So I just made some sweet lovin' to a gorgeous gal. Went all night, then all day. Size was great, [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] was great, erection quality was great, can't wait to do it all again! rofl
Here's what I found worked for me:
I didn't ejaculate for 4 days beforehand. I was also doing a 20-40 minute girth session each of those 4 days. So how did I not shoot off as soon as I was in her? I edged as well as something akin to edging, I call it
Stabilizing
-- masturbating at 100% erection while maintaining 50% arousal level. This is done for 20-40 minutes per session, with or without the aid of adult entertainment.
So I would stabilize for 10 minutes, bring myself to 96% arousal level, then bring myself down to 50% either by decreasing stimulation, turning off adult entertainment, or after a while I could do it by mental command.
Not ejaculating is key. After I got the hang of reducing my arousal state, I could bring it down to 0-10% pretty easily without discomfort or that 'clogged' feeling of the need to ejaculate. Not ejaculating (yet still Stabilizing) will keep libido high, create good spontaneous erections, morning wood and has given me some of the BEST girth sessions I've had in a long time.
So when I found myself with a girl, I could keep my cool, knowing how to communicate with my body and manage my arousal level. I think that Stabilizing also allows your body to engage the tissues involved in a long-term erection i.e. sex.
Happy Penis Enlargementing!
Here's what I found worked for me:
I didn't ejaculate for 4 days beforehand. I was also doing a 20-40 minute girth session each of those 4 days. So how did I not shoot off as soon as I was in her? I edged as well as something akin to edging, I call it
Stabilizing
-- masturbating at 100% erection while maintaining 50% arousal level. This is done for 20-40 minutes per session, with or without the aid of adult entertainment.
So I would stabilize for 10 minutes, bring myself to 96% arousal level, then bring myself down to 50% either by decreasing stimulation, turning off adult entertainment, or after a while I could do it by mental command.
Not ejaculating is key. After I got the hang of reducing my arousal state, I could bring it down to 0-10% pretty easily without discomfort or that 'clogged' feeling of the need to ejaculate. Not ejaculating (yet still Stabilizing) will keep libido high, create good spontaneous erections, morning wood and has given me some of the BEST girth sessions I've had in a long time.
So when I found myself with a girl, I could keep my cool, knowing how to communicate with my body and manage my arousal level. I think that Stabilizing also allows your body to engage the tissues involved in a long-term erection i.e. sex.
Happy Penis Enlargementing!