Mail order brides

wants9 said:
Do they tend to congregate anywhere in particular?

Well, I live in Mid Atlantic resort areas. Also from knwoing girlfriends friends and family, I know there are communities in the Chicago area. But in general I see an increase in students, workers, and travelers from Eastern Europe.
 
wants9 said:
Does anyone have experience with international dating services (i.e. mail order brides)? I'm not looking to go with one right now. However, there really feels to me like there's a growing dearth of real ladies in the U.S., so it has my interest piqued.

im not talking about you guys specifically, but nationally the only thing wrong with american women is that american men has let them turn us into a bunch of androgynous wimps. forget all that queer eye, dashboard confessionals, dr phil, and whatever sensitivity garbage. this isnt really a legitimate argument and kind of joking/halfway serious immature post, but i mean come on youve all seen it. the truly "rugged" (not the abercrombie kind) or unpolished male is dying. im not really putting together a good argument and this really just venting (ive done that a lot tonite), but if you guys know what i mean go ahead and respond or if you think im an idiot go ahead too its all welcome.
 
blue1214198203 said:
im not talking about you guys specifically, but nationally the only thing wrong with american women is that american men has let them turn us into a bunch of androgynous wimps. forget all that queer eye, dashboard confessionals, dr phil, and whatever sensitivity garbage. this isnt really a legitimate argument and kind of joking/halfway serious immature post, but i mean come on youve all seen it. the truly "rugged" (not the abercrombie kind) or unpolished male is dying. im not really putting together a good argument and this really just venting (ive done that a lot tonite), but if you guys know what i mean go ahead and respond or if you think im an idiot go ahead too its all welcome.


Actually, You are exactly right, and this is why I go for Eastern European chicks and they go for me. All the American chicks go for very wimpy "metrosexual" ( no disrespect to any genuine metros here)types, and I'm more a rugged individualist. With all due modesty I am one of the few genuine people I know. Everyone is so phony. I try not to generalize, but the American girls I know go for the phony types and guys who are prettier than they are. The Europeans I know however like rugged Americans and they also know the chick is supposed to be the "pretty" one.

You are exactly right, but I'm going to be myself. I am a capitalist, but I'm not going to change my product to fit in a market. I will take my product to the market where it is in demand.

Fuck it. I want to start a revolution for men to reclaim their balls.
 
wants9 said:
ITA. I only used the term "mail order bride" since that's more easily understood by most people than something like "foreign dating service".

Obviously, I knew you weren't looking at the subject in a negative light. I get frustrated by comments like that of Blu and their often more harsh from others. Hey, for some of us, meeting people can be hard. The internet opens up world of possibilities and you're not necessarily a loser for using such services. Gone are the days of one often marrying a school sweetheart. Many of us hit our late 20s/early 30s, realize we've not found any quality prospects, while realizes our lives are hectic to say the least.

I've heard of eHarmony, too. In fact, I went through some of their free questionnaire a while back (have yet to finish it, though). If appearances are indicative, it's a pretty rigorous filter. I've heard that the head shrinker that started it is close to Focus on the Family, which is a plus for me.

At the recommendation of a coworker (chick), I tried it one rainy Saturday, just to see what it is like. Seemed like a great service. I left my account open for a couple days to see what would filter in for matches, but did not contact anyone and closed it down, as the time is not right for anything of substance.
 
blue1214198203 said:
im not talking about you guys specifically, but nationally the only thing wrong with american women is that american men has let them turn us into a bunch of androgynous wimps. forget all that queer eye, dashboard confessionals, dr phil, and whatever sensitivity garbage. this isnt really a legitimate argument and kind of joking/halfway serious immature post, but i mean come on youve all seen it. the truly "rugged" (not the abercrombie kind) or unpolished male is dying. im not really putting together a good argument and this really just venting (ive done that a lot tonite), but if you guys know what i mean go ahead and respond or if you think im an idiot go ahead too its all welcome.

There is something to be said for that, but today's kindler, gentler man is the product of yesterday's feminist revolution. So who is really to blame?
 
bigbutnottoo said:
Fuck it. I want to start a revolution for men to reclaim their balls.
Project Mayhem is GO! Seriously, I think it's far past time that us men reasserted ourselves. Nature organized life in such a way that we are aggressive and are the leaders. Tinkering around with a system that's worked well for millennia has historically been a very bad idea.


penguinsfan said:
At the recommendation of a coworker (chick), I tried it one rainy Saturday, just to see what it is like. Seemed like a great service. I left my account open for a couple days to see what would filter in for matches, but did not contact anyone and closed it down, as the time is not right for anything of substance.
I've read that most people don't get matches for several weeks, but then they start getting good results.

penguinsfan said:
There is something to be said for that, but today's kindler, gentler man is the product of yesterday's feminist revolution. So who is really to blame?
I understand you mean commiewhores here, like Betty Friedan, Gloria Steinam, and Susan B. Anthony. However, we've had our share of Benedict Arnolds as well, like that pussy in Tennessee that was the deciding vote on the 19th Amendment and voted yea just because his mama told him to.

Women only have their grip on men's balls because we dropped trou for them.
 
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