I've got no game and i'm not scared to admit it. You guys know of any good books or any online stuff I can look through. Can't be anything expensive like those seminars or maybe videos I can download offline. I don't know i'm desperate I always get so nervous and stuff blow it almost every time.
I've Got No Game
i'm currentely working on the one on the left. She may not be super hot but she's got a sexy personality and she's a virgin to men but she's bisexual. She's fun to be with and i'm asking her out soon as I get off house arrest in December. I just hope she doesn't have a bf before then.
She looks nice dude. Hopefully you got her permission before posting her picture. As for the no game situation do you mean that with Random girls or do you mean that with her? Because if you mean that with her, well I dont think you really need a full on game when you are with a friend. It should be a much easier task trying for someone you know. If you get too nervous with this girl you should spend more time with female friends.
If you're looking how to improve your game for random girls I know theres a few ebooks you can download on Limewire or other peer to peer downloading networks. I have looked at a couple there is a few handy hints but there is no miracles. Also most of them are probably a bit outdated now. Im sure also that there is probably some free websites with advice and/or newsgroups you can sign up to if your really that interested.
If you're looking how to improve your game for random girls I know theres a few ebooks you can download on Limewire or other peer to peer downloading networks. I have looked at a couple there is a few handy hints but there is no miracles. Also most of them are probably a bit outdated now. Im sure also that there is probably some free websites with advice and/or newsgroups you can sign up to if your really that interested.
Game is fucking stupid in the first place. I know some girls that like guys with game which I think is retarded. I dont wanna be with some slut that is only liking me because I wooed her with good "game". Just be yourself man, but funny and playful, and things should fall in place. If they dont you dont need her anyways. If all else fails be around her in a situation where she gets drunk and take advantage of her.
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jkisineffect
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let the girls come to you - not the other way around
trust me - if your trying to hard - they will take yu as a desperate
fuck trying to get laid
if she turns you down - there's plenty of cunt out there
trust me - if your trying to hard - they will take yu as a desperate
fuck trying to get laid
if she turns you down - there's plenty of cunt out there
You can always invite her over for dinner...
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KiTTie8695
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Just snag her dude, hang out with her, go out with her, but don't make it seem like you're desperate. Normal girls hate that shit 
Can someone explain Game for us uk members
game...wrap...a persuasive manner...mostly cocky and funny style of talking to women. It' basically how well you handle a situation when approaching a girl. I'm sure someone could explain it better as I've lost my game. I had one too, but shit just got messed up the last two years and now my confidence is shot to hell.
thnx for all the advice guys. And I think I might invite her over for dinner good idea.
thefranchise said:
Lol...the basis behind the concept that brought us half the population today.
Man...I understand that it's a sure fire way, but man I honestly (and this is the only conviction I have too) will NOT take advantage of a drunk girl....not even one that's tipsy. Even if she wants it I have a tough time going through with doing something with her. It's not a judgement on anyone either just to let it be known because it can be lead to a cool time and mostly funny/fun stories amongst friends. However, while I have a very low moral ground this is one thing I just don't do.
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KiTTie8695
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thefranchise said:
Coming from a rape victim myself, I suggest keeping your mouth shut about that shit, that's uncalled for man. Get real.
don't worry i'm not the type of guy desperate enough to risk jail for sex. Kittie i'm sorry that happened to you no one should have to be put through that.
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KiTTie8695
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yeah you will haha that's my boy right there^
It's alright Pokey Bear, I don't usually tell people that although back in my beginning here at the forums I had a thread about it, but I'd rather not go back, it's too painful to look at it nevermind dealing with the flashbacks.
anyways, back on topic....sorry
It's alright Pokey Bear, I don't usually tell people that although back in my beginning here at the forums I had a thread about it, but I'd rather not go back, it's too painful to look at it nevermind dealing with the flashbacks.
anyways, back on topic....sorry
well I would love to tell you what to do but im about as hooped as you the only thing i can really say is, if you have a couple friends that just ooze confidence (in life in generaL) even if you don't like them that much or you find them annoying, hang around them a little more often and the confidence that they have in themselves will rub off on you.
For the random meeting thing the one thing i have found is that the key to all of it is when you first notice each other, once you catch her looking at you or you looking at her you have about a 10 second window to make your move (whether its a wink, smile, introduction...) and after that you shot is gone because in those ten seconds she is mentally putting a read on you by what she sees (posture, confidence, how you are around those near you), and you have that amount of time to break up that mind process and leave her questioning herself on how she read you. Another one is once you have introduced yourself once that conversation has happened and you have gone back to your respecatable spots in the bar, forget about her cause if she sees or catches you looking at her she knows that shes in your head and is either going to play hard to get or is going to wait for you to make the move.
the only reason i know this is for the last 10 months i have been helping out dj's at a bar i used to bounce at and we would always get the girls up to request songs, they would introduce themselves give their request and leave. and i would just go back to doing what i was doing talking with the dj, making fun of the bartenders over the mic, laughing at no-rythem-males who are dancing etc. So i always looked like i had alterior things going whenever i was watching someone in the bar.
but then again if you read my problem in here... I don't know shit so, take whatever it for what its worth.
And IW8 you are really starting to remind me of myself on these situations. And im glad i have someone like you to help me cause i have been able to help out all kinds of friends with their girl issues but as soon as it comes down to me (IM FUCKD) and i think its because when it comes to thinking about others there is no emotion in it, its all knowlegde or experience. EMOTION fucks everything up horribly.
There that is my speach for the day hope it was helpful, if it wasn't then im just a babbeling canadian that doesn't know shit. either way it occupied a bit of time before i have to get ready for work. Thanks for listening and i hope this helps someone.
For the random meeting thing the one thing i have found is that the key to all of it is when you first notice each other, once you catch her looking at you or you looking at her you have about a 10 second window to make your move (whether its a wink, smile, introduction...) and after that you shot is gone because in those ten seconds she is mentally putting a read on you by what she sees (posture, confidence, how you are around those near you), and you have that amount of time to break up that mind process and leave her questioning herself on how she read you. Another one is once you have introduced yourself once that conversation has happened and you have gone back to your respecatable spots in the bar, forget about her cause if she sees or catches you looking at her she knows that shes in your head and is either going to play hard to get or is going to wait for you to make the move.
the only reason i know this is for the last 10 months i have been helping out dj's at a bar i used to bounce at and we would always get the girls up to request songs, they would introduce themselves give their request and leave. and i would just go back to doing what i was doing talking with the dj, making fun of the bartenders over the mic, laughing at no-rythem-males who are dancing etc. So i always looked like i had alterior things going whenever i was watching someone in the bar.
but then again if you read my problem in here... I don't know shit so, take whatever it for what its worth.
And IW8 you are really starting to remind me of myself on these situations. And im glad i have someone like you to help me cause i have been able to help out all kinds of friends with their girl issues but as soon as it comes down to me (IM FUCKD) and i think its because when it comes to thinking about others there is no emotion in it, its all knowlegde or experience. EMOTION fucks everything up horribly.
There that is my speach for the day hope it was helpful, if it wasn't then im just a babbeling canadian that doesn't know shit. either way it occupied a bit of time before i have to get ready for work. Thanks for listening and i hope this helps someone.
good advice thnx.
bcboy said:
This is probably true. My issues right now stem from some traumatic things that happened as a kid, which have been brought back to the forefront of my mind because a girl I had interest in had similar things happen to her. Only while she and I both have had some really shitty times in life she is oviously the stronger of us. I do not understand what's going on with me lately though. The last say year and some odd months I haven't really even been looking to find anyone or even attract women. But then this one showed interest and I got curious only to find that her life had fallen apart all over again in ways I can't comprehend. But yeah eventually (probably when I graduate) I'll settle into some form of confidence and have actual focus and goals in life. Confidence and direction are two things I'm missing right now. I'm floating around it feels like, but it can only get better...even though I just got "let go" at work. It was mostly my fault, but the administrators could have given me some kind of indication...they sure as hell didn't tell the managers much. Sorry for my own ramblings lol. Back on topic...
Pokey Bear don't think about anything other than the fact that you would like her company. Ask her over and then just talk to her. If you make it simple the pressure is off of the both of you and you can really start off on the right foot.
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iwant8inches said:
Ahh you mean a fanny rat,patter merchant (fanny in the uk is slang for a womens genitals)
Game is all superficial!You may have loads of game, and attract all the girls, but eventually you will find one that you want to keep!So do you drop the game pretense, and allow her to know you for whom you really are?If so, perhaps she will find you boring, after you come down to earth, and sees the real you!!?? Sooooooooooooo!
The best thing is to be yourself, be confident, interesting, well read on many topics, a good listener, not self centered & egotistical,polite, respectful, fun to be with, optimistic, with romance in your eyes, and a lot of mystic about you.Even though you may develop many of these attributes, this is by no means a guarantee that you will have 100% success.Everyone has there own ideas of what they want in a partner, so make sure you are prepared for rejection, and not to take it personally!Also, this translates to other areas of life to like, jobs,dealing with people, etc.
The best thing is to be yourself, be confident, interesting, well read on many topics, a good listener, not self centered & egotistical,polite, respectful, fun to be with, optimistic, with romance in your eyes, and a lot of mystic about you.Even though you may develop many of these attributes, this is by no means a guarantee that you will have 100% success.Everyone has there own ideas of what they want in a partner, so make sure you are prepared for rejection, and not to take it personally!Also, this translates to other areas of life to like, jobs,dealing with people, etc.
well guys all is good. She came over to study for our test in econ on wednesday and well we studied more then the book if you know what I mean. I thought you guys could use a story so here goes. We started out making out on my bed and after a while I got brave and started feeling up her breast. When she didn't fight back I pulled off her shirt and her bra and I started to lick on her nipples until she got aroused and still kept doing at it. I started to take her pants off and I started to gently massage my hands up and down her lips making sure to stay away from her clit till she got aroused. Then I started fingering her with one finger being as she's a virgin going slowly in and out making sure not to go fast. Then she had to go to bathroom and when she came back she pulled her pants off for me so I started to eat her out. Same as with the hands I stayed away from her clit and went down and up her outer lips then moving to her inner lips until she started to get wet. Then I moved up to her clit and stayed there and it only took like 60 seconds to get her off man her legs were squeezing my head thought it was gonna go flying off. Her orgasm lasted like 30-40 seconds i'd say and she didn't gush a lot but she was flowing pretty good. so I grabbed a condom from my desk and I entered her missionary style very slowly giving her walls time to stretch for my penis. I made sure to look at the clock 8:22pm when I first started. I went slowly in and out deeper and deeper with each thrust. She was so tight I could feel her walls stretch with every thrust. FInally when I felt her walls start to get a little looser I started to speed up and I stayed in that position and by this time it was starting to feel better for her cause she was moaning. I switched over behind her not doggy style buy lying on the bed and laying on my side and entering her from behind like that. she just laid there and took it like a champ. I went slow at first but I started to speed up and at the end I was going as fast as I could at the end. I finished off with missionary position but she wasn't very good at that thought I guess you can't expect many virgins to be good at that position. so I did that for a few minutes and then I pulled out and took my condom off and I told her to suck my dick and at his point I was about to cum so I needed a little cool down. She was actually a lot better at it then I thought she would be. She was going like 3 inches down and it didn't take long so I grabbed my cock and she was on her back and I came on her face and I shot like 4 spurts then gushed I think I nearly choked her lol. At the end it was 8:38 not bad for not jacking off for last couple days. Tell ya though for being a virgin she was surprisingly good. We aren't going out yet but I think I may ask her out lol well wish me luck with her guys all your advice helped. Wow imagine that lol jk
thnx man
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[P]okey[B]ear said:
You might, if you get drunk enough.Watch your alcohhol comsumption around girls. Your already on house arrest, so it looks as if you don't have inhabitions about breaking the law.I just gotta look out for my brothers.
16 mins man??? Come on you gotta give us a longer proformance than that! Naw 16mins is good especially if your not used to getting pussy. Next time rock her world and go for at least 45mins. To help you out in this mission think of sex as a Penis Enlargement exercise, edge while your having sex, until you can't take it anymore. She will never forget you if you do this, trust me!
Great story!
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wasn't sexy for 18 minutes I spent like 30 an hour on foreplay and making out and shit
Check out fastseduction.com or sosuave.com There is a lot of junk out there, but you can find some good info.
Hey, you boned her and were her first. You're obviously attracted to you from what you said earlier. Go out and spend more time with her. You'll likely fuck more and it may turn into a great relationship.
I hope so thnx for the support man
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:B&E boning is such an ugly word can't we say fucking
Breaking & Entering, I would guess.
Sounds like house arrest isn't too bad after all. I'm sure she can make the time fly by...
Sounds like house arrest isn't too bad after all. I'm sure she can make the time fly by...
lol yeah and you guessed right
Kal-el said:
Damn Kal, that's pretty shitfaced, I would think.
penguinsfan said:
Yea, I used to live on the edge, so to speak, I believe I was only 21 when that happened. That was my 2nd D.U.I. 3 maddogs is alot for me, as I'm only 5'3", around 120lbs. I can't believe I was even driving. I think I was annebriated after the first Maddog, I just kept drinking.
lol w.e.
Kal-el said:
I was never really hard into partying too much. I'll tie one on once in a while, but not too often. Hell, now that I'm old, it just plains hurts to do it now and then.
I never really wanted to get caught up in the scene and risk addiction to anything. I just consider myself motivated, with more ideas than I'll every pursue and I can't let intoxication rule my life. But there was a time several years back when I got into a stage where I'd get trashed a couple times a week and the real difference is I would drink EVERY SINGLE DAY. It was almost routine that I would have 4-6 beers at one of the bars on the way home from work. One night, I went out drinking with my friend Geoff and the two of us killed about 36 beers, split pretty evenly. Geoff was a real partyer in my eyes, but at the end of the night, he was clearly trashed and I wasn't that bad. Oh, I'm sure we both appeared pretty drunk to any bystander, but he was clearly more shitfaced than me. Anyway, I started to realize I was truly building up a considerable tolerance to alcohol and I also realized that I didn't want to go a day without drinking. Notice I said didn't want to. I hadn't reached the couldn't want to stage at this point. Anyway, I decided to greatly reduce my drinking and never went back to making it a daily event. I probably have a couple beers once a month and a dozen drinks once or twice a year.
Kal-el said:
3 MD 20/20's damn man that is fuckin nuts, and you got behind the wheel??? Shit.... Sounds like some shit I did when I was about 18 or 19!!! Try drinking a 5th of Jeger and waking up in the morning with 2 slices of pizza stuck on your back and a bicycle you have never seen before in your front yard! Somewhere that night I stole it and rode it home from wherever I was at. On top of all that, waking up to the sound of your P.O. knocking on the door for your monthly home visit! Damn I barley made it through that one! rofl
all about absinthe good shit
Yay For Hijacking A Thread!
everything is good sex like every other day. But this damn house arrest makes it so difficult for us to see each other regularly. I can't wait till I get off.
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