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I have a small penis. 6.25BPenis EnlargementL and 5.) EG. I started Penis Enlargement once a few years ago but found it difficult to maintain the drive to keep going. The lack of results always kill any motivation I have to keep going or get started. I have the same problem with going to the gym as well (off the subject, I know). But it seems that no matter how dedicated I am to anything involving bettering my body I can't seem to keep it going and normally end up just getting depressed. So here I am now, out of shape and with an average penis.

The average penis thing I had actually gotten over, until my wife of 10 years left me and I was back on the field again. Then I meet a great girl, who says she loves the size of my penis, but I know for a fact that she has had several lovers with much larger members and it always lingers in the back of my mind.

I feel thoroughly inadequate in all aspects of my physical appearance and then this creeps back up again. What the hell am I going to do?
 
Do the Dew dude777 man. She's the most you will ever have left to let go SO give the Vortex a reason to speak

The Dew

The gyyyyym.?.? Didn't yo mama eva give ya a spakin' to jump that ass outta bed fo school in the a.m.
 
dude777;404554 said:
I have a small penis. 6.25BPenis EnlargementL and 5.) EG. I started Penis Enlargement once a few years ago but found it difficult to maintain the drive to keep going. The lack of results always kill any motivation I have to keep going or get started. I have the same problem with going to the gym as well (off the subject, I know). But it seems that no matter how dedicated I am to anything involving bettering my body I can't seem to keep it going and normally end up just getting depressed. So here I am now, out of shape and with an average penis.

The average penis thing I had actually gotten over, until my wife of 10 years left me and I was back on the field again. Then I meet a great girl, who says she loves the size of my penis, but I know for a fact that she has had several lovers with much larger members and it always lingers in the back of my mind.

I feel thoroughly inadequate in all aspects of my physical appearance and then this creeps back up again. What the hell am I going to do?[/QUOTE]

1. Dig your balls out of whatever you use for a purse
2. Get the fuck up off your ass and get to work
3. Quit the fuckin' sniveling.

Are you a healthy, rational, full-grown man? Are you in control of your decisions and actions?
If so: Then make some and take some.
If you choose failure you have only yourself to blame.
If you choose success you have only your life to gain.

Get to it.
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I have a small penis. 6.25BPenis EnlargementL and 5.) EG. I started Penis Enlargement once a few years ago but found it difficult to maintain the drive to keep going. The lack of results always kill any motivation I have to keep going or get started. I have the same problem with going to the gym as well (off the subject, I know). But it seems that no matter how dedicated I am to anything involving bettering my body I can't seem to keep it going and normally end up just getting depressed. So here I am now, out of shape and with an average penis.

The average penis thing I had actually gotten over, until my wife of 10 years left me and I was back on the field again. Then I meet a great girl, who says she loves the size of my penis, but I know for a fact that she has had several lovers with much larger members and it always lingers in the back of my mind.

I feel thoroughly inadequate in all aspects of my physical appearance and then this creeps back up again. What the hell am I going to do?
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Yo,Dude777

Maxameyes is right about everything he said,First and foremost check this out,

1. Dig your balls out of whatever you use for a purse
2. Get the fuck up off your ass and get to work
3. Quit the fuckin' sniveling.

Are you a healthy, rational, full-grown man? Are you in control of your decisions and actions?
If so: Then make some and take some.
If you choose failure you have only yourself to blame.
If you choose success you have only your life to gain.

Get to it.
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Five Rules Of Shaolin Style:
1)Average Penis Length And Girth Is: 5.5x4 1/2
2)Man Up & Move On
3)Fuck The Bitch's Opinion,Ain't worth shit:(
4)Use That New Girl As Motivation To Grow Your Dick
5)Remember There Are People Around The World With Worse Problems Than You
 
Agreed. Forget your current girls past, and ignore that. In this moment, you are the best to her in her mind, and no one else matters.
 
The more anger and humiliation you get, use it to pump your aggression and set a routine to get at least 2 inches and don't stop till you finished!
 
For both of your problems, the motivation will have to come from with in. It sounds like you are through the contemplation stage of your problem, you have identified some goals, and now you are ready to put together an action plan to achieve those goals. That's great!
So, now, your ready to start. How can you improve your body? If you drink a lot, stop it, immediately. It's just empty calories, and a motivation killer, and will impair your ability to do Penis Enlargement or BB. Examine your diet, what needs to change? Is is the type of food you eat or the quantity of food that you eat or both? I just recently lost 30 lbs, and makes me feel great about myself. The first thing I did was to start with portion control. This is easily done. Simply say you are only going to eat half of what you have. Then, start substituting 'bad' foods with 'good' foods. At this point you will be happy to do it, because if you are starving, you will be able to eat more food. Once you have established this, sit down and really examine your diet, and what controls your diet. Lots of fast food drive throughs etc? For a week or so, write it all down, then see where you can go through and change it. Next, is exercise. If you are not doing any exercise at all, then anything you do will help. I started out by getting some very light dumb bells, and as I sat my ass in front of the tv at night, instead of drinking beer, I worked those dumb bells. No set routine or rhythum, just keep in motion, and burning calories. When the commercials come on, get in the floor and do some ab work or some press ups or good stretching. You don't have to start out as a seasoned gym rat. Find what works with you, your schedule and your life style. You will find that there are lots of opportunities to do 10 press ups or situps or tug on your penis for 20 minutes. I also bought a subscription to a Men's Health and Fitness magazine, having that arrive in the mail 1 x a month has been a good motivator for me. Good Luck. If you want some tips on the loosing weight, write me.
 
How old are you anyway? I'm 22, never had any true life experience despite that I scream for it. You let the life experience you DO have get you down and I don't see why that is the case. Hell I've never been married and never had sex with anyone; had one relationship over a long-distance that lasted 3 years and ended up tears majorly. Also my penis is smaller than you, 5.5BPL w/ 4.5G and I'm considered average. But I'm overweight so it hardly looks like that. Imagine what it's like trying to make sure I don't fuck up my college life. I don't mind if I have bad experiences, just don't want a lack of it.

It's tough love and not sympathetic love since you have more power than you seem to have convinced yourself you have. It's all you. Go do some stuff.
 
just to give some more love (not as tough as the rest of the posts)

Simply learn to get success!

it is really simple. most people have big goals lvl 100. well thats good.
and they have big ambitions lvl100. nice.
and their dedication is at lvl 1 :)

simply lvl your dedication.

How you may ask?

everytime you fail your dedication goes down. so that is not the right way to do it.

make a list of things you want to do:

lose weight. (lets say 20kg as a end goal)

get a six pack

better economy (end goal millionaire)

10 inch cock.

now if this is the list.

lets start by saying:
walk 5 km per day (will get the fat burning going)
switch out candy with nuts and dry fruit)

now do this for 1 week. and then,,,,, CELEBRATE! give yourself a gift. (perhaps headphones for your walking)

everytime you succeed at something, you get a little better at succeeding. eventually you will jump into hard missions, and just stay focused forever. because you don't care about loosing it is not an option anymore you just do your thing untill you succeed.
 
aimingForTheTop has it right. The key is setting small goals you can obtain which will increase your confidence at every milestone. Then keep raising your goals.
 
I have to agree with the tough love - stop getting down about the past - its happened and you cant change it - think about those that you can control - I have had alot of serious shit in my life to deal with but rather than get down because of it, I have learned from it, become stronger and get motivated from it - just like most of the guys here. Dont like your cock - fine - fix it. Dont like your body - then fix it. It takes work and time - believe in your self and start taking action towards your goals. Good luck
 
shavenasian;404692 said:
I have to agree with the tough love - stop getting down about the past - its happened and you cant change it - think about those that you can control - I have had alot of serious shit in my life to deal with but rather than get down because of it, I have learned from it, become stronger and get motivated from it - just like most of the guys here. Dont like your cock - fine - fix it. Dont like your body - then fix it. It takes work and time - believe in your self and start taking action towards your goals. Good luck
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Excellent Advise!
 
Lot of really awesome replies...

It's interesting to realize you can stand up to yourself/mind. So often our minds can beat us down with so many obsessive and neurotic thoughts, a lot of which can perpetuate insecurities and notions of who we are. We don't have to be helpless/suBathmateissive before those thoughts though...literally, tell them "no".

"My penis isn't big enough", "I'm not good enough", etc. etc., just let the thoughts come up and let them go. Recognize the thought and realize you don't have to believe it. It's just a thought and can't hurt you. In this way, you can simply retrain your mind into no longer believing it. Unlearn who you are or who you think you are and totally unburden yourself or yourself. It's extraneous!

Heh, all easier said than done, but we do our best...
 
Your problem is in your mind. Reality is often a good thing however, but the confidence you had with your ex is still inside you, you just need to know how to access it.

On the gym and physical conditioning goals, its as simple as making a committment to yourself and sticking to it. Its INTEGRITY unto yourself. That you will not LIE to yourself, and get it done.

Negative self thought, negative chatter, consistent negativity and put downs from friends etc - get rid of them unless somehow you use it to help you.

On the females. Your size is what it is, but there is an entirely different aspect in the bedroom that many are missing. Its about how you make them feel, and much often this is based on your confidence, your attitude and how you treat them. Many great lovers have had a tool the size that you do. So don't worry about it.

You are on a Penis Enlargement site though, so do what you can while your not worrying about what it currently is.
 
i haven't read everyone elses replies...but i'm sure i'm gonna pretty much state what has already been said...you have to want it...dedication to pe is a difficult thing...but the only person that can motivate you is you...if you try to do if for someone else i.e a girl...then your motivation would be loss with every argument or break up or anything else that can cause turmoil in your relationship.....take it like rehab...one day at a time...build yourself up...try to stay consistent...the more you go at it..the more it would become part of your life...if your not looking forward to pe..then you probably gonna waste ure time cuz it takes a lot of time and effort to get anything out of it...hang in there
 
twins172_up;408018 said:
i haven't read everyone elses replies...but i'm sure i'm gonna pretty much state what has already been said...you have to want it...dedication to pe is a difficult thing...but the only person that can motivate you is you...if you try to do if for someone else i.e a girl...then your motivation would be loss with every argument or break up or anything else that can cause turmoil in your relationship.....take it like rehab...one day at a time...build yourself up...try to stay consistent...the more you go at it..the more it would become part of your life...if your not looking forward to pe..then you probably gonna waste ure time cuz it takes a lot of time and effort to get anything out of it...hang in there
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Excellent Advice!
 
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