maybe my problems and obession is mental?

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so talking with the girl today she finally told me 7.5 8 inchs was the biggest shes had in length and 6 was the thickest shes ever had both she said really didn't get enjoyment hurt her. i measure out to 6.5 little over 5 average. i been doing work outs no gains yet been like 2 weeks of actual doing it everyday 2 sets of dlds newbie. when shes on top and leans back she does get hurt i'm not surei if im measuring right if i measure from under my penis its exactly 7.5. but from a non pressed pubic bone its 6.5 pressed its little over 7. should i just stop in the length if shes telling me she really doesn't want me to and focus on some [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] exercises i can go for like 5 6 minutes never really had that problem until recently
 
our problem IS mental. Penis Enlargement is more of a confidence booster then anything, the extra pleasure that comes form a bigger penis is vastly exaggerated. An 8 inch penis can painfully hit the cervex, a 6 inch girth can lead to painful stretching*. The vast majority of dildos have smaller dimensions then that, meaning girls that get to CHOOSE their dicks don't prefer 8 inch insertable length and a 6 inch circumference. If your sole goal is satisfying girls, use the time you spend jelqing to cook for them and take out the trash.

Still, if you want the confidence booster of a large penis there are ways for sex to become pleasurable for both partners. If you are hitting the cervex, try controlling how deep in your penis goes or using differant positions. Girth can also be managed through experience, doing it slowly at first, and lots and lots of lubrication. Its likely she COULD have enjoyed her last boyfriend if she had a longer relationship with her, or they did more foreplay. But if your girl is still hurting after having sex for a long time, and creating enough lube to wet a slip-and-slide with, your girl might have some issues and should see a gynocologist. Hey, DLD and mandingo still manage to have sex ;).
 
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when we tak bout this its hard for her to not sceam at me cuz she says im the best but i dont think i am
she says she hated having sex with them cuz it made her feel stuffed no pleasure at all at any time and would rarley do anything with them i beleive it cuz we barley have sex and they eventally cheated on her
i seen pain in her face and a non pleaseuble moan if i go push all way in like i said
6.5 from pelvic bone pressed 7.5 pressed and if she leans back on top.
so i fear if i do get any bigger she mite not like me sid in time shed get usd to it but would rather me stay where im at cuz i hit her spot and been the only guy to give her a orgasim since she had her kid 4 years ago. she supports me if i want to i do but im not even sure if im jelqing i should prob find a video or join the member site.
for some [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] and and girth exersices
 
"when we tak bout this its hard for her to not sceam at me cuz she says im the best but i dont think i am"

This, quite frankly I'm not too surprised about. If there is something thats not attractive in a man, its lack of confidence. Talking about how insecure you are about your penis size is roughly as attractive as her saying "Am I too fat?". But I can't really add anything more for what to do if your penis gets bigger.
 
If she is happy with your size you should feel good. You can Penis Enlargement and as you grow she will be able to handle it. It is not like your going to gain 4" over night and stab her:) Penis Enlargement is slight length and girth increases over time so she will slowly adjust to the size increases. If she really does not want you to get bigger then, if you really love her, skip Penis Enlargement.
 
yeah i think shes just being nice i wish she could be open and just tell me the truth i see visually i make her cum but i think shes used to going longer then 8 minutes usually how long we go at a fast rate lol when im in bed and shes on the floor playing ps2 she goes are you doing your exercises so i think shes hinting shed like a little more and im secretly doing them with out her ok lol cuz its about me not her i just wish i knew what was her limit or to big for her was she wont tell me always says i don't want ot remember so i think its some monsters of cock stuff lol
 
Do what makes you happy.

Do Penis Enlargement for you, not for a girl. I really doubt a girl will break up with you because your dick is too big...
 
Bro sambo you do realise how you are making a fool out of yourself everytime you have discussions like this with her, you may be the best judge of this but she did not fall in love with you or wanted to get into a relationship after she pulled your pants down and saw your member now did she ? She made the choice because she loves you for who you are. Women are very good at hiding their true emotions and having situations like that will make her feel that you are just like ANYOTHER SELF OBSESSED COCK CRAZY man ... YOU ARE NOT.
Dont get yourself illusionized with the mindset that having a BIG cock will make her love you more and feel SATISFIED.

If there was a situation where a woman has encountered two men. ONE with a 8 inch SHLONG (with a cocky "I slept with countless women" attitude which might initially make the girl all impressed since hez all ALPHA) and the other a simple man with a wonderful personality (whats his COCK size ? No one knows coz he never brags about it)

ENTER SITUATION : Woman sleeps with 8 inch man. Cocky guy bangs her left right and centre , in every different position (he has the length to do it) , whether he had foreplay ? no one knows ? whether the woman was equally turned on or was she just nervous ? NO one cares coz Mr Cocky guy thought HEY I have an 8 INCH DICK I will make the B*TCH cum and make her BEG me for MORE. Rat a tat tat and he cums all over. Falls asleep beside her.

Woman sleeps with the simple man , she likes him for hes very charming and funny and sweet to her , makes her feel loved and makes her feel special. BUT TRAGEDY STRIKES (from a man's point of view) he is not HUNG like Mr. Cocky ...but ...tut tut tut... he doesn't care .. he was more focused on the girl he is with than anything else , he makes LOVE to her and NOT SEX , he succeeds in emotionally connecting with her, make her feel good about her body and her presence , how she makes you feel on top of the world, KISSES , Cuddles ... ORAL SEX where the girl is moaning and screaming because she's not nervous at all because she is FUCKING HORNIER than you are ... her body is so sensitive to the touch because that is how you make her feel with your warmth, your touch and your insatiable desire for her. Now comes the moment of TRUTH ... the SEX ... you penetrate in her .. she MOANS ... you love it too ...JUST WHEN you thought NOTHING could go wrong ... you came too soon ... hardly 5 minutes ??!!! (OMG THE GUYS THE BIGGEST LOSER is what we will think ?) BUT ... despite what not he goes up to the girl , KISSES her , strokes her .. makes her feel how she is the most beautiful girl in the world.
And end up what might be called a disastrous nite with the most intimate manner.

NEXT DAY : GIRL IS CONFUSED (0_o) who should she CHOOSE !!?

Mr. Cocky ??

Pros :
1)8 inch COCK (this is what we guys would think)

2)COCKY MANLY ATTITUDE ... no wait ... it was fun before but now hes just too arrogant and uptight I rather keep it to the CONS since I dont feel like he treats me right ... is what she thinks ....

3) ???? ummmmm 4) ??? ummm

Maybe I should think of the sex ... yeah ... I mean he lasted more than the other guy and we tried different positions (FOR A GUY THAT MEANS HE IS THE KING OF THE WORLD) ... but he hurt me rather than made me feel good about it ? I actually felt like I was violated than loved ...

Mr Personality :

PRO: Wow he is such a sweet heart , I actually enjoy being with him ... he makes me laugh and spends time with me. I mean I totally LOVE to hang out with him, I love the way he strokes my face when talking , or how attentively he listens to what I have to say, he is so considerate ... I mean he is TOTALLY boyfriend material ...

Con : AVERAGE COCK and LASTED for 5 MINUTES (is what us GUYS would think)
BUT TRUTH IS ... SHE never felt like this WITH ANY OTHER MAN .... H E A V E N is the place he made me go to ... she made me feel like a woman ..

So in the end ... Mr. Personality wins ... whats BETTER is that HE's GOT THE GIRL ... AND with time and patience he can enlarge his cock to the size of Mr. Cocky ... and she gets to have the BEST OF BOTH WORLDS ... who do you think will linger on her mind all day then ? Even if she does like big cocks ... YOU CAN ACHIEVE THAT ... but NOT at the cost of risking your relationship with her because by the time you reached your gains you have achieved that at the risk of being intimate with her...

Enjoy the intimacy with her because ANY WOMAN would throw away a HUGE dick to have a connection with someone the way you do with your girl. PAST IS THE PAST ... you are what you are because of your PRESENT ...I will just end my LONG boring lecture with something from Kung Fu Panda .... "The past is history , tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift thats where we call it the "PRESENT" " :)

ITS YOUR CHOICE ... you have the girl your LOVE ... everything is GOOD ... WOULD YOU RISK it all just coz you feel inadequate ? (DESPITE the awesome intimacy you share with her) Or WOULD YOU RISK IT ALL with her ... for a BIG COCK ...and the have the scenario of having the Package but you lost the girl ? THINK !! ? :)
 
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sambo;325946 said:
so talking with the girl today she finally told me 7.5 8 inchs was the biggest shes had in length and 6 was the thickest shes ever had both she said really didn't get enjoyment hurt her. i measure out to 6.5 little over 5 average. i been doing work outs no gains yet been like 2 weeks of actual doing it everyday 2 sets of dlds newbie. when shes on top and leans back she does get hurt i'm not surei if im measuring right if i measure from under my penis its exactly 7.5. but from a non pressed pubic bone its 6.5 pressed its little over 7. should i just stop in the length if shes telling me she really doesn't want me to and focus on some [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] exercises i can go for like 5 6 minutes never really had that problem until recently
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sounds like you got a good g/f that doesn't focus on the size of your tool,but, how well and how long you use it.

Look up,kegals and edging... I've kept in orgasms and held erections up to an hour doing those.
 
Good advice!! Just focus on kegels and edging and keeping your erections rock hard for your honey. I wouldn't rock the boat at this time. So long as you are with this gal who likes you exactly as you are, I wouldn't focus on getting a bigger dick.

It's a no-gainer, by the way, to discuss penis-size with some women. She sounds like she is one of them. You can't read her mind. And if you could, women are much too complex to understand, especially from a male point of view.

Enjoy the great relationship you have, and let the rest of it go. It's in your head, not hers.
 
I can tell you this much, obsessive personalities only appeal to a small fraction of women. Most will not understand this type of man and end the relationship. If you love her and your obsessiveness is getting in the way get professional help and get medicated. If I do not take my meds and see my counselor I become so obsessive it is debilitating. Cognitive work if just as important as medication. I have written extensively on this and reading my threads and many other available will help you immensely too.
 
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