I LOVE my new dick!

[homelesswombat]

So I just made some sweet lovin' to a gorgeous gal. Went all night, then all day. Size was great, [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] was great, erection quality was great, can't wait to do it all again! rofl

Here's what I found worked for me:

I didn't ejaculate for 4 days beforehand. I was also doing a 20-40 minute girth session each of those 4 days. So how did I not shoot off as soon as I was in her? I edged as well as something akin to edging, I call it

Stabilizing
-- masturbating at 100% erection while maintaining 50% arousal level. This is done for 20-40 minutes per session, with or without the aid of adult entertainment.

So I would stabilize for 10 minutes, bring myself to 96% arousal level, then bring myself down to 50% either by decreasing stimulation, turning off adult entertainment, or after a while I could do it by mental command.

Not ejaculating is key. After I got the hang of reducing my arousal state, I could bring it down to 0-10% pretty easily without discomfort or that 'clogged' feeling of the need to ejaculate. Not ejaculating (yet still Stabilizing) will keep libido high, create good spontaneous erections, morning wood and has given me some of the BEST girth sessions I've had in a long time.

So when I found myself with a girl, I could keep my cool, knowing how to communicate with my body and manage my arousal level. I think that Stabilizing also allows your body to engage the tissues involved in a long-term erection i.e. sex.

Happy Penis Enlargementing!

 

[DLD]

Sounds incredible...send some women my way

 

[BazookaJoe]

Sounds incredible...send some women my way

Ditto , just along as they're hot!

 

[El.Tin]

The hardest thing....when your almost there you have to turn around

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

I know exactly how you feel. Having that much control also lets you really pay attention to how she is feeling and reacting.

BTW you do have a big dick! At over 7" most girls would call that a big one. Congrats.

 

[DLD]

The hardest thing....when your almost there you have to turn around

Keeps it hard though

 

[homelesswombat]

The hardest thing....when your almost there you have to turn around

I suppose. I've personally discovered that having a greater love for sex as a whole than for just orgasm has changed my mind a lot, and hence my body. It's not hard to turn around when you're going back to your favorite place!

Sounds incredible...send some women my way

Ditto , just along as they're hot!

If roly-poly little Asian women are your style rofl they're my favorite :s

 

[DLD]

It's not hard to turn around when you're going back to your favorite place!

Unless there is a huge load dripping out

 

[longerandlonger]

So basically, do edging but never actually ejaculate during the session? I do edging and then ejaculate at the end of the session, but you say the key to curing premature ejaculation is to not ejaculate in your edging session at all?

 

[twins172_up]

Congrats to you...it does sound a lot like edging...glad that its working for ya.

 

[homelesswombat]

It is a lot like edging. But some sessions I never even get close to orgasm. It makes a big difference. Stabilizing is just about feeling the sexual energy run through our body, and enjoying that lower level hum. The goal of stabilizing is not to 'get as close to the point of no return' and then step back. The goal is to find 40%-60% arousal and just hang out there.