to get comfortable with the whole thing first and i think she will come around. she needs to be able to trust that it will not hurt your feelings if she comes to like it. i was this way for awhile.......
hope this helps a little
and yes don't stop doing something you want to do because she isn't supportive of it. give it time.

 

[BusyMan]

I told my wife that I started Penis Enlargement'ing about two months ago. At first she didn't want me to do it, but accepted it because it was something that I wanted. Now her attitude towards it is much more laid back. She's even cuious about it. Some nights she even asks me if I'm going to "work 'it' out" tonight. I still think that she find it a little silly, though.

With regards to the guy who thought that your wife/girlfriend said she didn't want you to Penis Enlargement because she deep down inside wanted you to do it: that does not make sense to me at all. If she had a desire for it, and you suggested it, she would absolutely not say that you shouldnt do it.

My suggestion is to let her know that you do it; that you're doing it because it is something you want to do (and not because you think it is something she wants), and to give it time. Once she sees that it isn't dangerous, or that you become some sort of pervo because of it, shell lighten up. I am very happy I told my wife. I wouldn't want to go around hiding away. Plus, we've had some very interesting discussions on size after I told her...

 

[going4nine]

With regards to the guy who thought that your wife/girlfriend said she didn't want you to Penis Enlargement because she deep down inside wanted you to do it: that does not make sense to me at all. If she had a desire for it, and you suggested it, she would absolutely not say that you shouldnt do it.

The problem here is that you're trying to apply reason where women are concerned.

 

[joe_smith]

I haven't told my gf yet. The problem I am running into is that she is noticing the size difference and bring it up almost every time we mess around. It makes me kinda nervous. I just blow it off, but i know she knows something is up. So i decided to just not tell her as of now until I reach a size I'm happy to stay at and even then I might not tell her. I have learn if i don't give her the ammo to get mad then she doesn't get mad. So why tell her and set my self up for an argument lol .

 

[BusyMan]

Going4nine,

With your argumentation, you could believe nothing that a woman says, and only what you want to think yourself.
I have to disagree with you on that one.

 

[[P]okey[B]ear]

The problem here is that you're trying to apply reason where women are concerned.

reason and women are like fat women and hot pants

 

[yetogrow]

Why do you care?
Taking sport as an example I noticed that only women who are active themselves can really accept and understand when you are crazy about gym or any other sport.

One of my girlfriends when I told her about Penis Enlargement started to keep asking me what kind of pussy exercises she can do and if she can help me with Penis Enlargement. Unfortunately I broke up with her soon (typical stupid me) but it was a great attitude. She wanted both of us get better and not holding me down. It doesn't matter if it's your dick or something else your woman should support you not hold you down.

Fuck her.